How does the word "conflict," make you feel? Like it or not, it will be part of your marriage. The key is in how you deal with it when it comes. Greg, Erin and John discuss five styles of conflict and share which ones they identify with the most. Featuring Mrs. Debra Fileta.

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How does the word "conflict," make you feel? Like it or not, it will be part of your marriage. The key is in how you deal with it when it comes. Greg, Erin and John discuss five styles of conflict and share which ones they identify with the most. Featuring Mrs. Debra Fileta. Find us online at <a href="http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast</a> or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive Debra Fileta's book "Love in Every Season" for your donation of any amount: <a href="https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1307011" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1307011</a> Get more episode resources: <a href="https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/five-styles-of-conflict/#featured-resource-cta" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/five-styles-of-conflict/#featured-resource-cta</a> If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: <a href="https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/</a>

If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.

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Have you told your spouse how much you appreciate him or her recently? It can be easy to get caught up in the to-do lists of life, and miss telling them "thank you." Jim Daly and his wife Jean, along with the Smalley's, encourage you to make your mate feel valued through very simple gestures. Plus, John Fuller asks Erin Smalley why focusing on the best aspects of your spouse is good for your relationship.
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When you set a boundary, it can lead to deeper intimacy with your spouse. John and Erin will encourage you to be intentional about setting boundaries in your marriage. Then, Jim Daly and Jerry Jenkins discuss ways you can practically eliminate some types of sexual temptation.

 

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When you set a boundary, it can lead to deeper intimacy with your spouse. John and Erin will encourage you to be intentional about setting boundaries in your marriage. Then, Jim Daly and Jerry Jenkins discuss ways you can practically eliminate some types of sexual temptation.
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It's important to recognize where you're tempted so you can guard your marriage. Jim Daly and Jerry Jenkins address how sex, money and pride are the top areas where most people battle temptation. Then, Erin Smalley encourages married couples to create a safe place for you and your spouse to talk about where you feel tempted.

 

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It's important to recognize where you're tempted so you can guard your marriage. Jim Daly and Jerry Jenkins address how sex, money and pride are the top areas where most people battle temptation. Then, Erin Smalley encourages married couples to create a safe place for you and your spouse to talk about where you feel tempted.
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