"​My fiance and I are in the final stages of our marital counseling. On Monday night, we hit a snag with our counselor. We were talking about compromise when my fiance said we will make all of our decisions together because the relationship should be 50/50. I disagreed. He was stunned when I did. I told our counselor that I believe the breadwinner in a relationship should have the final say in all important decisions. In our case, I'm the breadwinner and believe I should have the final say on all important decisions. My fiance does not agree with that. He says great relationships work because they are 50/50. I believe that and also believe that the breadwinner should have the final say. Where do you stand on this?"