What if being a single mother wasn’t something women had to defend—but something worth celebrating?

This week, Erica and Milah sit down with writer, cultural critic, and author Jamilah Lemieux for an honest, hilarious, and unapologetic conversation about Black single motherhood, dating, co-parenting, raising daughters, friendship, sex, and letting go of the shame attached to being a “baby mama.”

Jamilah opens up about her own journey as a single mother and how writing about Black single moms completely transformed the way she sees single motherhood. What started as a desire to defend single mothers turned into something much bigger: giving them their flowers.

The ladies get into what actually makes someone a “single mom,” why having an active co-parent doesn’t erase the realities of running your own household, and why struggling should never be treated as a requirement for single motherhood.

They also talk about the stigma attached to the words “baby mama,” why women are still judged by their relationship status, dating and sex as a mother, raising daughters without shame, and the freedom that comes when you stop performing motherhood for other people.

Plus, Jamilah shares why she spent years thinking she needed a man when what she really needed was girlfriends, why your mother-led household is already a family, and why the single mother revolution may just be getting started.

And because this is Good Moms Bad Choices, things get a little unhinged along the way—from sex work and stripper conversations with your kids to dating, dick size, motherhood, and everything women are usually told not to say out loud.

 

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What if being a single mother wasn&rsquo;t something women had to defend&mdash;but something worth celebrating?
This week, Erica and Milah sit down with writer, cultural critic, and author Jamilah Lemieux for an honest, hilarious, and unapologetic conversation about Black single motherhood, dating, co-parenting, raising daughters, friendship, sex, and letting go of the shame attached to being a &ldquo;baby mama.&rdquo;
Jamilah opens up about her own journey as a single mother and how writing about Black single moms completely transformed the way she sees single motherhood. What started as a desire to defend single mothers turned into something much bigger: giving them their flowers.
The ladies get into what actually makes someone a &ldquo;single mom,&rdquo; why having an active co-parent doesn&rsquo;t erase the realities of running your own household, and why struggling should never be treated as a requirement for single motherhood.
They also talk about the stigma attached to the words &ldquo;baby mama,&rdquo; why women are still judged by their relationship status, dating and sex as a mother, raising daughters without shame, and the freedom that comes when you stop performing motherhood for other people.
Plus, Jamilah shares why she spent years thinking she needed a man when what she really needed was girlfriends, why your mother-led household is already a family, and why the single mother revolution may just be getting started.
And because this is Good Moms Bad Choices, things get a little unhinged along the way&mdash;from sex work and stripper conversations with your kids to dating, dick size, motherhood, and everything women are usually told not to say out loud.
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FOLLOW JAMILAH LEMIEUX:
Instagram: @jamilahlemieux
FOLLOW GOOD MOMS BAD CHOICES:
Instagram: @goodmoms_badchoices
TikTok: @goodmoms_badchoices
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@goodmoms_badchoices
JOIN THE GOOD MOMS COMMUNITY:
Patreon/Discord: https://www.patreon.com/GoodMomsBadChoices/about
FOLLOW ERICA:
Instagram: @watcherica
FOLLOW MILAH:
Instagram: @milah_mapp
Subscribe, rate, and review Good Moms Bad Choices wherever you listen to podcasts.

If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too!

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe!

Instagram: @goodmoms_badchoices

Watch our episodes on Youtube
For bonus content ---> www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices

If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too! New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe! Instagram: @goodmoms_badchoices Watch our episodes on Youtube For bonus content ---&gt; www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices

Warning: This is not your everyday mommy Podcast. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. If Oprah & Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices.

Good Moms Bad Choices

Celebrate Single Motherhood Ft Jamilah Lemieux

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