Phil's a gay dad, an ex-husband (to a wife) with teenage twins and is now a happy partner to a loving man. Learn how our harshest experiences in life become our super power, especially in being a great dad to your children. Go from porn-shame to porn as a celebration, deal with "daddy" when you already are one, hear hw Catholic education in Australia wasn't all bad. Phil says community is everywhere, and what you make it. He describes shame as a being you can name, tame and befriend to your great benefit.

He knows what it is to feel like you're not -anything- enough. Finally we talk lonliness and what de-stigmatising it looks like and can do for us.

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