Doing a Repair

Forgive the Hurtful Words

What Do I Do in Conflict?

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When tension is high, how do you avoid saying something to your spouse that you'll end up regretting? Deborah Pegues and Jim Daly offer some helpful thoughts on what it means and looks like to control your tongue. Then, the Smalley's share how to calm down and get collected even when an argument gets intense. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY
30 Days to Taming Your Tongue
Focus on Marriage Assessment
Controlling Your Tongue (Digital Download)
Take the Reactive Cycle Assessment
Listen to Focus Live on Godcaster 

When tension is high, how do you avoid saying something to your spouse that you'll end up regretting? Deborah Pegues and Jim Daly offer some helpful thoughts on what it means and looks like to control your tongue. Then, the Smalley's share how to calm down and get collected even when an argument gets intense. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY <a href="https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2026-07-23?refcd=2506401">30 Days to Taming Your Tongue</a> <a href="https://sf.fotf.com/ck9vq4">Focus on Marriage Assessment</a> <a href="https://store.focusonthefamily.com/controlling-your-tongue-digital-product/?refcd=2506401">Controlling Your Tongue (Digital Download)</a> <a href="https://sf.fotf.com/2nnqzf">Take the Reactive Cycle Assessment</a> <a href="https://sf.fotf.com/825bgm">Listen to Focus Live on Godcaster </a>

If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.