Welcome to the '5th Thing' with Amy & Kat!! Today they discussed this email about “signs” (when it comes to decision making) that was sent in by a listener: “One way to think about the ‘sign’ is - if your decision is ‘no,’ take a minute to pretend that ‘no’ is your decision. How does that make you feel? Do you feel relieved, at peace, happy? Or, do you feel sad, doubtful, regretful? If you can't decipher how you feel, you could also try to picture your life 1 year (or however long) after making your ‘no’ decision. Do you imagine yourself better off, or not? I thought Kat with her background as a therapist might also have some advice!”

Thank you licensed therapist, Kat Defatta, for joining us with her wisdom. You can find her on Instagram: @Kat.Defatta + @YouNeedTherapyPodcast.

Best places to find more about Amy: RadioAmy.com + @RadioAmy

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Welcome to the '5th Thing' with Amy &amp; Kat!! Today they discussed this email about “signs” (when it comes to decision making) that was sent in by a listener: “One way to think about the ‘sign’ is - if your decision is ‘no,’ take a minute to pretend that ‘no’ is your decision. How does that make you feel? Do you feel relieved, at peace, happy? Or, do you feel sad, doubtful, regretful? If you can't decipher how you feel, you could also try to picture your life 1 year (or however long) after making your ‘no’ decision. Do you imagine yourself better off, or not? I thought Kat with her background as a therapist might also have some advice!”Thank you licensed therapist, Kat Defatta, for joining us with her wisdom. You can find her on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/kat.defatta/">@Kat.Defatta</a> + <a href="https://www.instagram.com/youneedtherapypodcast/">@YouNeedTherapyPodcast</a>.Best places to find more about Amy: <a href="RadioAmy.com">RadioAmy.com</a> + <a href="https://www.instagram.com/radioamy/">@RadioAmy</a> Please send emails for the 5th thing to 4ThingsWithAmyBrown@gmail.com Learn more about your ad-choices at <a href="https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com">https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com</a>

Feeling Things with Amy & Kat is a podcast for anyone who’s ever had feelings—or wants to. Hosted by Amy Brown and therapist Kat Van Buren, this is a space where nothing is off-limits. From deep reflections on childhood to pop culture obsessions to what’s happening in the world, all feelings deserve a seat at the table—big, small, awkward, joyful, confusing, and everything in between. At its core, it’s real friends having real conversations about real feelings. Some episodes go deep, some stay light, but all are rooted in curiosity, honesty, and connection. In a world that moves fast, sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is pause... and feel things.

Feeling Things with Amy &amp; Kat is a podcast for anyone who&rsquo;s ever had feelings&mdash;or wants to. Hosted by Amy Brown and therapist Kat Van Buren, this is a space where nothing is off-limits. From deep reflections on childhood to pop culture obsessions to what&rsquo;s happening in the world, all feelings deserve a seat at the table&mdash;big, small, awkward, joyful, confusing, and everything in between. At its core, it&rsquo;s real friends having real conversations about real feelings. Some episodes go deep, some stay light, but all are rooted in curiosity, honesty, and connection. In a world that moves fast, sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is pause... and feel things.

Feeling Things with Amy & Kat 

Decision Making Tools (5th Thing)

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