"I cheated on my husband and don't feel the least bit guilty because it's his fault not mine. For the last two years, I've begged and pleaded with him to pay more attention to me, to appreciate me more, and to be more present.  He did none of those things and that caused me to stray with a co-worker. I made it easy for my husband to find out that I cheated. His family says that I'm at fault, not him. I disagree. He forced me to go outside the relationship to seek things I need as a woman so it's his fault not mine.  Am I at fault or is he?"