In this episode Lyn delves into the sensitive topic of infidelity. She is joined by Dr. Shamile Bernard, a renowned expert in the field. Dr. S shares her personal experiences with infidelity and explains how it has affected her own relationships. They discuss the deep pain and confusion that infidelity can cause and emphasise the importance of healing and self-reflection. They offer guidance for individuals who have been hurt by infidelity, encouraging them to prioritise their own well-being and seek professional help if needed, so those impacted can heal and go on to have healthier relationships.
"What we don't know is both partners are experiencing hurts in different ways."
"Today is the day to decide that I am tired of living in this pain."
"Infidelity keeps you in prison, mentally or emotionally."
"You deserve to achieve this and more, no matter what you have been through."
"True love starts with opening our hearts."
Dr. Shamile S. Bernard is an island girl, she’s from Trinidad & Tobago however, she is widely known all over the world as “the original love doctor”. She is recognized for her expertise on the subject of unconditional love and the compassionate way she helps women and couples rewrite their love stories after heartbreak, through faith-based coaching, retreats, brunches and conferences.
Hailing from a background with countless hurdles from growing up in the ‘ghetto’, burdened by poverty, living in a single-parent household, Dr. S turned herself into a fighter exuding sheer resilience and positivity every step of the way. She had to battle rejection, PCOS, insecurities, low self-esteem, toxic relationships, infidelity, depression, and suicidal thoughts, while facing the lack of empathy that society shows to women of colour.
With her passion for family, relationships, love and healing for over (10) years she has touched the lives of hundreds of families guiding them towards healing, wholeness, and self-love and give them an instant confidence boost by equipping them with the tools needed to have a successful life/ marriage.
Website - https://thelovedoctor8.com
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.
Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.
HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.
Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.