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Questions To Ask Whilst Online Dating - Lyn Smith & Zen Ase

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Lyn is joined by online dating expert and podcast creator, Zen Ase - the host of The Zennurgy Podcast - to talk about the fascinating subject of online dating, they discuss the questions we need to ask and the things we need to know, so we can be successful in finding healthy love.


  • Remember your individuality is what makes you unique, so embrace it when dating online. Don't feel you have to conform to the whims of others - changing who you are to 'people please' never works as a long term solution.
  • Stay focussed on what you want in a healthy relationship. These may change and evolve as the journey continues, but keep 'your wants' at the forefront of your dating decision making.
  • We may reject others and others may reject us. Rejections shouldn't negatively affect the way we feel about ourselves. View it as a positive thing which allows us to be free to get closer to a better match. Keep staying true to who you are.


'I went on a whopping 147 dates in seven years!'

'Don't lose yourself in the process'

'Love yourself along the journey'


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ABOUT THE GUEST - Zen Ase - Dating Expert & Podcast Host

The artistic entrepreneur known as Marlena “Zen Ase” Johns has lived an adventurous life, raising twin sons, and teaching high school for twenty-six years in the inner city. She was Teacher of the Year for AHS in 2011-2012 and 2017-2018, a Claes Nobel Educator of Distinction and a University of Chicago Distinguished Educator.

One of her plays was performed at a local community center. She won a prose contest sponsored by the University of Houston. She’s performed poetry more times than she can count at over 50 venues, hosted, and organized over 50 live music, comedy and poetry shows, Laughz and Lyrics, to both handfuls of adoring fans and wall to wall, standing room only crowds.

She’s the Houston organizer for 100,000 Poets for Change, and she’s been honored with a Congressional Award for activism. Her poetry and prose can be found in over a dozen anthologies and magazines including, “ Let’s Talk about Being Human,” “Selfhood,” “Restless,” “Five 2 One magazine”, “Caravel”, and “Switchback”.

Zen recently decided to include what she's learned from motivating students to help teens and adults accelerate mindset changes and replace limitations with possibilities. As of January 2023, she has created four books (three of them Amazon best sellers), a podcast- Zennurgy and a series of workshops.

Website - https://linktr.ee/zenase
Podcast - https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/the-zennurgy-podcast-zen-ase-Wd9JNCHuOzh/


Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert

Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.

She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.

Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.

HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.

Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.



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