“ Pleasure is not a luxury, it’s your birthright”

 

This week, the Good Moms are joined by intimacy expert, author, and as we’ve decided to call her “Sex Santa” Susan Bratton for a funny and informative look into  pleasure, partnership, and personal transformation through the exploration of your body.

 

From 12 years of sexless marriage to becoming a global educator on over 20 types of orgasms, Susan shares how she turned her own bedroom into a second career filled with vibrators, science, and soul-level healing. The three caht about everything from vulva-friendly sex toys to throatgasms, ethical non-monogamy, and the quiet power of a well-prepped yoni massage. 

You can expect to hear:

(12:10) Susan’s previously dull sex life, awakening through pleasure, and how orgasmic healing saved her marriage

(20:00) What it means to be an “orgasmonaut” and why most women are settling for way too little in and out of the bedroom

(28:45) Susan breaks down over 20 orgasm types, including throatgasms, analgasms, nipplegasms, and more

(35:10) The science behind expanded orgasm and why it’s not just about sex it’s about source

(44:20) Yoni massage, the Queen vibrator, and why most sex toys are designed without Black women in mind

(51:50) Thrust-in-time: a Taoist technique to make intercourse more orgasmic and deeply connective

(1:03:30) Why Susan loves sex toys that vibe with your partner, not just beside them

(1:07:00) Grandmas use vibrators too

(1:10:45) Cannabis and your libido

(1:19:20) Ethical non-monogamy, kitchen table polyamory, and how she manages a husband and a boyfriend with her daughter’s full knowledge

(1:27:15) STI testing without the awkward clinic trip and how new tech makes screening easier than ever

(1:32:40) Affirmation of the Week: “More toys, more orgasms, more joy. Pleasure is my birthright.”

Whether you're solo, partnered, or just vibing with curiosity, this episode offers a powerful reminder: pleasure is not a luxury, it's information, it’s medicine, and it’s yours to claim.

 

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Links mentioned in this week's episode: 
orgasmicintercourse.com – A free resource for learning techniques for orgasmic intercourse.
fullpaneltest.com – STI home testing service 
thrustintime.com –Technique for deeper sexual connection and stimulation.
betterlover.com – education and resources on sex, intimacy, and pleasure.
Lexus/Kiiro- LINK HERE

 

 

 

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&ldquo; Pleasure is not a luxury, it&rsquo;s your birthright&rdquo;
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This week, the Good Moms are joined by intimacy expert, author, and as we&rsquo;ve decided to call her &ldquo;Sex Santa&rdquo;<a href="https://susanbratton.com/"> Susan Bratton </a>for a funny and informative look into&nbsp; pleasure, partnership, and personal transformation through the exploration of your body.
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From 12 years of sexless marriage to becoming a global educator on over 20 types of orgasms, Susan shares how she turned her own bedroom into a second career filled with vibrators, science, and soul-level healing. The three caht about everything from vulva-friendly sex toys to throatgasms, ethical non-monogamy, and the quiet power of a well-prepped yoni massage.&nbsp;
You can expect to hear:
(12:10) Susan&rsquo;s previously dull sex life, awakening through pleasure, and how orgasmic healing saved her marriage
(20:00) What it means to be an &ldquo;orgasmonaut&rdquo; and why most women are settling for way too little in and out of the bedroom
(28:45) Susan breaks down over 20 orgasm types, including throatgasms, analgasms, nipplegasms, and more
(35:10) The science behind expanded orgasm and why it&rsquo;s not just about sex it&rsquo;s about source
(44:20) Yoni massage, the Queen vibrator, and why most sex toys are designed without Black women in mind
(51:50) Thrust-in-time: a Taoist technique to make intercourse more orgasmic and deeply connective
(1:03:30) Why Susan loves sex toys that vibe with your partner, not just beside them
(1:07:00) Grandmas use vibrators too
(1:10:45) Cannabis and your libido
(1:19:20) Ethical non-monogamy, kitchen table polyamory, and how she manages a husband and a boyfriend with her daughter&rsquo;s full knowledge
(1:27:15) STI testing without the awkward clinic trip and how new tech makes screening easier than ever
(1:32:40) Affirmation of the Week: &ldquo;More toys, more orgasms, more joy. Pleasure is my birthright.&rdquo;
Whether you're solo, partnered, or just vibing with curiosity, this episode offers a powerful reminder: pleasure is not a luxury, it's information, it&rsquo;s medicine, and it&rsquo;s yours to claim.
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Links mentioned in this week's episode: 
<ul>
<li><a href="https://orgasmicintercourse.com/">orgasmicintercourse.com</a>&nbsp;&ndash; A free resource for learning techniques for orgasmic intercourse.</li>
<li><a href="https://fullpaneltest.com/">fullpaneltest.com</a>&nbsp;&ndash; STI home testing service&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://thrustintime.com/">thrustintime.com</a>&nbsp;&ndash;Technique for deeper sexual connection and stimulation.</li>
<li><a href="https://betterlover.com/">betterlover.com</a>&nbsp;&ndash; education and resources on sex, intimacy, and pleasure.</li>
<li>Lexus/Kiiro- LINK HERE</li>
</ul>
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If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too!

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If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too! New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe! Instagram: @goodmoms_badchoices Watch our episodes on Youtube For bonus content ---&gt; www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices

Warning: This is not your everyday mommy Podcast. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. If Oprah & Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices.

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Not All Vibrators Are Created Equal Feat. Susan Bratton 

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