Summary: 

Parents naturally want to protect their kids from disappointment and failure—but sometimes our help can actually get in the way of their growth. In this episode, Shaunti and Jeff talk about the growing trend of “snowplow parenting,” where parents try to clear every obstacle out of their child’s path. Through stories, research insights, and practical wisdom, they explore how well-meaning parents can unintentionally prevent their kids from learning resilience and responsibility. You’ll hear why allowing natural consequences can actually be a gift—and how to support your kids without removing every challenge in front of them. 

For Parents Only

https://shaunti.com/2024/05/how-to-stop-being-a-snowplow-parent-part-1/

https://shaunti.com/2024/05/how-to-stop-being-a-snowplow-parent-part-2/

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/16/style/snowplow-parenting-scandal.html

Summary:&nbsp;
Parents naturally want to protect their kids from disappointment and failure&mdash;but sometimes our help can&nbsp;actually get&nbsp;in the way of their growth. In this episode, Shaunti and Jeff talk about the growing trend of&nbsp;&ldquo;snowplow parenting,&rdquo;&nbsp;where parents try to clear every obstacle out of their child&rsquo;s path. Through stories, research insights, and practical wisdom, they explore how well-meaning parents can unintentionally prevent their kids from learning resilience and responsibility.&nbsp;You&rsquo;ll hear why allowing natural consequences can actually be a gift&mdash;and how to support your kids without removing every challenge in front of them.&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Parents-Only-Getting-Inside-Head/dp/1590529324/?tag=shaunticom-20">For Parents Only</a>
<a href="https://shaunti.com/2024/05/how-to-stop-being-a-snowplow-parent-part-1/">https://shaunti.com/2024/05/how-to-stop-being-a-snowplow-parent-part-1/</a>
<a href="https://shaunti.com/2024/05/how-to-stop-being-a-snowplow-parent-part-2/">https://shaunti.com/2024/05/how-to-stop-being-a-snowplow-parent-part-2/</a>
<a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/16/style/snowplow-parenting-scandal.html">https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/16/style/snowplow-parenting-scandal.html</a>

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I Wish You Could Hear This

Relationship tripwires. Mental health puzzles. Confusing work dynamics. You&rsquo;re not the only one scratching your head. But now you have a secret decoder ring! Each episode of I Wish You Could Hear This is packed with proven, simple, and surprising secrets that help you thrive in life, faith, and relationships. Researchers Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn have spent decades interviewing and surveying more than 40,000 people to identify the little things that make a big difference in our lives. They&rsquo;re Harvard-educated, Christian authors and speakers who also happen to be happily married, analytically minded, and a whole lot of fun! Join them and their guests for real stories, real help, and real hope.

Are You Snowplow Parenting? When Helping Your Kids Too Much Hurts Them - Episode 37

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/5e27a451-e6e6-4c51-aa03-a7370003783c/clips/996185f2-f175-4399-8df2-b40f01888693/transcript