"I am single and I work at a public high school. I have a 10 year old son. This year, a coach was placed in the classroom next to me. A few weeks into school, he began to visit my classroom more often, see me in the hallway, and he even got my phone number. We text, talk, and call each other at night every day. He’s made it very clear that he’s attracted to me, and I think the feeling COULD be mutual. However, he let me know before things got serious, that he has an odd living situation. He has two kids, and one has special needs. Therefore he and his ex-wife decided that it would be best and easiest for them to live together, but remain single. So, they live together, they raise their kids together, they eat dinner together every night, but he says they’re not together and he would change it all for me. I don’t even know if I could begin to think about him romantically until I know that he’s not living with another woman. But, if he does change his living situation for me, and I end up not feeling about him same way he feels about me, that will greatly affect his home life for no reason. Also, if we do have a relationship that ends badly we still have to see each other the next day at work. Do I give him a chance? What do I do?"