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Published Jan 14, 2025, 10:00 PM

In this episode, Ashley, Alexis, and Sharelle discuss Pamela Anderson's decision not to wear makeup, Simone Biles debating whether or not to compete in the 2028 Los Angeles Olympics, WILD mailbag question about threesome etiquette, the Bloc, Unfollow, Mute Game, and much more! Join the Humble Baddies for their first episode on Shay Shay Media!

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So this is part of the journey. Is just the beginning. This is just the beginning. My god, I'm a little scared crazy. Yeah, I don't know what we're gonna talk about. I feel like we don't talked about everything. We got to talk tomorrow. We got to like get into my business and stuff like yet in the family. Now we're family with our family. Family. We all want so everyone is invested in us. Are you all ready? Like, are y'all really ready? We have so much you know, and we're going on tour. Even girls, stop telling the people everything. No that it ain't telling everything they need to know. Get ready, say put some money. It's hard, no, but we're speaking it to existence. It ain't telling me. We gotta let the people know to save and be prepared to take that lead and to see it in person. Pull up, show up, Yeah for us? Yes there y'all. Y'all, y'all show love, y'all really do they do all right? We're gonna get this podcast started. You guys. I am Sharrell Risotto. You can find me on Instagram, Charrell Risotto Underscore. I'm Ashley in a Call you can find me at Ashley in a Call on on social media.

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And we are the Humble, Battiest Grub. We're gonna go into the first topic, you guys. Pamela Anderson attended the Golden Globe Awards without makeup. I saw that she's been doing that. Yeah, that's her thing. So it definitely sparked the conversation in the beauty world, like is this the new trend? I feel like it was something great because we're so used to just throwing on so much makeup, and we think that is what defines us as a woman, that is the beauty, but it's not. I mean, I'm I'm a prime example of it. I feel like I'm only cute when I throw on the makeup. Do you cover up the front beautiful? I feel like that. I feel like, dang, I look ugly. I need to go put on something. But that's just that's the mindset we have put out in the world. So big shout out to Pamela Anderson for doing that and reminding women that it's okay to be seen and show the world that you have natural beauty, that you're beautiful so and to age gracefully and that age is okay and looking your age is okay. Absolutely, Yeah, especially like in Hollywood. You know, like I'm sure she's probably she's like a unicorn, Like they're not doing that. Everybody's trying to figure out like the founding of youth. Really that's like what doctor do I go to? A procedure? Do I need? What makeup artists? What hair extension? Like everything that you need to make yourself look like something? And she's really, you know, sending out a different message. And I love that. I think that's amazing. Alicia Key, she does the whole.

Yeah. Yeah, yeah, that's who really got me into like introduced me to that. Really that balls, you know what I mean, the balls the confidence of like, you know what, I don't need this. I can go out there. My voice is what everyone wants to hear. I want to not wear makeup. I'm like being a tomboy. I'm really just getting into the makeup.

Low key.

My darters are the ones that are very much girly, very much into like showing me what to do, and so like for them to be put on a pedestal, meaning like celebrities to always be glammed up, always be ready, be on. I think it's admirable for you know, Pamela Anderson, who was like a sex symbol you know with Baywatch, to you like, you know what, I'm just gonna bear it all. This is who I really am, and without all of this, this is who I am.

It's Pamela Anderson. So we we we shout out to her being a humble batty like that.

You know, I'm gonna take it back because last week before my best friend actually actually you could testify to this last time looking like a mole. Rat, I was looking sick, actually, tell the truth. I mean I wanted to say, Rat. It was just sad, you know, the I needed the last the lashes they did, Yeah, they a little sparse, they were a little sparse. Actually, was like we was at the house getting our last is done at like one o'clock in the marketing. Yeah that's how Actually you pulled out. I was like yeah, I was like yeah, yeah, I set the table up I said, he'll emergency emergency. Yeah, I get the last lives three and a half hours away from us, and we was like, we can't keep on going out was fine, No I needed, but I was looking horrible. I was. It was like I was here, he did us good. All I know is we needed that shout out to gg. Shout out to gg in these beautiful lash out. But don't y'all feel like you like once your lashes on was popping, the skin was going, I'm like, okay, yeah, and I got my eyebrows done. I see that ye got them touched up.

So that's like your go to is like the brow if the brow and the lashes on it and in a little lipos.

So my thing is like I'm cool with the whole glam thing, but you just got to make sure like you're taking care of what's under it. So like I'm cool with the glam, like wear your makeup full glam, but make sure you take care of your skin, you know what I mean. I'm cool with the wigs and the weaves and the extensions, but make sure you're taking care of like your natural hair under it, you know what I mean? Like I think you know you just there has to be a balance for everything, and I think that's you know, that's the balance. Like if you're going to spend all that money on the hair, also spend the money on the hair care. You know what I mean. I agree with that. My question to you guys, back to Pamela Anderson her going on the Red Carpet without makeup. Would y'all attend a big awards ceremony? I'm not life Actually your you are beautiful. Now, Yeah, I can do that at home. But if I'm going to a big event, no, bitch, I want to have like all the glamor, all the makeup, the big ass dress, the hills like everything. Bitch, I'm gonna come to you want to show up for shots, I'm gonna give it. Give okay time, you have given it for ten years straight. You gave, gave, gave, on the Red Carpet. Would you ever do a day a tom walking the Red Carpet with no makeup? Yeah? I probably would. Yeah, if I was, if I was already, it's in all the Red Carpets and I've done all the events and yeah, yeah I could see myself doing that. Yeah I would.

There there's a time where I was just like it was it's a chore for me, Like I feel like I got to get my makeup done rather because y'all know me, I'll show with nothing on and just be fine with it. Going back to what you said, Ashley, taking care of your skin, it's a priority for me, you know, making sure my skin stays.

Skin, be looking like a baby but likable. You have to look at them.

But it is like I was, I have to make sure when I get my makeup done that I have to take off my makeup at night.

You know. It's just I feel like I'm a little claustrophobic sometimes. But can you believe something, I'm getting used to it for two to three days, Yeah, I can't do. Some people I'm feeling like they want to save their girl. Girl. I'm guilty of it.

I got I like get home late and just look up lashes.

On the.

Horrible.

What I'm saying is some people will keep that same face on Saturday Friday night. Now that's just nasty and Saturday night and sometimes say that's just nasty, that's nasty, that's just hygiene, I think at that point, and laziness, that's nasty. That's different. But I mean, I'm I mean, I don't like go about my everyday life and like glam like make up like I'm very much you know, no makeup, like I just like a boy most of the time, like at home, you know what I mean. So I think you know, I like, I like both sides of it. I like, I honestly don't like wearing makeup. I feel I feel like it's too much on my face. And I feel like makeup at like five to ten years on me, and I love like a little it is not a little as well, that's what you feel. You feel like an age. Yes, it does, because people be like, dang, you look you look like like no, bring it down a nuts. But when I when I don't have makeup, it's like, oh, you look like you're in your late twenties. Yeah, it's because yours they're very useful. H that's great, Yeah they are. Yeah it is. I ain't got no damn freckles, so I'm gonna be putting on this makeup. So I got you don't need it, but you don't need it.

I remember this one time at actually speaking of major carpets, it was during the Mad Gala. I was so nervous because they everything has to be approved prior from your hair, your makeup, to what you're wearing, what your guest is wearing.

Everything for what what is this for the Mad Gala?

Yeah, that happens in May, and so you they almost want to test run of what you're coming out with to make sure you're on theme, to make sure you're on top of it. So like that pressure is on another level. And then you turn around and you see all these cameras and you see all of these you know, everyone is doing these live interviews, so you want to be on point. And then at the same time you turn around and like you know, everyone is on Everybody is like, you know, like performing and showing up and being honest. So I feel like it's like low key makeup can be like a mask to like almost cover blemishes, like you know, internal and physical blemishes, but at the same time, it's like people can they're kind of hiding behind that, you know what I mean of this glam of the big hair, the big lashes, the makeup and really, who are you?

I think it's art though I think I don't think it covers up. I think for majority it's art. It's just enhanced the beauty. It's it's a show like you don't when you especially for matt Yalla, you're enhancing the beauty. You're being extra absolutely very much extra one like you one in the more one. We need to see your pictures from when you went to the met girl, son, wen't judge. Send us the pictures we're gonna have. We're gonna see if if I hope you did as well. I hope you showed up and showed out because if you have to, you have to, We're gonna let you know. We're gonna let you. All right, we have well, y'all. Speaking of Pamela Anderson and her being such a hot girl, I have some other hot girl headline news. Okay, hot girl, So let's talk about Simone Bios. She's been in the headlines lately. She's contemplating going back to the Olympics in twenty twenty eight. Let me read what she said exactly. She said, I'm at a point in my career where I'm humble enough to know when to be done. And she said that it would be greedy for her to return to the to the Olympics in twenty twenty eight because there's almost nothing left for her to do. I think that's you know, first of all, obviously very humble of her because she is like one of the most well she is the most decorated gymnast and she's a mystery. She is a vamp. Yeah, a bad ass motherfucker. You'll standing in seat. She totally is. She is big vamp right now. You know she is.

She really is.

She's an amazing woman. And to know, you know that she's accomplished so much and she realizes that, you know, I've done what I needed to do. And I think, you know, it's great that she can take that self reflection and you know, give somebody else an opportunity to shine. She doesn't feel like she can get any higher in this in this space, so maybe it's time for her to move on into a different space. And I feel like she's also focusing on herself, her mental health, like taking care of herself, because when you devote so much time to be at the top, to be the goat of your sport, you're not taking time out for yourself internally, your your mom set and everything because you're so focusing on and so much pressure to it is. You know, like what if you don't perform like you did four years ago. What if you know and you know the world is these people are crazy. They are.

Little thing that she doesn't have.

One mess up? And then I see her out supporting her man. She's going to the game. I love it showing up for her man. That's beautiful. So what do you guys think about that? I feel like, you know, in our lives, there are times where we have to take a step back on and self reflecting, you know, make decisions where we feel like, you know, we need to move on to another space, like we've done everything we could do in this realm. I know, like Charille you and like the real estate industry, you opened up your brokerage, but now you're onto like developing. Is that is that? Would you say a time where you felt like you needed to move on in a different space and put in that specific topic, I would say it was more of growth. But I have a prime example where I felt like I needed to pull it back and I went to my leadership. I was at Eat seven, I had soldiers. I said, my mind is all fucked up. I just did two towards to Afghanistan. I'm hurt, I'm injured. If I'm not right, I can't train my soldiers to be right. It's time for me to step back because I don't want to lead them down the wrong path. They're looking up to me. So at that point when I went to my doctor, when I was talking to my therapist, I told them I can't do this anymore. It's not right. I'm feeling my soldiers if I continue to stay in and just stay in for the time and the payeeck, like very mature of you, very like intuitive of you. You know, to be able to like really just look within and realize how you you can affect other people, and that it's time for you to move to a different space. Yeah, because you go through so much and you'll know your mom set. It's not the same. You don't have the same drive as you had. But this was for me. I didn't have the same drive as I had before, and I had to reevaluate myself. I was like, I'm only failing my soldiers if I continue to stay for a paycheck.

Rightw and you can be your best self exactly wait to pivot for sure?

Thank you?

Absolutely?

Okay, So Lex, what about you, like, how do you know when it's time for you to like move forward.

Well, sometimes it's really out of your hands.

Low key.

Mine was out of my hands to shift my really my family dynamics during my divorce, for example, out of my hands, meaning like now I had to learn how to budget differently. I had to learn how to really run my household differently. I had to learn what it is that what it is for me to thrive and to really have a source of income and really just depend on a lexus and get my mental health together, really just really focus on getting back to who I am and self.

So sometimes you just don't have a choice.

Sometimes you have you have no choice, and so it's like, you know what, now I have to pick it up.

I need to figure this out.

I need to put my big girl panties on and say, you know what, Okay, now it's time for me to like catapult into where I need to be, into my essence, you.

Know, because we naturally go into the state of survivor mold that's it. So it's like, while you're in survival mode, you still fucked up mentally and you don't even know it because you're fighting for everything else and everyone else. At a point you're gonna break down, so you have to pull back and say, I got to take care of myself, yes, and that was my main priority.

I feel like I was almost just like numb, you know what I mean, kind of just kind of going through the motions of things and just letting things go. But then it turns into like being proactive and really much like.

Harness, like phases to it.

It is phases.

It is phases.

And I learned to give myself grace. I really learned how to be patient, you know what I mean, and not have this instant gratification of now now now, long term goals.

Make sure, and short term too.

But at the same time, it really just put an adjustment on me of where it is that I need to be and how I can be the most productive Alexis.

And you did that, Ship, Thank you you did.

And I feel like I'm still going to you know, it's constant. It is constant work. It's constant reevaluation and recalibrating and figuring things.

That's life. Life is just a kind of evolution and growth. And yeah, thank you. What about you, Ashley, Yes, Louise Ship, I mean I think for me, there was a big shift I would say when Phil retired, because you know, we were doing life a certain way that that I was in control of everything. You know, I was in control of home and how we did things. However, raised our son. You know what he ate, what he drank when he went to bed, what he did, what he wore everything, you know what I mean. And then you know, there's a lot of talk about when the guys retire, and it's a lot about him and not so much about you know, the woman, the wife or girlfriend whoever at home. And so I was prepared for him, but I wasn't prepared for like the adjustment that I needed to make. And so for me, I think I was in a space of you know, just thinking I had everything in control, and I knew that the system going, I had a system going, and I felt like if I wanted my marriage to survive the retirement, which you know, everybody knows statistic that, you know, once they retire, your marriage goes down the drain. You know, I knew that I had to make a shift, and so for me, it was it was that was shifting, you know, the way I think about things, the way I make decisions, the way I just do my everyday thing. So so it wasn't something that I, like you said, I was basically forced to do that. But yeah, but you did very well and every day every day on each other's nerves. So you know my feel and spoke about this. When was that the other day we were talking about like everything, we're gonna we're gonna redo the wedding and they are y'all compliment each other so way it's like you'all brothers and sisters, y'all get along family. Yeah, for love it it's beautiful, authentic love and feel be with as ships and everything. He'd be with the ship. Thank you Phil for being with the ship. Shut his boys, get your kids, get your kids. Absolutely, fuddy well, Simone, we're gonna be cheering for you whether you go to the Olympics or not. You are an amazing moment. You've accomplished so much and we were always gonna celebrate you because you've done so much as a black girl out here today. You are definitely our humble batty of the day. Shout out to Simone Bouts absolutely shout out to Simon. You are a humble baby and you are our bound period.

Ladies have a new game for you all.

Well, really for everybody, but for y'all specifically, I'm gonna give you guys four scenarios, and you let me know if we're going to block, unfollow, or mute this person.

Got it? Ok you guys got it? Got it all right?

Here's number one.

Your ex starts following you again, liking your photos, watching your stories on the daily, and clearly trying to slide back into your life.

Do you block, unfollow or mute?

Sounds like chat? What's forgiven? What's the given? Give? And follow back? I'm like, I'm a I'm you're gonna follow back?

Yeah, so it's like it's given Charrell, Then.

It's given. I ain't gonna I ain't gonna block. Okay, I wantn't block, but I wouldn't unfollow either. I mean wait, I'm already following him. Wait, how does it work?

Well, you're extra following you again, meaning you know that he's stopped.

Yeah, I wouldn't block him. I would let him. Look, I want them to say you need to being fabulous and whatnot.

I agree with that.

That's how you ain't nothing wrong with them saying a lot me. Watch me be fine, watch my quote gonna be make sure you see it, a friendly reminder, and I'm gonna tag you in it. Let us know what y'all would do.

Okay, yeah, but do you think that's like a like a green light to like open up the door, like a little flirt, a little like nudge.

It's just a if they're trying to know if they're trying to, like, if they're liking all of your pictures and they're trying to like get back in there. They can try all they want to, but I'm gonna entertain you and give you a friendly reminder, let you know what you're missing. I wouldn't give them no energy though. I'm not following back. I don't.

I'm not following back.

I'm not I'm not falling back. Y'all know y'all gonna be watching fall Away. I'm not watching showing, but you're gonna be watching. I might watch, but I like watching. You ain't watching. I don't need to you. Nope, don't even been there, done that yr Nope, don't even sell sound. I don't know. I can let me see that phone if they gotta say, let me we check it back check it.

No, I want you to watch me. I feel like if we're if that's my ex it's.

Do you follow each other? No, you had to think about that real long. But is he watching? Do you know? If he follow me? Is he watching you?

I think so for sure?

How can you not? I'm just saying period, Okay, you know, but no, I'm not okay, I've been there, done that. I'm very much like when we pass. Never stop acting like that. I spent the block many times over the years. Maybe it's a new route, nour is not going in that direction. You know how to give you three alternate routes. You know what I'm saying.

Yeah, no, okay, okay. Number two, your friend posts the worst photos of you on their feet.

Didn't ask, didn't were you?

It didn't definitely didn't choose you choose your good angles.

What's the move? Block, unfollowed or mute? I need that, bitch. It would never happen to me because first I say no to pictures anyway. And if one of my friends, who I call a friend, post, they know not to post no picture of me, and I'm looking crazy. So if your ass ever do that, one of my closest paters be hating, I'm block your ass. They really do?

They really do you gotta. I feel like you gotta like give everybody the airbrush. You gotta give everybody, Yeah, a light tap for something, you know. It's an equal opportunity.

My friends who look out for each other, like, we ain't finna post no picture looking crazy. No, I don't have to worry about that. It's like the approval. You're like, yeah, do you approve this? Is this cool? Do y'all be reposting pictures? Though? Like if it's an ugly picture and they posted it and you know they didn't mean no harm, but it's just an ugly ass picture. You know, I ain't gonna be post but I tell people quick if I ain't looking right, and I don't want to take that down. No, I'm not taking a picture, so you won't have it to.

You like, this is not an option.

No, no, ma'am. They may think I'm crazy, stink whatever. No, I'm not taking a picture. I'm not any so it's a block, unfollower. I mute. I'll mute somebody real quick. Like you look at me wrong, bitch, I'm gonnamute your ass, damn real. But muting is good for your mental I think it is. I mute people all the time. I don't even know how to mute people.

I'll show you, Yeah, we'll show you how to Will it let them know that them?

I don't know. I don't know if if it do, but it don't matter. I don't think it does. Block people now. I don't block nobody. I want that. I want them to see I want pages, though it ain't the real I can't give the damn I don't. I want them to be coming back around with a whole new page.

She'd be blocking the box, I sure do.

I don't care. I want them to see everything. I just don't want to see them. I'm like, but when they're desperate, they're gonna go create a whole other page. I don't give it down exactly. That's so simpless to block them. People have time. We just let them look from the page. The first one. You just gonna make another one. People have way too much time on it. Okay, so we muting her. What's next?

You're our friends having a blast and someone tags your location on Instagram? The catch you didn't want certain people knowing where you were. Are you gonna block, unfollow or mute.

I'm gonna call the ass out because what the fuck is you tagging our live location? I don't like that while we enjoy ourselves, Like, are you crazy?

It's dangerous.

Yes, it's very dangerous. I don't like it. But then again, my people don't have to do that. You know. Well, I don't know. I would probably, I would probably if it was an habitual thing, then I would probably unfollow because you don't have a good social media etiquette. That's fair. What about this one? In everything? You always pulling out your camera. I don't like that, not aware of what's going on in the scenes or anything. You know.

I like my extracurriculars, and so I don't need that to be you know, I'm going to be in my element.

Stuff is just not that's right, Yes, that's right. Yeah. Social media etiquette is a thing. It really is. It's a time and place to be posting for videos, for pictures, for everything. And if you don't got it, then yeah, you're gonna get on followed. I feel like.

I'm with you, Ash, I'm like, look, if it becomes habitual and this's ongoing thing, because it is a safety thing.

It's a safety concern. We are public figures.

People do know when we pull up we are very social, and so it becomes dangerous.

It can be dangerous.

Yes, even if you're not a public figure, you shouldn't know abody or you're act you know. Yeah, in the same time, I like this little game. Make sure you guys have come in how you would feel or if you agree with us, and we already know. Rails people don't do that. Rail people don't do that. It's a portion of people that I hang with and go out with, y'all, not people know. People know. Yeah, bitch, you're part of the people that we are. We have good. We have good as social media. We do. That's why I talk with y'all. We need get it, we get it, we get it.

Okay, here's the fourth Ladies, A close friend screenshots your story from close friends lists, and now it's circling back to you.

Block, unfollow or mute because follow block that ship out like all of that. Yeah, that's that's real bad d all of the above. Yeah, you shouldn't even be in the close Yeah you.

Got it going on that you're out the close friends and.

No you're that's a violation. You're done. Yeah, that's real bad. You gotta go.

The whole point of the close friends is to like cut up exactly, like to show up like talk ship.

I talked constantly, you have to be careful who you put in your close friends. I have seen a lot of females leak their close friends photos whatever, like it's all in the blocks. Like it's crazy, that's crazy.

That's not cool.

No, that's definitely if oh I got one. What what if a girl got your man and her close friends he don't know like you one and the more one is gonna be what you're gonna do. You're gonna follow that bitch block club. What you're gonna do, You're gonna get a good Yeah, because that's crazy to me, Like what why you got Yeah? Why why why would incests? Like yeah, you know what you're looking at me like that. I talk again, I talk a lot of shit in mind, Like I mean, I know ladies friends are just they just it's because they don't like yeah, it's not nothing like that. I don't care if even if it is close friends is something. What if you forget who you put in your close friends and get outside the box one day? Yeah that time, Yeah, I barely even follow other people men in general, Like if I don't already have like a relationship with you myself personally, then I don't need to follow your maggin. That's weird. That's weird. Social media etiquette, y'all, social media etiquette. Tell me what y'all think. Am I doing too much? I don't think so. No, that ain't doing too much. Let us know. They're gonna let us know, though, they gonna let us right now. It's time for Humble Batties mail time. All right, y'all, let's see who we got. Mind you. We don't know what the hell somebody.

Down, But thank you so much for sending in your inquiries because you'll end up here, so thank you.

Yes, Okay, hey ladies, it's sending from Memphis. Okay, from Memphis. First of all, I love the show. Y'all are killing it. Thank you, Cindy, thank you. Okay, So here's my dilemma. My husband and I are in a bit of a routine in the bedroom, same position, same move, same everything is starting to feel a little, you know, a little, That's what Cindy said. Okay, I'm ready to spice things up, and I've even thought about bringing in a third, a third air what I was ready? Okay, okay, the third or some toys. But I wanted to be fun, sexy and something that reignites the spark we once had. What do you think I can do help a girl out. Let me go first on this. I am lex is ready. I am because the sexpert guys of the group a little bit, a little bit.

Likes the sexpert anyway. Oh my goodness, now you got me blush.

Okay, I'm very open, freaking I am. I'm proud for you. Okay, yeah, the sexpert.

I would say, let's start with baby steps, because adding someone into the bedroom is definitely a confidence thing.

It could be a jealousy thing.

And if you trying to lock it in with your your mates, your husband, like y'all are intimate and exchanging all these you know energies. No never, never, no never, Okay, got it. I want to be the main attraction. I want to be the main attraction. But I say, bring some toys in. There's a plethora of different types of toys. Whatever you into, if it's pulling, tickling, teasing, start with that and see what your partner's into, and then that elevate to me the sex you don't get get you're supposed to.

Get down and dirty with your meat, right, you know what I mean.

When somebody somebody can speak holly of getting down and dirty with their husband. Yes, so let us let us know how to do it fresh because Ashley to give Sandy some tips.

Girl.

Okay, so Sandy, Sandy girl, let us know. I think you have to like tap into whatever you're man like, like what you said? So like, I mean he like call of duty, you like playing the games or whatever, So you know a little role play, Yeah, a little dress up, you know, like tomb Raider with guns. You know what I'm saying, Like role play, show up different? Is it a voice changed? It's everything, It's a whole, it's a whole, you're a different person. So I would say do that, like, whatever he's into, you got to play into that role. Did she incorporate toys? Yeah, A toy is always good. A toy is easy. That's an easy way to fil trip. But I think if you really want to like turn it up, it's the role playing that's true.

Yeah, And I would say go go like it's communication, like what are you into?

What do you like talking to them? What's up? Like?

What do you want to see? I like that that you observed obviously that you.

Too, you know, because he's not expecting that ship. You know what I'm saying, He and there playing his game and he going and out walking that bitch. That's my advice. I feel like you have to switch it up. You definitely have to switch it up, because I feel like in relationships they can the sex part. It seems like it becomes check the box, like okay, let me roll over hit it from the side. But she said, they are good sometimes, but not all the time. Now you have to spice it up. Spice it up once a month, like go get something, take your man to the sex store with you and pick out some dial doos, pick out some vibrators, pick pick it out and love it. Like when you know, when I was in a relationship, me and chat used to go to the sex store. Handcuff me, tie me up, blindfold me, make my ass, choke me. Yeah, okay, somebody had to put me out there, not just me a little footy call. You said, I don't know, I'm good. It's really hot up there. You know what I'm saying. You have to switch it up. You have to because I found myself even you know, even though we were doing those things, we got so busy we didn't take time out for ourselves, and that plays a big role. People say sex don't, but it does us. You have to take time out to love your partner, make love to your partner, Chris role play, yes, and you know, spice up things and then just what and then you go. Sometimes it do be Sometimes you can what you call it starfish? Starfish?

Yeah?

Yeah, but all the time. What's the count roach? I'll be tired sometimes I've never heard that. Let's when when when? Yeah? Cockroach fish, not the coutroach? Yeah, let us know if you've heard of cockroach countroaches? You know, away from starfishing to kiny me. I'm just you know, I love it. I married and boring, but this is there, so you're still you're saying you have to show up. Actually, this is the reason why Ashley is still married, because she be spicing it up every now and then you gotta pull. We're talking to bitch. I'm handed to the sixth. I said, Okay, I love it. What should I get? What's to do ship about? Because because I frequent? Okay, do you bring it with your mate? I do? Okay, have you tried to with your new mate. She's gonna get all the tea yes period, Sandy. We hope we gave you information that you needed. Girls spicy role play, cockroach whatever day, but of.

Coorse, tap in see what he's into and y'all take a field trip like yes somewhere.

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