Alayah Benavidez from Peter Weber’s season of The Bachelor is hanging with Dean and Jared and sharing a REAL look at dating after being on The Bachelor.

She opens up and gives us an honest look at all the drama on Peter’s season, both on screen and when the cameras stopped rolling.

And, we try to figure out the tricky situation of when to move for your partner. Is that a sign to break up?? Or do you follow them across the country?