A selfish attitude is toxic for your marriage. We all struggle with it, but through Christ's love, we can learn to let it go. John, Erin and Greg will discuss how to get rid of selfishness in your marriage, and how a bad choice doesn't have to end of your relationship. Receive the book From This Day Forward with your gift of any amount!

A selfish attitude is toxic for your marriage. We all struggle with it, but through Christ's love, we can learn to let it go. John, Erin and Greg will discuss how to get rid of selfishness in your marriage, and how a bad choice doesn't have to end of your relationship. Receive the book From This Day Forward with your gift of any amount!

If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Breaking out of Selfish Patterns

Introduction

Spring Season

Taking Care of Yourself

Marriage Resources

When you fell in love, was it love at first sight, or did attraction grow with time? Jim Daly and Debra Fileta address how a person can fall in love with their mate, and enjoy the spring season of marriage. Also, Erin and Greg Smalley will address why taking care of yourself is good for your relationship

 

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Focus on Marriage Assessment

 

Loving Your Spouse Through the Seasons of Marriage 

 

Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing? 

 

God’s Plan for Marriage

 

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When you fell in love, was it love at first sight, or did attraction grow with time? Jim Daly and Debra Fileta address how a person can fall in love with their mate, and enjoy the spring season of marriage. Also, Erin and Greg Smalley will address why taking care of yourself is good for your relationship
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Find us online at <a href="http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast" data-callout-id="edit_links_in_description">focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast</a> or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.
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<a href="https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2026-04-21?refcd=2462301">Receive the book Love in Every Season for your donation of any amount!</a>
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/ajpkko">Focus on Marriage Assessment</a>
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<a href="https://store.focusonthefamily.com/loving-your-spouse-through-the-seasons-of-marriage-digital/?refcd=2462301">Loving Your Spouse Through the Seasons of Marriage</a>&nbsp;
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/8wc70b">Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?</a>&nbsp;
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/m1m1uk">God&rsquo;s Plan for Marriage</a>
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Keeping Attraction Alive

5 Signs of Spiritual Warfare

Greg & Erin on Spiritual Warfare

We're Here to Help

How do you know if you're facing spiritual warfare? Dr. Tim Muehlhoff and his wife Noreen joined Jim Daly to discuss 5 real signs that you're actually under a spiritual attack. Also, Greg and Erin open up about times they persevered when they tempted to be discouraged.

 

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Hope Restored

 

The Spiritual Battle for Your Marriage 

 

Counseling Consultation and Referrals 

 

Is This a Spiritual Attack, or Is My Spouse Just a Jerk?

 

Support This Show!

 

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How do you know if you're facing spiritual warfare? Dr. Tim Muehlhoff and his wife Noreen joined Jim Daly to discuss 5 real signs that you're actually under a spiritual attack. Also, Greg and Erin open up about times they persevered when they tempted to be discouraged.
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Find us online at <a href="http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast" data-callout-id="edit_links_in_description">focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast</a> or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.
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<a href="https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2026-04-16?refcd=2459503">Receive the book Defending Your Marriage for your donation of any amount!</a>
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/br2agr">Hope Restored</a>
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<a href="https://store.focusonthefamily.com/the-spiritual-battle-for-your-marriage-digital/?refcd=2459503">The Spiritual Battle for Your Marriage</a>&nbsp;
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/7pz6mq">Counseling Consultation and Referrals</a>&nbsp;
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/snhdjf">Is This a Spiritual Attack, or Is My Spouse Just a Jerk?</a>
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Are You Facing Spiritual Warfare?

Money Conflicts

Getting on the Same Page

What are You Feeling?

If you're not on the same page financially, please know, you aren't the only couple facing that tension. Greg Smalley shares how many couples actually have a serious disagreement regarding finances. Plus, Jim Daly talks to Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn about how you can get on the same page with money.

 

Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.

 

Receive the book Thriving in Love and Money for your donation of any amount!

 

Focus on Marriage Assessment

 

Game Changing Marriage and Money Insights 

 

End Daily Disagreements About Money 

 

Money Choices That Couples Need to Make in Every Season of Marriage

 

Support This Show!

 

If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

If you're not on the same page financially, please know, you aren't the only couple facing that tension. Greg Smalley shares how many couples actually have a serious disagreement regarding finances. Plus, Jim Daly talks to Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn about how you can get on the same page with money.
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Find us online at <a href="http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast" data-callout-id="edit_links_in_description">focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast</a> or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.
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<a href="https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2026-04-14?refcd=2450507">Receive the book Thriving in Love and Money for your donation of any amount!</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/vpcb4i">Focus on Marriage Assessment</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://store.focusonthefamily.com/game-changing-marriage-and-money-insights-digital/?refcd=2450507">Game Changing Marriage and Money Insights</a>&nbsp;
&nbsp;
<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/0k0pcn">End Daily Disagreements About Money</a>&nbsp;
&nbsp;
<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/giz6fq">Money Choices That Couples Need to Make in Every Season of Marriage</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/24fom-donate/?refcd=2450507">Support This Show!</a>
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