Lyn welcomes Amanda Carroll, a Single Mom Dating Coach and founder of The Single Mom Collective. Amanda shares her inspiring journey from feeling ruined after a painful divorce to rebuilding her life and finding love again. They delve into the challenges single moms face in dating, particularly the damaging effects of the purity culture and societal expectations.
Amanda also emphasises the importance of healing, self-worth, and pursuing personal dreams before seeking a partner.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
The discussion highlights the damaging effects of the purity culture, which instills shame in women regarding their sexuality and self-worth. It's essential for single moms to heal from these beliefs to build healthy relationships.
Single moms are encouraged to focus on their own personal growth, financial independence, and self-worth. This empowerment allows them to make better choices in partners and model healthy relationships for their children.
The conversation emphasises that children benefit from witnessing their parents in healthy, egalitarian (equal rights and opportunities) relationships. This modeling helps break cycles of unhealthy dynamics and teaches children about love and partnership.
Struggles and challenges, such as divorce, can lead to personal transformation. Embracing these experiences will result in becoming a stronger, more resilient individual, ultimately leading to better relationships.
BEST MOMENTS
"I realised that my value isn't based on whether or not I was pure. My value is based on that I'm a woman that can love."
"The best revenge is your success. Instead of focusing on being bitter and angry from your past, let's go be successful."
"There's something wrong with it instead of a beautiful way to connect with your partner."
"You can't just think you're going to be complete because you're with someone else instead of pursuing your own dreams."
"The struggle to find love gives you the ability to have it. It is exactly the struggle to rebuild your life post-divorce that defines you."
ABOUT THE GUEST
Amanda Carroll - Single Mom Dating Coach & Founder of The Single Mom Collective
Amanda Carroll is an internationally recognized Dating Coach and one of the only experts of her kind, dedicated to helping High Value Women redefine their lives, heal from past relationships, and step into the love they’ve always deserved.
With over 20 years as a nationally syndicated radio host, Amanda turned her passion for encouragement and empowerment into a life-changing coaching movement for High Value Women around the world.
Amanda’s expertise isn’t just professional—it’s deeply personal. She spent 10 years as a single mother to three children, overcoming domestic violence and narcissistic abuse to build a life of strength, independence, and unshakable confidence.
Now remarried and part of a blended family of seven, she proves that healing, happiness, and healthy love are possible for every woman—no matter her past.
As a national speaker for women, Amanda’s mission is clear: To help High Value Women step into their power, and finally experience the love and life they deserve.
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ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.
Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.
HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.
Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.
CONTACT METHOD
lyn@hearts-entwined.com
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