This episode is a deep dive into one of the most misunderstood parts of modern relationships: desire. We unpack what desire really is (and what it isn’t), explore why it fades in long-term partnerships, and get honest about why feeling touched-out, overwhelmed, or emotionally unsupported makes intimacy feel like the last thing on your mind. We talk about spontaneous vs. responsive desire, the impact of resentment, and what actually turns us off, from the mental load to incapable partners. You’ll also hear about the surprising concept of narcissistic validation and why many women feel most turned on when they feel deeply wanted. Whether your sex drive has flatlined, feels confusing, or you just want more clarity, this episode will help you understand desire in a whole new way.

 

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This episode is a deep dive into one of the most misunderstood parts of modern relationships: desire. We unpack what desire really is (and what it isn&rsquo;t), explore why it fades in long-term partnerships, and get honest about why feeling touched-out, overwhelmed, or emotionally unsupported makes intimacy feel like the last thing on your mind. We talk about spontaneous vs. responsive desire, the impact of resentment, and what actually turns us off, from the mental load to incapable partners. You&rsquo;ll also hear about the surprising concept of narcissistic validation and why many women feel most turned on when they feel deeply wanted. Whether your sex drive has flatlined, feels confusing, or you just want more clarity, this episode will help you understand desire in a whole new way.
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Almost Forty is for the woman who feels pulled towards growth- in all areas of life. With honest reflections and thoughtful conversations - Almost Forty dives into the big and small life lessons about love, identity, purpose, motherhood, change and everything that happens when you start prioritising and connecting with yourself. It’s heartfelt, relatable and real. Hosted by Kylie Lately- Business Owner, Mentor, Mum and creator of the Almost Confidential series- Kylie uses her training in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to approach the topics that matter during this stage of life. Subscribe to Almost Confidential for extra unfiltered reflections.

Almost Forty is for the woman who feels pulled towards growth- in all areas of life. With honest reflections and thoughtful conversations - Almost Forty dives into the big and small life lessons about love, identity, purpose, motherhood, change and everything that happens when you start prioritising and connecting with yourself. It&rsquo;s heartfelt, relatable and real. Hosted by Kylie Lately- Business Owner, Mentor, Mum and creator of the Almost Confidential series- Kylie uses her training in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to approach the topics that matter during this stage of life. Subscribe to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/almost-forty/id1453463089">Almost Confidential</a> for extra unfiltered reflections.

Almost Forty

I am. with Kylie Lately is the podcast for women who want to know, like, love and value themselves more than ever before.





Through personal reflections, regular overshares and curious conversations with a variety of guests you will finish each episode feeling like you’ve just had a proper soul catch up with your best friend.





We take life lessons and turn them into the fuel that fires your one precious life. 

I am. with Kylie Lately is the podcast for women who want to know, like, love and value themselves more than ever before.
 
 
Through personal reflections, regular overshares and curious conversations with a variety of guests you will finish each episode feeling like you’ve just had a proper soul catch up with your best friend.
 
 
We take life lessons and turn them into the fuel that fires your one precious life.