Happy hump day, Tribe! This week, the Good Moms are asking a different kind of question: Are we over-inspired, under-nourished, and done settling for dusty men and outdated rules?

The moms also open up about parents, politics, and generational disconnect... from Fox News grandmas and Spencer Pratt on the ballot to dads who “don’t see color” but listen to Kevin Samuels. They talk about realizing your parents might be emotionally stuck in another era, and how to break those patterns with your own kids.

 

In this episode, you’ll hear:
Why so many women are choosing celibacy or simply refusing to settle
How patriarchy, whiteness, and slavery shaped the emotional lives of Black men
The impact of porn, social media, and constant scrolling on real intimacy
Voting chaos, political confusion, and realizing most people never question the rules
Parenting preteens, talking about crushes, and not repeating our parents’ mistakes
Feeling “over-inspired and under-nourished” by the internet and seeking solitude
How to create a self-pleasure ritual that supports orgasm, not just fast release
The connection between orgasm, God, trauma release, and real spiritual healing

 

This episode is for women in their “I’m overwhelmed but still evolving” era who are questioning dusty dating norms, unpacking generational bullshit, craving real connection (with themselves, their kids, and their pleasure), and feel over-stimulated by the internet but deeply ready to choose softness, safety, and self-devotion instead.

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Watch this episode and more on YouTube.

 

Come vibe with us on Patreon for full visual episodes, bonus content, and early releases.

 

Join our private Facebook group and drop your anonymous advice questions, secrets, or mom vents.

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JOIN US ON OUR NEXT GOOD VIBE RETREAT!!

 

🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 14–19: Mommy and Me Retreat

Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.

 

🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 24–29: Reset and Vibe

Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.

Apply for "The Play" Matrix Juneteenth Play Party , June 19th, 2026 in LA hosted by Milah celebrate a night of freedom with pleasure and play 😈

https://theplay.la/apply/

 

Connect with us:

@GoodMoms_BadChoices

@TheGoodVibeRetreat

@Good.GoodMedia

@WatchErica

@MILAH_MAPP

Happy hump day, Tribe! This week, the Good Moms are asking a different kind of question: Are we over-inspired, under-nourished, and done settling for dusty men and outdated rules?
The moms also open up about parents, politics, and generational disconnect... from Fox News grandmas and Spencer Pratt on the ballot to dads who &ldquo;don&rsquo;t see color&rdquo; but listen to Kevin Samuels. They talk about realizing your parents might be emotionally stuck in another era, and how to break those patterns with your own kids.
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In this episode, you&rsquo;ll hear:
<ul>
<li>Why so many women are choosing celibacy or simply refusing to settle</li>
<li>How patriarchy, whiteness, and slavery shaped the emotional lives of Black men</li>
<li>The impact of porn, social media, and constant scrolling on real intimacy</li>
<li>Voting chaos, political confusion, and realizing most people never question the rules</li>
<li>Parenting preteens, talking about crushes, and not repeating our parents&rsquo; mistakes</li>
<li>Feeling &ldquo;over-inspired and under-nourished&rdquo; by the internet and seeking solitude</li>
<li>How to create a self-pleasure ritual that supports orgasm, not just fast release</li>
<li>The connection between orgasm, God, trauma release, and real spiritual healing</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
This episode is for women in their &ldquo;I&rsquo;m overwhelmed but still evolving&rdquo; era who are questioning dusty dating norms, unpacking generational bullshit, craving real connection (with themselves, their kids, and their pleasure), and feel over-stimulated by the internet but deeply ready to choose softness, safety, and self-devotion instead.
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<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@goodmoms_badchoices">Watch this episode and more on YouTube.</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices">Come vibe with us on Patreon for full visual episodes, bonus content, and early releases.</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/goodmomsbadchoices/">Join our private Facebook group and drop your anonymous advice questions, secrets, or mom vents.</a>
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JOIN US ON OUR NEXT GOOD VIBE RETREAT!!
&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/mommy-me-retreat-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-30183343#about-this-trip">🇨🇷 Costa Rica &ndash; July 14&ndash;19: Mommy and Me Retreat</a>
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/mommy-me-retreat-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-30183343#about-this-trip">Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/reset-vibe-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-87712751#about-this-trip">🇨🇷 Costa Rica &ndash; July 24&ndash;29: Reset and Vibe</a>
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/reset-vibe-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-87712751#about-this-trip">Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.</a>
Apply for "The Play" Matrix Juneteenth Play Party , June 19th, 2026 in LA hosted by Milah celebrate a night of freedom with pleasure and play 😈
<a href="https://theplay.la/apply/">https://theplay.la/apply/</a>
&nbsp;
Connect with us:
<a href="http://instagram.com/GOODMOMS_BADCHOICES">@GoodMoms_BadChoices</a>
<a href="http://instagram.com/THEGOODVIBERETREAT">@TheGoodVibeRetreat</a>
<a href="http://instagram.com/GOOD.GOODMEDIA">@Good.GoodMedia</a>
<a href="http://instagram.com/WATCHERICA">@WatchErica</a>
<a href="http://instagram.com/MILAH_MAPP">@MILAH_MAPP</a>

If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too!

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe!

Instagram: @goodmoms_badchoices

Watch our episodes on Youtube
For bonus content ---> www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices

If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too! New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe! Instagram: @goodmoms_badchoices Watch our episodes on Youtube For bonus content ---&gt; www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices

Warning: This is not your everyday mommy Podcast. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. If Oprah & Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices.

Good Moms Bad Choices

Pussy Healing in the Patriarchy

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