"My boss pulled me into his office the other day and asked if I wouldn’t mind putting off getting pregnant. At first, I thought he was joking. He said he needs my full attention for the next year because the company is going to be growing and undergoing some changes. He highlighted how he paid for me to get my Master's degree and for extra training. This led to me getting a promotion and more money. My husband says that we shouldn't wait. I kind of feel guilty having the baby because the company has invested so much in me. I wouldn't make the salary I do and enjoy the comfortable lifestyle I have without my boss believing in me. Another part of me is furious. How dare my boss ask me to place the company before my dream of having a baby. What would you do if you were me? Baby or business? Is this an unreasonable request by my boss?"

"I attend a local college for health professionals and met a few girls at the beginning of the term and we instantly became close friends. Some time into the second semester we had a falling out with one of the girls, but that’s not the worst part of the story. I find out from one of the other girls that this girl, who we had a falling out with, said she couldn’t come to my birthday party a few months prior cause she got called into work, but what actually happened was that she said “those aren’t my kind of people”…i’m black for context. There were 4 girls in this group, 3 remain and one of us is 100% black (me), one is mixed and one’s boyfriend is black….make this make sense….what are y’all’s thoughts? Did she play in my face acting like my friend of almost a year to benefit herself educationally? Side Note for Context) (I always made study guides and kahoots to help us with exams and she barely contributed which is why I say “she played my friend to benefit herself”). This girl doesn’t know I know this information but everyone who remains in the group does…I won’t tell her I know cause I want to protect my own peace PLUS none of us have talked to her since the falling out so why bring it up….just want opinions!!"

"My ex-in-laws are trashing me. They say I don't have enough nutritious food in the house for my 8 and 9 year old daughters. They also say I spend too much money on the three of us getting our hair, nails and spray tans done. I told them that looking good is just as important as eating good. They disagree. They say I should spend more time feeding my daughters good food rather than getting them personal makeovers. I disagree. I think the personal makeovers are important and beneficial for their mental health. Do you think there's anything wrong with what I'm doing by spending more on makeovers than food? Who cares if they eat McDonald's several extra times a week? I think mental health is just as important as physical health or in this case looks are just as important as food at their young age. What do you think? Whose side are you on?"

"I have a dating dilemma. I just ended my 17-year marriage and have started dating again. I met a great guy who my 13-year-old daughter can't stand. She's going through the start of her terrible teen years and hates everybody, not to mention she has a terrible attitude. She's asked me not to date my new guy. I'm torn about what to do. It's hard to meet a great guy so I would hate to break up with him. On the other hand, I want to respect my daughter's wishes. I'm thinking maybe it's time I do something for myself. Is having your child not like a potential partner a reason not to date them?"

"My wife and I have been arguing as of late about her clothing choices. She always wears suggestive clothing and low cut tops when she goes out with her girlfriends. I told her I don't like her wearing that kind of clothing because it draws unwanted attention from men. She says she likes wearing the clothing because she's proud of her body and doesn't mind the compliments she receives. I don't think she should be dressing like that, especially when she's married. She looks like she's single. She says there's nothing wrong with the way she dresses because she is not going home with any of the men who compliment her. I think she should dress more conservatively. What do you think? Should she be dressing like that? I say no way."

"I thought I was on the verge of being proposed to and then my boyfriend dumped me. The only excuse he gave me was, “It's not you, it's me”. When I asked for further explanation he gave the same excuse again. What is he trying to tell me? Is it really him or is it me? Did I do something wrong? Is this excuse some sort of code?" Also, Poolboy hasn't seen Legally Blonde?!

"My husband and I went out to dinner on Sunday night and got into an argument with our server and the restaurant manager. My husband laid cash on the table after receiving our bill. The server quickly came by and grabbed it. My husband asked for the money back because he was not going to leave her all of the cash. The server refused to return the money and said once a tip is on the table that's it. The restaurant manager then came over. We complained to him before he showed no backbone and sided with his server. He said once a tip is on the table, that's it you can't change it. Whatever happened to ‘’the customer is always right’’? Should customers be allowed to change their tips once cash is on the table?"

"My husband and I went out to dinner on Sunday night and got into an argument with our server and the restaurant manager. My husband laid cash on the table after receiving our bill. The server quickly came by and grabbed it. My husband asked for the money back because he was not going to leave her all of the cash. The server refused to return the money and said once a tip is on the table that's it. The restaurant manager then came over. We complained to him before he showed no backbone and sided with his server. He said once a tip is on the table, that's it you can't change it. Whatever happened to ‘’the customer is always right’’? Should customers be allowed to change their tips once cash is on the table?"

"My husband and I went to a wedding last month. We were shocked over the weekend when we received news that the newlyweds are planning an annulment. My husband and I spent a lot of money on their wedding present. He and I both want them to reimburse us for the gift. We gave them the gift because we believed they were in it for the long run. We kind of feel duped. Are we wrong in asking for our money back? What's the protocol for this? "

"I attended a school board meeting the other night where things got heated between the school board and parents. I suggested that parents be held responsible for any senior pranks their child is a part of. Half the parents in the room supported me while the other half didn't. Some parents booed while others said I was ridiculous. They said they shouldn't be held responsible for what they're nearly legal-age children are about to do. I disagree and think parents should be held responsible. I volunteer for the school and have spent the last several Springs cleaning up senior prank messes. I won't do it again. What do you think? Should parents be held responsible for their children's senior pranks?"

"I heard you talking about how today is National Pet Day. There are eight of us that live in my house. My husband and I and our six kids can't decide whether we want to get a dog or a cat. We are split evenly at four votes a piece for each pet. Half the family wants a cat because it is maintenance free while the other half wants a dog because it is fun. We are not sure which pet to get. What would you do if you were us? Should we get a dog or a cat? Maybe you can ask your listeners which one is better."

"My husband and I went out on a date for the first time in a year on Saturday night. We've been busy taking care of our four children so we haven't had time to go out. We went to our favorite Italian restaurant and we're stunned when we got our bill. They charged us for extra marinara sauce and bread. My husband argued for several minutes before we left without leaving a tip. I think restaurants shouldn't charge extra when it comes to sauce and bread. They've raised their prices which we've agreed to pay. Their servers want larger tips so we leave more money. The least they can do is not be so petty. The manager disagreed. He says they charge extra because everything costs more. What are your thoughts on this? Is it wrong for restaurants to charge for a small cup of sauce and petite loaf of bread? I'm sure other people have experienced this as well. Were we in the wrong for complaining or were they in the wrong for charging us?"

"My husband and I got drunk with our friends yesterday at an Irish bar. Towards the end of the afternoon, we got into an argument and things got ugly. We were drunk and said things we didn't mean. Our friends separated us and told us to ignore what each other said. One friend told me that getting drunk is like a truth serum. Is that true? If so, then my husband and I have some things to definitely talk about. My other best friend is chalking up our argument to the alcohol. She's telling me to ignore what he said because he was drunk and didn't mean it. Which is it? Should I ignore my husband's comments because he was drunk or have a heart to heart conversation because booze is a truth serum? Did he mean what he said or was it the alcohol talking?"

"I have a pet husky who I dearly love. The other night, I introduced him to my new boyfriend for the first time. My husky stared at my new boyfriend as if he had done something wrong. It was like he was looking into his soul.  When my new boyfriend tried to pet my husky, he backed away and gave him the side eye. I told my friend what my husky did. She senses my husky knows something about my boyfriend that I don't. Another friend laughed when I told her about my husky and said the guilty look and side eye is all in my head. Now, I'm starting to question whether or not I should date this guy. Do you think my husky is on to something? Do animals know when something's not right? Are animals a good judge of character? Is this all true or is my head playing games with me?"

"My friends think I'm crazy because I am thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend due to her job. They say the reason I am giving for the possible breakup is ridiculous. We have been dating for three months. Everyone loves her. The problem is I keep getting sick because she works as a nurse and brings home colds, germs and the flu. I haven't been healthy in months. My friends are telling me to suck it up. I know this Email sounds ridiculous, but put yourself in my position. All I do is cough. What would you do if you were me? Is someone's job a valid reason to end a relationship?"

"My brother in law has two sons 9 and 7. The oldest has been very violent towards my kids. (Throwing objects that can hurt them) the youngest calling everyone including adult profanities such as stupid a*** fu**** and has even said I'm going to kill you. The parents don't do anything to stop it they just stay in their room and let everyone else discipline then and when the boys go running to them the parents just ignore them or get on to the adults for disciplining the boys. I don't want my kids around them anymore and I can take the stress of disciplining them which trying to keep my children safe while playing outside (my kids are ages 11 to 1) I also want to call authorities on them. My husband says it's family and we shouldn't call on family. My husband work out of town a lot and doesn't truly see what I see. Please help"

"My son's kindergarten teacher and another mother are upset with me because of something I did on Friday. I sent Easter cupcakes to class for every student except one.  That student is a bully and didn't deserve a cupcake.  The teacher handed out the cupcakes, but didn't realize there wasn't one for the bully until it was too late.  She called and asked if I had forgotten a cupcake.  I explained that I hadn't and didn't include one for the bully because he didn't deserve one. She and the bully's mother got mad at me and said I had no right to decide who gets a cupcake and who doesn't.  She says my son wasn't bullied so it's not my business or place to try and make a point.  I disagree.  The bully didn't deserve a cupcake.  The bully's parents say I'm no better than him because I too am a bully.  Am I?  Did I make the right move?"

Am I the *#$-hole for not inviting my mother-in-law to mine and fiancés wedding? Me and my fiancé have been together for 4 years. His mom never really liked me much at all but i thought it was because my fiancé was her only child but my fiancé and his mom never really had a good relationship. So when we got engaged, she was furious. She called my fiancé and told him that i was not good enough for him and that he could do WAY better. Now today I had posted on facebook reminding everyone to RSVP for our wedding and she commented under it and said “it did not take our RSVP” and I saw this as my opportunity to finally stand up to her. Like I don't understand. I'm not marrying her son for his money. Because neither one of us have any kind of money. I'm marrying him because i love him and because he is my best friend. So now I am quite terrified that she will show up to our wedding in a white wedding dress and object to our marriage.

"My daughter is 17 and a senior in high school. On Wednesday, she asked if her boyfriend could sleep over this weekend. He's also a senior. It's the first time she's asked me. I'm a single mom and don't have a husband to rely on so I have to make this call by myself. I'm torn over what to do. A part of me says to go ahead and trust my daughter until she makes a mistake and I can no longer trust her. The other part of me wants to protect her from making any mistakes and tell her NO. If I do that she may go outside the house and do things I don't want her to do. What would you do if you were me?  Trust her or not?"

"My fiance and I are considering putting our wedding on hold in order to work out several issues. One of which deals with him liking other women's pictures on social media. I have caught him more than once liking bikini shots on Instagram and Facebook. He says I have nothing to worry about and that social media surfing is not cheating because he is not acting on anything. He says I'm insecure and need to look at his social media activity like shopping at the mall. He says he's browsing but not buying. I think his behavior is inappropriate, disrespectful and wrong. What do you think? Is there anything wrong with what he's doing? Do you agree with him or me? "

"My friends and I are poor college students just scraping by. We carpool to class. The other day, we got into a debate that got heated. My friend owns the car we drive in. We don't like her music and started complaining about it. She says she owns the car so she decides what gets played. The rest of us disagreed and said we're entitled to choose the music as well because we give her gas money. She says it doesn't matter. We think it does. I know this is a dumb debate, but shouldn't we get a say in what gets played since we are paying? Do you agree with her or us?"

"I panicked yesterday at work because I saw that the bank account I share with my husband was missing several thousand dollars. I immediately called him at work in tears. He told me he withdrew $4,000 so he could bet on March Madness games. My mood switched from panic to anger. He lost almost all of our money. I couldn't believe he did that.  He tried to reason with me last night and said that betting on March Madness games is the same as me investing in the stock market. The market goes up and down. Some days you win. Some days you lose. He said it's the same with March Madness and that I shouldn't be upset with him. My mother thinks I should leave him. Is my husband's reasoning correct? Is betting on March Madness like playing the stock market? Am I overreacting? Should I cut my husband some slack? "

"Dear Heather and Poolboy, I hope this message finds you well. I am reaching out to seek some advice on how to plan our upcoming summer vacation around my wife's period. I want to ensure that she is comfortable and able to fully enjoy our time away. I was wondering if you could provide any tips or suggestions on how to broach this topic with my wife in a respectful and considerate manner. I want to make sure that she feels heard and valued in the decision-making process. Any advice or guidance you could offer would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance for your help."

"I'm a bartender at a local bar that does a Two-For-Tuesday special. I received a $200 tip on Tuesday night. The customer came in last night and demanded their money back saying they were drunk when they tipped me. They said they overpaid me and needed the money because they can't make rent. I was furious and initially refused to return the money. My manager has no spine and is leaving the decision up to me. Now, I'm thinking about giving the tip back because I feel bad that the customer can't make rent. The other bartenders are begging me to keep the cash. They say it's the customer's fault they overtipped because they were drunk. What would you do if you were me?"

"Hello! Im 13 and I, along with my family, listen to your show everyday and I wanted to submit an opp. I have this one person that copies my every move no matter what. I wear one shirt, she wears a similar, if not the same one the next day. I wear my hair a certain way one day, she wears it the same the next. My mom says that I should be flattered that she wants to be like me, but I think I should tell her to be her own person and stop copying me. Do you think that telling her would be beneficial in any way?"

"My daughter is 3 years old and goes to nursery school. Her teacher called me yesterday and scolded me because she had an accident in class. I apologized and continued my day at work. When I got off, I called the school's owner and told her that I didn't appreciate being yelled at by the teacher. I also told her that it's not only my responsibility to potty train my daughter, but it's also the teacher's. The owner disagreed and said that's something for home not school. We got into an argument which ended with no resolution. I think if you're a nursery school then part of your responsibility is helping parents potty train their kids. My daughter's school does not. Are teachers partially responsible for potty training toddlers? Am I wrong or is the school"

"My family received the most unexpected call at noon on Saturday. A Humane Society called and said they had found our missing dog. She has been gone for five years and is living with another family. Someone found Misty after she got out of her yard last Friday and took her to the rescue. They scanned her microchip and told her current owners that she actually belongs to us. Misty's current owners have two young girls and love her with all their heart. My children are 17 and 18 and will both be going off to college next year. My family is split on whether or not we should allow Misty to stay with her current owners or bring her home with us. My kids want her back, but they'll soon be gone. Misty, from what I've been told, has a good home and lots of love where she's at. I think I would be selfish to ask for her back. I also don't want to disappoint my kids. What would you do if you were me? We can't visit because Misty lives hours away. Thoughts?"

"I'm 27 years old and still live at home. My father borrowed my car on Saturday because his was in the shop getting repaired. I got my Honda back yesterday and was stunned when I found male enhancement pills from Walgreens in the glove box. My father must have purchased them while he was out running errands. He obviously forgot about them. He and my mother have been having problems as of late. I've been very suspicious of my father because he's been coming home late at night. I almost want to confront him about the pills. The other half of me wants to give them to my mother. I'm not sure if my father is cheating or not. What would you do if you were me? Should I confront my father or give the pills to my mother and allow her to confront him?  How do I handle this?"

"I received an email recently from my daughter’s grandfather (her dad’s father) wanting me to call. He disappeared 10 years ago after he remarried without a single phone call, text, email, letter, bday card, Xmas, holiday anything to her. Now he has cancer and is not expected to live long. I sat with my daughter (12 yrs old) and had a conversation that this may be the only time to speak to him. She asked me “do I have too?” Now that he’s on his death bed, he wants to come into my life?”. After that I was stumped. She is an amazing young lady that he missed over a decade on. Should I call him? Or leave it as missed opportunity on his part?"

"I work for a very well-known large company in the area. We were recently bought. The new bosses are implementing new policies that none of the employees really like. My new manager brought my boyfriend and I into the office the other day and told us one of the new policies is that employees cannot date one another. He and I both love our jobs and are paid extremely well. We have until Friday to decide what to do. He and I have been miserable for the last couple of days. Needless to say, lots of tears have been shed. I have to make an important decision. My job or my boyfriend? I don't know what to do. Can you give me some advice or maybe ask your listeners what they would do?"

"I'm 37 and single for the first time since I was 19 and a sophomore in college. I married early and had kids. I'm now divorced and dating a 60 year old man. I brought him to Happy Hour on Tuesday to introduce him to my friends. They were shocked because I never told them how old he is. My boyfriend got along with everyone. My friends started making me feel bad yesterday because they were making jokes that my boyfriend looks and is old enough to be my father. Now, I'm having second thoughts. What should I do? I'm not sure if I should be dating someone as old as my boyfriend. Should I care what my friends say or follow my heart and stay with my guy?"

"My 6-year-old daughter has a daddy-daughter dance coming up in a few weeks. She has a real father and a stepfather. She can only choose one father to go with. Both fathers are acting like politicians lobbying for votes. My daughter is confused and doesn't know which father to pick. I too am confused. Should I make the choice for her or allow her to make it on her own? I'm not sure what to do? What would you do if you were in my position? Who should she choose and on what basis should she make her choice?"

"My family is fighting because of something I did. My cousin got married several weekends ago. I decided not to attend at the last minute. My cousin shocked me on Friday when I received a letter from her asking for $120. She wanted money for me and my fiance's dinners even though we didn't attend. She said she pre-purchased them because I RSVP'd. I was furious and told her there was no way I was going to pay her. This sparked a huge fight and divide in our family with half siding with me and the other half siding with her. Is she entitled to the money? Should I pay? She invited me. What bride asks for money back?"

"I'm 21 and a junior in college. My boyfriend and I just started dating three weeks ago. We are going to separate places on Spring Break. We were tipsy the other night when we started talking about Celebrity Hall Passes. That conversation turned to Spring Break Hall Passes. We talked about whether or not we should allow each other to have a Hall Pass during Spring Break. We were both split on the idea and not sure if it's a good one. On one hand, we like each other and definitely want to date. On the other hand, we just started dating and barely know one another. It may be too soon to say we're exclusive. When I talked to my friends about this they were also split and said a Hall Pass could be good AND bad. It may be good because it may allow us to get any urges out of our system before we become exclusive. It could also be bad because it may infuse trust issues later on. Should my new boyfriend and I grant each other Hall Passes on Spring Break?"

"I lost my home in the recent tornado. Was fully covered by insurance & bought a beautiful newly built home. We’ve settled into our routine without a neighbor to our right. Come home, watch tv, eat dinner, more tv & then seepiie time. Today was definitely different. Work was extremely stressful. Had to attend a court case for work, wanted to do full dress & makeup for that. I usually don’t do any makeup & dress like Heather describes…shirt/sweatshirt, Uggs & jeans. When I got home I had enough. First thing in the door I stripped down to panties & a bra. Threw my robe & pj pants on. NEVER do this. I then sit down to my celebratory glass of wine for making it through the day. As I’m sitting there my bra is really bothering me. I then asked my husband, “this is weird right? I really need to take my bra off”. He was shocked & happy. 😉 I stood up & opened my robe. Mentioned to Hubs I need to turn to the right in case my son walks in the living room. As I do & turn to the right & release myself from the bra. Within seconds, I see the new neighbors son hanging a temporary blind. FACE IN THE WINDOW. I flashed my new neighbors son!!! Mortified!!! Do I say anything? The builder built both our houses & have shared our names with each other. I was excited to meet her, now i want to hide in a hole."

"My 16 year-old daughter loves to shop for secondhand clothing online. She recently bought a pair of jeans and started screaming when she received them. There was over $450 in one of the pockets. She came to my husband and I and asked if she should contact the seller and return the money. My husband said NO WAY. He thinks she should keep the cash and says it's not our fault that the seller forgot to check the pockets. My guilty conscience is working on me. If I was the seller, and made a mistake like this, I would want someone to contact me. My daughter is looking to my husband and I to help her make the right decision. We're thinking about leaving it up to her. What is the right decision here?"

"My date got mad and canceled our evening out at the last minute on Saturday. We met on Tinder and had been chatting for a week. Just before the date, she asked me to send her a picture of my driver's license and another form of ID such as a credit card. She said she wanted to do a background check before we went out so she would feel safe. I told her I wasn't comfortable sending personal information like that.  She got mad and canceled. She said I was being unreasonable because she is new to the area and a single woman. I don't think anyone should give out their last name or personal information before a first date. We were meeting at a restaurant so it wasn't like I invited her over or I was going to her home. Was she wrong to cancel the date? Should I have sent the info? My friend says she may have been trying to scam me.  What's the protocol for background checks? "

"My daughter is a senior in high school and wants to fly to Mexico with her girlfriends for Spring Break. I said absolutely no way, but my husband has given her permission to go so we are deadlocked. I don't think teenage girls should be running around Mexico without any parental supervision. My husband says he trusts our daughter's judgment because she hasn't done anything to make us think she's going to get in trouble. Would you allow her to go if you were us? Is my husband correct in what he is saying?"

"Dear Heather and Poolboy, I work for a very well known privately owned company in the area. If I mention the name you will instantly know it. I'm in a bind at work. My boss' wife called me the other day and asked me to start spying on him because she believes he may be cheating. I told her I would think about it. I'm petrified and don't know what to do. If my boss catches me, I will be fired. If I don't do it, she will most likely start putting things in his head about me and I'll be fired then. Does he or she have more control in this situation? I make great money and want to keep my job. What should I do? Accept the proposal or not?"

"Can't believe I got written up at work yesterday for a dress issue. Someone complained because I was wearing a button-down shirt that had three buttons open. I feel I'm being discriminated against. How is it okay that 75% of the women in the office wear low-cut tops or dresses and don't get in trouble yet I wear a button-down shirt with three buttons open and now my job is in jeopardy? I think this is a double standard. My HR Director went off the record and told me that someone didn't like my hairy chest showing. Am I being discriminated against? Is there a double standard in the office? Should women in the office be getting written up as well?"

"In 2020, I met a great guy. We spent the first 18 months of the pandemic together. Then, Jason did something wrong and was sentenced to six years in prison. I believe he is a good man and have stayed by him even though everybody else has told me to leave him. I went to his mother's on Saturday and was stunned when I walked into her living room and saw several bouquets of flowers. One of the bouquets spelled out MARRY ME. Jason called me from jail and proposed. I accepted. My friends and family are outraged and can't believe I'm going to waste the next three years of my life waiting for him. They call him THE INMATE. I'm torn about what to do. What would you do if you were me? Stay or go?  Some of what they say makes sense. Should I listen to my head or heart?"

"My friends and family are upset with my husband because he gave me a helium balloon and chocolates from the dollar store yesterday for Valentine's Day. We have been married for 26 years. My friends and family say I deserve better and that my husband is a lazy bum who puts no effort into our relationship. They say the longer the marriage, the bigger the gift. They say he should have done more. I haven't said anything, but I think it's okay that he got me the chocolates and the balloon because it's the thought that counts, especially after 26 years. Should he have done more or is it the thought that counts? "

"My husband and I have been arguing about getting a dog. I grew up with dogs, and he has always known I live dogs since before we got married. I assumed everyone loved dogs and didn’t have a problem having them inside the house. I grew up with labs, we always had one in our home, and they were always well trained. The topic of a dog came up shortly after we got married, as I work from home and would like a companion inside. My husband said “I love dogs, but I can’t have one inside. They are an animal, and having them inside is disgusting.” I responded with, so do you think my parent’s house is disgusting? He responded yes. I cried, as dogs have been a huge part of my childhood and life, and having a dog that is just outside, I don’t see the point. I have tried to plead with him but he won’t budge, even stating if I got a dog and he saw it was inside, he’d give it away. What should I do?"

"My 8 and 10 year old daughters loved getting dressed up fancy and going somewhere expensive to eat and ending the night dancing at the lobby in The Arlington in Hot Springs. They have a live band Friday and Saturday nights and they play classics and fun stuff. Our favorite part is watching the older couples do their ballroom dancing, its such a lost art! Its clean fun. There is a bar in the back of the lobby and people have beer or wine or cocktails. My ex has decided this means I'm "taking the children to a bar." Its not a bar, they don't card, its not drunks giving each other lap dances. We have so much fun when we go just dancing and spending time together but he is throwing a fit and wants us to stop. Is it tacky to take kids there?"

"My husband and I allowed our 9-year-old son to stay up and watch the entire Super Bowl. He is a die-hard Niners fan and like some of the Niners players teared up and cried because they lost. My husband told him not to cry because it shows weakness. I disagree and told my son it shows he cares. My husband and I then got into an argument about which it is …. weakness or caring? What do you think it is?  Is it okay to cry after a loss if you're an athlete or fan? My husband says the greats in sports never cry after a loss."

"My boss throws the wildest Super Bowl parties every year on Super Bowl Sunday. This year will be no different. I can tell it's going to be a wild time because everyone in the office is already charged up. Yesterday, a debate broke out among twenty of us. We were talking about whether or not Taylor will make it to the Big Game when someone asked if she is a good role model. Half of the office said she is not because she trashes her ex-boyfriends in her songs, dates a lot of guys and plays the victim in her music. The other half of the office loves Taylor because she has never been arrested, gives to charity, is an example of female empowerment and is a terrific business woman. I wanted to share our debate with you so you can help us settle it. Which is it? Is Taylor a good role model or not?"

"My husband and son are super excited for the Super Bowl because they are huge football fans. Next year will be the first year my son has the opportunity to play tackle football. My husband and I are torn about whether or not to let him do it. This is an issue every set of parents face because of how dangerous and violent the sport is. Our son loves the game so much, but we're worried one head injury or concussion could change his life. I've seen celebrities and former players say they would never allow their children to play. I hate to be a Debbie Downer, but what would you do if you had a son? Let him play or not?"

"My boyfriend and I met at a bar six months ago. He recently broke up with me because he found out I have an active profile on Match.com. One of his friends came across my profile and told him. I told my boyfriend that I kept my profile active because I like seeing who's on the app. He says this is a form of cheating. I told him it's not because 'I'm browsing, not buying'. If you ask me, he's a bit insecure. I haven't done anything wrong, but just look. Is having an active dating profile while in a committed relationship a form of cheating? I don't think it is."

"My new boyfriend wants me to change my nickname because my ex gave it to me. I've had the nickname for years. Everyone calls me it and it's even on my license plate. My boyfriend says keeping the name is disrespectful and holds us back. Should I have to give up my nickname?"

"All of the women in my family are mad at me because I hadn't planned on buying a push present for my wife. She is due to give birth next month. The women in my family have been yelling at me. I don't think I should have to purchase a push present. My wife wants an expensive piece of jewelry. That money is better spent on our newborn and a nursery. Plus, it's her job to give birth just like it's my job to take care of the lawn and clear the driveway when it snows. She shouldn't get a gift just for doing her job otherwise I would get a gift every week. A push present feels like a Hallmark holiday. Am I wrong for not getting her a gift? Do you agree with my reasoning? I would love to know what your listeners think"