"Hi, I’m writing because my husband has been dealing with an uncomfortable situation at work. A female coworker has been flirting with him, and it’s making him uneasy. He’s told me about it, and while he’s been clear that he’s not interested, he’s hesitant to report it to HR because he doesn’t want to cause any waves at work. I’m worried about the stress it’s causing him. I am thinking about waiting in the work parking lot and confronting the woman myself. My friends are split over the idea. Good idea or bad idea? What do you think? How do I get her to back off without jeopardizing my husband's job?"