In this episode of Getting Open, Francesca Hogi—love and life coach, lawyer-turned-relationship expert, and passionate advocate for self-love—joins to talk about what it really means to live an authentic life and attract true love. Francesca shares insights on dating app fatigue, her "love without settling" philosophy, and how changing your internal narrative can completely shift your external reality.

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Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction  
04:55 – Living with intention: Choosing how to live rather than reacting to life
08:12 – Breaking up with people-pleasing
12:45 – “Love without settling” mantra: What that means in practice
16:20 – How dating apps commodify people and what to do about it
21:15 – Authenticity as magnetism: Stop changing yourself to be chosen
27:00 – The myth of “the one” & why no one person completes you
32:10 – How shifting your story changes your life
36:40 – Finding aligned relationships without burnout
42:10 – What kind of energy are you leading with in dating?
46:30 – How to stop recreating the same relationships
50:05 – Why being rejected is a gift
59:15 – Dating from a place of calm, not urgency
1:03:00 – Advice on dating apps: How to use them without burnout

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“Getting Open w/ Andrea Miller” is a new podcast aimed at helping people truly open up to one another and to themselves by digging into hard truths and varying perspectives. We offer expert-approved relationship advice to help you grow emotionally through sharing compelling stories, vulnerable discussions, and personal insights we hope will spark inspiration. 

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In this episode of Getting Open, Francesca Hogi&mdash;love and life coach, lawyer-turned-relationship expert, and passionate advocate for self-love&mdash;joins to talk about what it really means to live an authentic life and attract true love. Francesca shares insights on dating app fatigue, her "love without settling" philosophy, and how changing your internal narrative can completely shift your external reality.
Check out the Lasting Love Masterclass! yourtango.com/lasting-marriage-relationship-class
Chapters: 00:00 &ndash; Introduction &nbsp; 04:55 &ndash; Living with intention: Choosing how to live rather than reacting to life 08:12 &ndash; Breaking up with people-pleasing 12:45 &ndash; &ldquo;Love without settling&rdquo; mantra: What that means in practice 16:20 &ndash; How dating apps commodify people and what to do about it 21:15 &ndash; Authenticity as magnetism: Stop changing yourself to be chosen 27:00 &ndash; The myth of &ldquo;the one&rdquo; &amp; why no one person completes you 32:10 &ndash; How shifting your story changes your life 36:40 &ndash; Finding aligned relationships without burnout 42:10 &ndash; What kind of energy are you leading with in dating? 46:30 &ndash; How to stop recreating the same relationships 50:05 &ndash; Why being rejected is a gift 59:15 &ndash; Dating from a place of calm, not urgency 1:03:00 &ndash; Advice on dating apps: How to use them without burnout
FOLLOW YOURTANGO INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/yourtango&nbsp; TIKTOK | https://www.tiktok.com/@yourtango&nbsp; THREADS | https://www.threads.net/@yourtango&nbsp; TWITTER | https://www.twitter.com/YourTango&nbsp; FACEBOOK | https://www.facebook.com/YourTango/
&ldquo;Getting Open w/ Andrea Miller&rdquo; is a new podcast aimed at helping people truly open up to one another and to themselves by digging into hard truths and varying perspectives. We offer expert-approved relationship advice to help you grow emotionally through sharing compelling stories, vulnerable discussions, and personal insights we hope will spark inspiration.&nbsp;
Subscribe to YourTango&rsquo;s Youtube channel to make sure you catch new episodes of &ldquo;Getting Open with Andrea Miller&rdquo; Tuesdays at 3 PM ET. You can also listen anywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts.
For all of our amazing articles and more, visit our website: https://www.YourTango.com
Do you have a relationship issue or topic you&rsquo;d like to discuss? Would you be interested in talking to our audience?&nbsp; Email us at gettingopen@yourtango.com
&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash; #relationshipcoach #selflovejourney #datingadvice

Getting Open with Andrea Miller is a new video podcast from YourTango and iHeartRadio. Its mission is to help us all transform in our lives through truly opening up emotionally in our relationships. Each highly entertaining episode offers an opportunity to increase self-awareness and make critical changes in how we relate to each other that allow us to truly connect and thrive as a result. 

In an era plagued by extreme divisiveness and political polarization, a mental health crisis, and a loneliness epidemic, Getting Open with Andrea Miller offers a refreshing, helpful tonic to its audience. 

Early guests feature luminaries like Marianne Williamson, Dr. Helen Fisher, Dr. Sue Johnson, Dr. Guy Winch, Dr. Stan Tatkin, and other incredible thought leaders. 

Andrea, joined by renowned guests and a set of lively co-hosts, dives into the deep waters of relationships, self-awareness, and personal growth. In their illuminating, energetic conversations, they fearlessly tackle hard truths, ask the tough questions, and explore ways to learn and grow, all in the name of opening up and transforming together!

The show endeavors to improve relationships of all kinds - with loved ones, colleagues, friends, and, crucially, with ourselves. Expect laughter, insights, and actionable takeaways in every episode.

Future shows will feature an array of artists, authors, researchers, leaders, and change-makers who share our ethos for opening up and understand the critical importance of rebuilding America's emotional core.

Getting Open with Andrea Miller is a new video podcast from YourTango and iHeartRadio. Its mission is to help us all transform in our lives through truly opening up emotionally in our relationships. Each highly entertaining episode offers an opportunity to increase self-awareness and make critical changes in how we relate to each other that allow us to truly connect and thrive as a result. 
In an era plagued by extreme divisiveness and political polarization, a mental health crisis, and a loneliness epidemic, Getting Open with Andrea Miller offers a refreshing, helpful tonic to its audience. 
Early guests feature luminaries like Marianne Williamson, Dr. Helen Fisher, Dr. Sue Johnson, Dr. Guy Winch, Dr. Stan Tatkin, and other incredible thought leaders. 
Andrea, joined by renowned guests and a set of lively co-hosts, dives into the deep waters of relationships, self-awareness, and personal growth. In their illuminating, energetic conversations, they fearlessly tackle hard truths, ask the tough questions, and explore ways to learn and grow, all in the name of opening up and transforming together!
The show endeavors to improve relationships of all kinds - with loved ones, colleagues, friends, and, crucially, with ourselves. Expect laughter, insights, and actionable takeaways in every episode.
Future shows will feature an array of artists, authors, researchers, leaders, and change-makers who share our ethos for opening up and understand the critical importance of rebuilding America's emotional core.

Teaching us how to be more OPEN and honest in our relationships, and how we communicate with one another

Getting Open with Andrea Miller

Getting Open with Andrea Miller is a new video podcast from YourTango and iHeartRadio. Its mission is to help us all transform in our lives through truly opening up emotionally in our relationships. Each highly entertaining episode offers an opportunity to increase self-awareness and make critical changes in how we relate to each other that allow us to truly connect and thrive as a result. 

In an era plagued by extreme divisiveness and political polarization, a mental health crisis, and a loneliness epidemic, Getting Open with Andrea Miller offers a refreshing, helpful tonic to its audience. 

Early guests feature luminaries like Marianne Williamson, Dr. Helen Fisher, Dr. Sue Johnson, Dr. Guy Winch, Dr. Stan Tatkin, and other incredible thought leaders. 

Andrea, joined by renowned guests and a set of lively co-hosts, dives into the deep waters of relationships, self-awareness, and personal growth. In their illuminating, energetic conversations, they fearlessly tackle hard truths, ask the tough questions, and explore ways to learn and grow, all in the name of opening up and transforming together!

The show endeavors to improve relationships of all kinds - with loved ones, colleagues, friends, and, crucially, with ourselves. Expect laughter, insights, and actionable takeaways in every episode.

Future shows will feature an array of artists, authors, researchers, leaders, and change-makers who share our ethos for opening up and understand the critical importance of rebuilding America's emotional core.

Getting Open with Andrea Miller is a new video podcast from YourTango and iHeartRadio. Its mission is to help us all transform in our lives through truly opening up emotionally in our relationships. Each highly entertaining episode offers an opportunity to increase self-awareness and make critical changes in how we relate to each other that allow us to truly connect and thrive as a result. 
In an era plagued by extreme divisiveness and political polarization, a mental health crisis, and a loneliness epidemic, Getting Open with Andrea Miller offers a refreshing, helpful tonic to its audience. 
Early guests feature luminaries like Marianne Williamson, Dr. Helen Fisher, Dr. Sue Johnson, Dr. Guy Winch, Dr. Stan Tatkin, and other incredible thought leaders. 
Andrea, joined by renowned guests and a set of lively co-hosts, dives into the deep waters of relationships, self-awareness, and personal growth. In their illuminating, energetic conversations, they fearlessly tackle hard truths, ask the tough questions, and explore ways to learn and grow, all in the name of opening up and transforming together!
The show endeavors to improve relationships of all kinds - with loved ones, colleagues, friends, and, crucially, with ourselves. Expect laughter, insights, and actionable takeaways in every episode.
Future shows will feature an array of artists, authors, researchers, leaders, and change-makers who share our ethos for opening up and understand the critical importance of rebuilding America's emotional core.

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