Fearlessly Failing with Lola Berry687. Fearlessly Failing: David the Medium - 2025 Predictions!
DAVID THE MEDIUM: PREDICTIONS for the rest of the year!
Welcome to the pod birthday boy David the Medium! Welcome back, I think aside from Matt, that David has been on the pod more than any other guest. You see we also record true crime pods in LA (we have another one planned for May) and you can listen to our most recent true crime podcast here: True Crime LA
David is a clairvoyant and psychic medium, he does take clients and you can book in here: https://www.davidthemedium.com/ as you'll hear in this ep he does a mini reading for me and i want to say for you the listener also.
You can follow David on socials here too: https://www.instagram.com/davidthemedium
David also makes predictions for the rest of the year; we're in a time of letting go of the old and welcoming in the new! You'll hear David talk about embracing a time of transformation.
Big big love,
Lola
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I'm Laala Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter, and professional oversharer. This podcast is all about celebrating failure because I believe it's a chance for us to learn, grow and face our blind spots. Each week I'll interview a different guest about their highs as well as they're lows, all in a bid to inspire us to feiously fail. Hello, Welcome to the pod. Today we have returning guests David the Medium. He's a psychic medium, a speaker and social commentator and when we recorded this specific episode, he's been on the pod I think four or five times now, but when we recorded this episode it was actually his birthday wa A Tredea. So it's been an honor to continuously have David on the pod. Here in this app he talks about his predictions and themes for the rest of the year. So how great this might help ive your you know, when you just need a little bit of a guidance, maybe that's what this etpol brings for you. And he talks really nicely around themes. He does a little mini reading on me, but in all honesty, it felt like it was for yes, me, but also you the listener. So I hope you love that bit that's towards the second half of the chat. David, you are always such a joy to interview on this pod. And I know you're going to be coming to beautiful Los Angeles soon and we're going to do another true crime pod together and I can not wait enjoy David's unreal. Hope you love it, David, you flipp and magical?
All right?
Who are a big love by David the Medium the Bearer? How many yets are we at now?
I was wondering on the drive. I think it's more than that. I think five or five.
And today's extra special?
Is it? Why? Because you're here exactly.
Because it's your birthday?
You told you that everyone has one. It's nothing special.
No, it's so special. It's so special.
I am so excited to chat with you today because we're kind of at that phase of the year where you're kind of like, all right, the start of the year felt kind of like clunky, I would say, especially living in LA and thank goodness, you're such a lifeline to me. You were like you like, cis this area is okay? You've got to pack your bags if you're in this area.
I got obsessed with the fire.
But I know you have a love of natural disasters also and L and LA, so it was like two of your things just all put together. To the listener, you are a medium and a psychic, and I want to say you know you're your media talent as well, like your podcast, you go on TV, you talk about you talk on a plethora of topics.
I just got into corporate speaking as way.
I saw you did it two days.
Yeah, look at little mainstream. That's what it's all about.
This is what I think this year is for you.
Thank you.
Let's take a little moment to celebrate you. It's your birthday. Birthdays are a really strange time because they kind of force us to do this weird stock take.
Literally, Oh my god. You could have said it better because it sort of feels like I'm having a I do it every year, but I go through like a twenty four to thirty six hour mental breakdown from like what's working in my life? What's not working? I need to ruin and change everything not ruined, you know what I mean? Like I need to upheaval. It's always a big up people for everyone, not many people. And I read a thing about this so many people like their birthdays.
It's super common people not like their birth.
I don't like my birthday, but it's always like, oh okay, where am I in life?
I always do around birthday time. I'll always enjoy the day, but I'll always have like a mini breakdown on either right before or right after it.
And it's it's like.
I thought I would to we have done this by this age, Like I've did this weird expectation thing of myself.
Isn't it. We put so much pressure on ourselves. I feel like we have to be somewhere, have to be doing something that if we don't reach it, we feel like we've failed. But we only feel like that on our birthdates.
It's funny, but as somebody that is so connected to like your intuition, your spiritual wellness, your emotional wellness, and your mental health as well, what is a really good practice like when it comes to birthdays and just kind of like self care and looking after yourself, Like I feel like, you know, well, I'm.
Now I haven't been mental breakdow because I feel like I don't know no. It's it's it's such an important for all of us at any stage of our life or any part of you to just do self reflection and it's yea the remembrance. And the biggest lesson that I've learned is that there's no real point planning life down towards heap because nothing will ever work out how it's meant to. Like, even as a psychic medium, I don't necessarily know what I'm doing next week. My intuition, if I don't listen to it, can send me down the garden path on certain things. So when it comes to me to my birthday, like I've got that typical thing where I don't want to get older, but like with age comes maturity and wisdom. But you know we had that young lola, you know, you and I bucked the trend there, didn't we But it's it's just a good time for a reflection, and for me, I think just be easy on ourselves, like, yeah, don't like everything's happening how it's meant to the universe is too complicated and too complex for anything to be a coincidence. And for anyone that feels like you're on the wrong path, you're not. It's that simple because if you were meant to be on a different path, you would be on a different path, So be easy on yourself. Everything's turning out how it's meant to you. The universe happens for you, not to you.
You're that's like your thing, isn't it.
I love that and I think it gives you a positive perspective too, as opposed to like why isn't this happening? Or I want this to happen in a certain way, or like holding on. I'm someone that holds on too tight.
Yeah, so do I. Though we're on the humans, this is it. We're only human like ireckards with your spiritual understanding or your intelligent understanding about any topic on the planet. At the end of the day, we're all human.
I always feel like you've you're you're a step ahead though. I always feel every time I see you, I always feel like, no matter what's going on in your life, you're very clear. I would call you energetically clear. I guess you've got to be for your line of work.
It helps.
So for people that haven't listened to the past mazillion episodes I've done on not just feels failing. You've been on every wonderful podcast under the sun. You're you're the pod King. I had a meeting with a publicist the other day and I was like, how good's David. I was like, I feel like he's on sorry pods. In fact, I've stopped preparing you for your episodes the traditional way that I prepare for guests, which is like I do a deep dive and I really like listen to the latest pod. They've done all that for you because I trust and we have a friendship, so I guess it comes from a space of like lived experience together. I literally trust that whatever is meant to come out of this conversation is just going to flow out of this conversation. And that's kind of like how I come to record with you nowadays.
That's good.
I like that we just bounce back and forth, I know, except for when we do our true crime episodes.
Then there's a lot of prep that goes into that.
Gosh, guys, if you haven't listened to the True Crime episodes, definitely do yourself a favor.
We're going to do another one, aren't we.
I really hope so, because they're my favorite podcasts I've ever done.
So good.
Lola does the most incredible research and takes me to these places around Los Angeles where true crime has happened, hence the title true Crime Podcast. But my gosh, we have so much fun. We have so much my favorite things to do when I'm in LA exactly.
And we kind of do this like tour because I get us in the car, we rock around with the mics and so, yeah, it's happening again when you come to LA, we are doing another true crime. So I can't have you on this pod and without and I think because of like like I was saying, it starts, it's this strange time of the year. We're recording this in March. It's like it's still the start of the year. But it's early enough in the year that if you wanted to like really make a dint in the year, you can, Yeah, you know what I mean.
And so I do want to talk to you about, like how you feel.
This year is going to roll up the predictions of sorts of like what we can kind of like lean into and be ready for because everyone, all the astrologers are talking about we're in a clipse seat. There's so many eclipses. We're going to expect all these things to go on this year. And some people are saying it's going to be the best year, and some of them saying it's not going to be the best year. So I look, I'm going straight to this source. I want to know what David the medium thinks.
Well, let's put it this way. It comes down to your own reality and how you interpret what happens in the world. So you know, quote Charles Dickens, it was the best of times, it was the worst of times. Like it's neither. Really, it's how everyone interprets it. For me personally, I'm so excited for twenty twenty five minutes, the first year that I've had a positive feeling about really probably since twenty nineteen. And then you know, long behold twenty twenty, twenty twenty one, not great, got be better? You know, those things that we're having now. Honestly, let's not bring up what happened in those years, but we all know. So when it comes to twenty twenty five, it's interesting that you mention the eclipses because we're in eclipse season right now, and it's a really big upheaval kind of energy and you should never manifest and an eclipse you should always just let go of and cleanse. That's what I've been doing. Yeah, but it's it's fascinating because the energies that are sort of circling around the world right now, because I want everyone to imagine like a calm lake and then you throw a stone on it and the ripple energy that hangs out, like I kind of feel that always go around the world. Yeah, And it's really like it's going to be a year, right, take a year.
Like I saw you posted on Insta like two days ago. You're like you talked about this eclipse energy and like how you talked about how you've been letting gold of stuff over, like you were like this week and coming into that, we had that like it was like full moon virgo, blood moon, lunar eclipse thing on. I think it was last Friday, and you're like, I've just been letting go and letting go and you said the amazing like it was making such space for you. Yeah, and then when you make the space, good shit comes in. Right.
Well, that's it. Like we set our intention with the universe, you know what I mean, Like I always say, the universe doesn't know us, the thing, it only matches the intention that we put out there. So if you're making space and you're clearing things that are no longer working for you, whether that's people, friendships, relationships, work, you know, mental, whatever it may be. If it's not serving you, let it go and allow space for new things to flourish and enter and also match the intention that you're putting out there. So it's always very impersonal and important to pay attention to how are we presenting ourselves to the world, what are we saying verbally, but also what do we say and energetically what's the intention that we're putting out there? Oh? I love that attention to your daily habits. If you're pregnant, a lower frequency, and it's okay because we're all human people. Do you have a bad day, that's fine, Yeah, But you know what energy and frequency are you putting out?
Yeah?
Are you attracting shit back to you or are you attracting good things?
It's so funny. I've got this friend in America that you would love, by the way. She's an actress and her name is Chanelle, And whenever she comes over to our house, I always say to Matt, I want energy like Chanelle's. I want to be a Chanelle because she's so positive.
Within all of us as a chanell r.
Yeah, but I'll literally say it. And I met another friend in Sydney recently and I and Duncan, you're beautiful. He's also bet on this pod they both have. And I said to matt Ah, Duncan's a chanel And it's this ability to sit in the unknown and stay positive. And I think you're quite good at like you can assess like if something's not working for you very quickly. Obviously you have the added ability that not all of us have. But I still think you're like, hang on, I tried this thing, it didn't feel right, and you have this ability to just go, I'm going to let God that because I know there's something bigger for me out there. I have the faith, yeah, and I think but see, I don't think everyone has that. Like how do we tap into that faith and that trust and also that self belief?
Well, that's it. It's it's something that's so personal because having the faith that things can evolve and change and having the trust that things evolve and change it is blind, like you don't know for sure that it is. Yeah, you know all that sounds a bit negative, but no, like it doesn't you have.
To be okay. Yeah, and okay with uncertainty.
That's one hundred percent. You have to sit in the uncomfortable stages. You have to sit in the uncertainty. I have the faith because I know how I'm presenting to the world. Yeah, and if I'm thinking in the positive manner, off im putting energy out there that wants to create and grow and evolve and build, then what is meant for you went past by you totally.
I feel like you have you share a very positive you. What we see You're very honest, by the way, but I feel like you're your What you share of you, David is positive. Like I remember I sat in on when the fires were going on.
You didn't imprompt you zoom.
Like healing Los Angeles, Yeah, and I sat. I was at the ogre Steo and I timed my break with when that was going on. I remember I was sitting across the road at a park from the yoga studo and to get there, I had to walk over ash from the fire that had like the air from Air Pacific Palisades, Colba. They're kind of close to each other and just like the amount of you're so good at like holding space in uncomfortable places and keeping your energy positive because like in that day, like I'd heard, I probably met six people that day that had lost.
Everything, you know, and would have nosedived as well.
The energy would totally nosedive. But because Americas are all always moving forward, that to me is one of the energies of America. It was also really weird because it was like businesses usual. So you could see people sitting at a cafe having a coffee and plumes of smoke behind them at either the Palisades fires or the Pasadena fires. And Matt and I were like, what, like it could because we've lived through floods in Spyron. Yeah, Lismore, and you just joined the mud Army, which means you just rock on down to the community hall and you just start volunteering. A bit different here because it was so dangerous to inhale the the toxins from the fires. Yeah, it's crazy. I had in that time. I haven't told you this. We haven't talked about the fires that much. In the time post fires, I had three chest infections because your body is just like, get this the f out of me.
Because you left to go to Palm Springs.
We did Joshua Tree for one night.
Yeah, that would have been so beneficial.
Like yeah, because it was just in the middle of it all. But we still had go bags packed, David, so we still will, Like if we go for a night, what if our apartment building burns down?
It's so stressful, isn't it. That's a frequency that again has an incredibly negative, difficult impact on the body, doesn't.
It right, It's so And this is why, like, I love the way you've got multi passions, my friend. I know you are a medium, a psychic medium, and I know that I don't know. Your books are kind of closed, but then every now and then you just like pop out. Like that's why that last beautiful actress saying to be I was like, oh, you got to meet David, otherwise you're never gonna It's got to know a face to the name so that when your name pops up and I know people can see you that way. But I also feel like there are so many like facets to David, to you, which is like your fascination with like ORMs And I was in a cyclone last week and you.
Were like fakes the cyclone as well?
Are you jealous? I feel like yes.
I'm very jealous, very and.
Like I have to say, like seeing you go storm you have been storm chasing before.
Yeah, I'm going to get in made.
Is this like Oklahoma vibes?
You came to Oklahoma, Texas love it?
Didn't you have an experience last time? You were in a diner or something and you had this vision and you thought someone was going to come in?
Like did I tell you that? Yeah? Yeah, that was the school shooting down in Texas right near the border with Mexico. I'm going to murder the pronounce no wrong choice of work. I'm going to ruin the pronunciation of the town. But it was val in Texas and we were probably about forty kilometers away from that at the time. And yeah, well walked into subway And I've been to America like ten times. You love it, I love it. Ex Actually you're going.
To get married at Griffith's Observatory, you.
Know about out there. Yeah yeah, if anyone knows anyone, But yeah, we were sitting there and I was ordering subway and for the very first time in my history had been in America with all the you know, the not propaganda, but you know, the energy that's put onto gun violence. Gun violence, we're all terrified of it there, And I just went into this visionary day dream where I was sitting there and then someone walked in and shot us, but I could even hear the gunshots. And then I had to snapped myself out of it, being like, what the F was that? And I looked at the clock and it was like arguments like, I can't remember the time exactly, but it was like eleven to twenty three am or something like that. The exact time I had that vision of this guy walking in and shooting all of us in subway was when the school shooting started forty klometers down the road.
Isn't that I don't do something? Yeah, me too, isn't that?
And I did not think anything of it really because we didn't hear about it for a few hours because we were out in the middle of nowhere, storm chaps, we didn't have a reception. And then it suddenly when we got back that night that we found out that there was a school shooting around the corner. It's so scary.
I feel like you because we've talked a bit about I want to say your gifts, but you know, you know what I mean. When I say that, and you often say to me it's something that I can switch on and off in that scenario, though, Okay, I feel like, well that's it.
But it's kind of like when I'm not caught off guard, but I get a lot of downloads when I'm driving. I think it's kind of when you go onto autopilot, if that makes sense, and your brain isn't necessarily awake, but it's not asleep, so you're kind of just in that middle ground frequency. And I think it was just one of those cases like I'm just sort of standing there in subway daydreaming and then hits me Wow. Yeah, but it doesn't happen all the time. That's the thing.
No, I feel like you've to like that feels like a standout story.
Yeah.
Yeah, when you're reading for a client, has sometimes something hit you and you've felt like you should withhold it from them.
Never oh, you always share.
I decided very early on in my career that it wasn't for me to filter.
Really, so even nully stuff you're like, hey, I'm getting this feeling.
Well, that's it. Even if it talks about negative things or difficult things, it's always with yam of've how to work through it or walk around it, or how to heal or evolve through it. Never overtly like bang, yeah, okay, So you know we do talk about incredibly difficult things like sometimes, you know, maybe telling people that their partners are cheating on them. Oh wow, usually when they know, but they all that they have a suspicion. Spirit likes to confirm things. But gosh, we'ved up with murders. Yeah, it's difficult in spirit.
I was going to say, Secondly, I love a bit of a murders. I'd love to just be like well, I always say, like I'd love to see a shark, but I don't need it to come and attack me.
You know what I mean.
I haven't seen I'm in the water.
Yeah, No, I see them when I'm hiking, like I'm looking down. But I always think if I'm like waiting in the water'd be nice just see one take a surfer, you know what I mean.
That is the most morbid thing you've ever said.
Matt thinks that we Matt and I were driving here this morning and we were trying to get the traffic was mental, and there was this guy sitting at the front of a coffee shop like, and he was just like sweet Melbourne guy and he's drinking his black slash a and Matt's like, look at that guy doesn't want to be here. He's over it already. I want to go what if there's a bomb in that backpack? And he's like what My brain always goes, Oh, they're terrible. I'll always say about I've got interesting thought, can I share it? A little bit? Like Disneyland in La there's you know, have you been to Disneyland now?
You know?
Also Universal Studios in La. Yeah, there's there's these to the listener. There's this crazy huge mass massive but where you walk on at the top level right where the top level and the bottom level, so you're right up the top. There's just like this bit where they're building a whole new roller coaster. And I was like, oh, let's get a photo over here. It's good skyline of l A. I go, oh my god, imagine how many people commit to here just like chump, chump, Sorry, that's my Really the same thing?
Do you think the same thing everyone does? But don't talk about.
We're riffing and the man no, And Matt's like, why.
Do you think that and I'm like everyone thinks that, Matt.
Honestly, And I think like sometimes if I'm out at night or like doing something or on my own shopping, I'll be like, I wonder if they're a murderer. Really feminine, that's female because we have to You've got to be very aware of your surroundings that night especially, and we're little like we could grab us no props.
I mean, I'm they're hoping they'll take me on a tour, right.
A tour would be good or like fly on the wall. That's why I think we like our true true crime pods. Out of all the true crime places you and I have been, there's one that I'm so excited to take you by the way, Yeah, all new locations.
Friend, So you've already done the research in your RUDI mental beginning.
So when you said you wanted to, I was like, already know the first place we're going, even like a time where we could go for lunch, like around the talking about death and stuff like that. Out of all our true crime ones, I think I know what your fave was, But what was your fave?
What do you think of my favorite? The O? J.
Simpson? Yeah, I did like that what's her name again?
You knew all the cold Brown? Yeah?
You see.
Flashlights? Yeah? God? What was my true fave? My true crime? Faith? Yeah? I did like Nicole Brown. I did like Marilyn Monrose as well.
Even though we couldn't go into the house, it's been there was fun. So apparently I'm not going to tell you because I'll surprise you with it.
Oh you can't do that to me.
No, Well, we'll do it together in La.
It's fun.
Were able to drive up to the Palisades, you can probably can't get up there, can you.
I think they've opened it. It'll literally look like an apocalyptic Yeah, you'd probably feel a lot of stuff.
There'd be very very heavy.
Ah. Maybe if we do that, we have to do that last.
Yeah, or I'd like to see it because it kind of feels like you know, I know you and I have talked about this, but I used to go to the Palisades every trip I went to on it in LA, like Palisades Village, always just to have lunch or dinner there. Yeah, so it to kind of be nice to say goodbye to it. They're going to ruin the rebuild obviously, so.
Question I look at you. To me, I look at you, and I hope you take this the right way, but like I don't look. Yes, you're a psychic medium, but to me, like you sit in the entertainment industry so well, like you're very comfortable on a pod, you're very comfortable being filmed. I say, all your TV segs in a dream world. If it's your birthday, so if we can manifest something like it's your like where does where do you want to be in a year or two from now?
Wow? Well something. It's great that you even asked that, because it has been something I've been thinking a lot about. I don't know, but I know, Okay, I you know what I mean. Like, it's not that I'm hesitant to put labels on it, but I would love to have more of a social profile.
Okay, So.
I think there's a lot of benefit and just being able to go very mainstream with what I can show people and what I can not teach people but teach. You know, I would love to do more work on TV. I've just got into, as we were talking about before, you know, guest speaking and corporate speaking. Yeah, because what's.
Harder than TV?
Though? Well it is, But I love getting up in front of a crowd, even with my live shows that I did last year that I'll continue towards the end of twenty twenty five, Like, I love being able to do it because I think for me, my motto is there's such benefit in bringing what I do and who I am mainstream because I want every single person to know it's not supernatural, it's actually just super natural. And not everyone has to go to a medium, and not everyone has to be a medium or a spikiek or anything like that. But there's little tips and tools and tricks that we can bring into our daily life that can actually be of such benefit to us.
Can you share a couple?
Well, even just manifestation, I don't think many people necessarily understand how easy manifestation is. It's about, you know, the creation of pathways in your life. Because everything in our life his energy. Even science understands that like humans admit an energetic field, any living creature admits an energy field. But once energy's been created, it can't cease to exist, it changes form. So when it comes to manifestation, for example, there's an infinite amount of possibilities of the energy we can attract into our lives based on how we show ourselves in the world or show up in the world, but also our mindset. The energy is the frequencies that we're creating. Is that attracting what we want into our life? Oh?
I love that. What about people that are afraid of manifesting the wrong stuff?
You can't, but you know when?
So for example, right, what if someone's like, okay, go to like a meditation course and at the end they're like, Okay, breathe what you want, and then you get an intrusive thought like let's get murdered down on the shops and stuff and theoon. Do you know what I mean?
Though I do, and well, people are always worry about the loved ones dying for example, or you know, or did I wish that on them somehow? And I mean the simple answer is no, because you can't. You can't drastically change someone else's whole journey or their life path like that. But yeah, I think we all do have those intrusive thoughts, like I worry that if I think the wrong things, I can get very superstitious on things, can you. Yeah, Like I'm like, if I don't do this and this will happen. But that's it's all in your mind, you know what I mean. Yeah, so it's about calming the mind. But yeah, I don't want anyone to fear or worry that you're going to manifest negativity into your life or wrong things. Our choices that we make as humans can absolutely have consequences. That's a different thing. Yeah.
Oh my goodness, I thank you. Thanks putting in my mind.
You're not going to get murdered at the shop, sloller, and if you are, it was meant to happen.
Anyway, David said, So.
I don't want that on the podcast. Now, let's get that out. It's not going to happen. Damn it. You're going to die at an old great grandmother in your bed at.
Coming I always said as a kid, I'm going to live to one hundred and fourteen.
Great, Well that's probably likely given. I mean, if we don't ruin the world first, you know, that's the thing people are advances in medicine.
I know. So okay, So you love and you I feel like you love one connecting with people. I feel like that's your whole jam.
I love connecting with people. I like talking. Yeah.
Yeah, but there's a sense of like.
Self awareness and self confidence with you with not ego. Do you know what I mean?
Teach other people that as well? Yeah, I think yeah. So TV media live talking live shows like going to the Glamor on the green of anyone's listening.
I saw your your fashion PRITYI have.
Some and that's the thing.
You can have so much fun with it. Oh so, good outfits that we wear is also how we sharp into the world. So I'm going to get more into that because the beautiful outfits that everyone was wearing is that you can actually read them psychically and spiritually. Really yeah, because it's how we present.
What does this green situation tell you?
You need to connect with nature? Oh yeah, but you're always good at doing.
Yeah, but I love it.
But it's also obtained of the world you want to be. See, that's like a download. That's where it's talking. Be more spicy, oh say less the authentic spice of green chili.
At the moment, Yes, green jalapeno any day.
The way.
Green's a great color with your eyes especially, Oh thank you, my friend.
So I feel like sky's a limit for you.
I think one thing that I love that you're so able to do is like a tune yourself and the way you manifest and live to the stuff that you're the downloads, the stuff you're picking up on as well, So for the listener, for me selfishly as well.
What can we lead into this year?
Like what do you think? Like, yeah, we talked about a clip eclipse season and all that, and you don't you don't have to hold out, like you can say what you think is like going to shape things in a good way. Like I know, talking to you at the start of the you were like so excited about this year. You were like this and the way you said at starf like we've had We've had a few years that felt like they have really been cutting our teeth, like getting us ready for now, and now it feels like the start gun's gone, you know, like let's run at this thing cold life, right, So what because I'm going to bring this episode out pretty soon, Like what can we do between now and say, like the end of the year. That's what it's March, there's that nine months, Yeah, April, May, July, August septeen b teven members of it. It's eleven, No, no, it's nine months. It's nine nine ish twelve months in the yeah, yeah, it's nine. It's nine. So what do you see for us and what can we lean into?
Well, this is it. Twenty twenty five is all about change and transformation. So it's really important for anyone to do a lot of self reflections at the moment, but especially over the coming weeks to months, about letting go of things that are no longer working for you, like maybe they've worked great the last four or five years, maybe there's not real benefit to it anymore. Now. That can be people, can be relationships, it can be business agreements, it can be how you see yourself in the world and how you're placing yourself. If it's not working for you, then work on evolution. So twenty twenty five in a lot of ways. And this is a term that I used really in twenty twenty three. So we're talking about a good sort of twelve to eighteen months before twenty twenty five begun, and then the Trump administration has actually taken my word on board. But it was the Golden Age. We're rebirthing the world in a lot of different ways, and it's very interesting to see because there's a lot of things that are come into light of those transparency that's been presented to us, and a lot of people are actually a bit fearful of that, or they're a bit sort of confrontational with it. So it's sort of like they're really class been trying to hold on to the old world that doesn't necessarily exist anymore. So it's also about being flexible, remain in the flow, and remembering you you don't bend, you end up breaking.
So I love that you've said about how it's holding on something that I'm really bad at, and we all, yeah, oh, you're so lovely. But I think as well, like if we can there's this beauty about like working. There's this it's a yoga word. I'm going to absolutely say it wrong via Gria, and it means to like work really hard at a goal.
I thought you're trying to viagra had on something.
It's like it's like viria. Now all I can hear is viagra as well, And it means to work really hard at a goal, but have no attachment to the outcome. And I think that if if we work that way, then what you were just talking about about being able to let go, and you were saying, like this time right now with the eclipse is that cleansing energy. If we can learn to like, let go of the stuff that's not serving us, let it go, and it just you.
Will be like a bow and arrow. You'll get pulled back to be.
Shot for Oh well, there's the audiogram. Thank you.
Love that.
I think it's a practice that we need to employ this year, this year especially. I feel like I interviewed right before you came here, or not right before, but before you came here, this epic young kid that's built three multimillion dollar businesses and he's twenty seven.
It's not gorgeous, so sounds like a catch.
And he worked with Yay on the Yeasy relaunch and made nineteen million dollars in one day. Amazing, Yeah, in credit But anyway, he talks about failing really fast, like and just and he said success loves speed. And so I think if you can let go of the shit that's in your way, the stuff that like and I hope you don't mind me sayings. When you came in, you were like, I feel a bit heavy, and I think that that comes when you let shit go. I don't know, we haven't caught up for lunch yet. The lunches after the podcast that Matt will be how but there's a and people don't talk about this heaviness because like when we let go of stuff, even if it is the right thing, and it's that what you were saying about the bowl and arrow, like pulling us back for a relaunch, That pulling back feeling that like letting go of the stuff weighing you down, feeling as essential as it is, is so uncomfortable.
It's very uncomfortable.
And that's where I think the heaviness can sometimes come because you can second guess yourself, you can doubt, especially if it's and I know what yours was, but like if it's like changing the people that you're working with on a program, you know what I mean, or on a project or something as an entertainer and as a creative, which I think you are. So I didn't mean to therapize you, but here we are, here we are to birthday or just therapist's perfect.
But I think if.
Because of the industry you're in and then wanting to work in the media industry is well, you have to work with a team that wholeheartedly believes in you.
And I wasn't beforehand.
Yeah, And how cool is that? Realizing that it's super normal, but it does feel like a relationship break.
Yeah, that's it, But I don't know whether I can find it again.
Oh are you kidding?
But like, I know I can get the opportunities again, but maybe it's something I do need to do solo. Like I think I'm my own best advocate when people are actually able to talk to me directly, because if I have someone pitching on my behalf say no, he's a psyche medium that comes with everyone else's preconceived ideas about what that is or what that represents or who I would be. But then when I'm able to sit in front of people, They're like, wow, he actually is quite intelligent, and he is pretty mainstream and normal, and he actually can speak pretty well in front of the media, whether it's podcasting or radio or TV or anything like that. So I am my own best advocate in that sense. And that's a very big lesson that I've learned. And it's actually something my astrologer Luke Bolker, is that you know Luke. If you don't know Luke, we're definitely getting you to know Luke. Okay, I don't know, but Luke bolk he's an incredible astrology here in Australia, like the biggest because he does a year ahead sort of astrology session with you, so it picks up the big themes and the transitions and changes. And I did one with him about sort of six seven weeks ago, and the biggest lesson for me was that I can't give my power over to anyone to steer the ship that I've built. And I think it's a really big lesson for all of us, like you, we all know who are people are. And if I look at my talent management, for example, who I recently separated from, from a personal level, they are my people. They're lovely, they're great, but from a work perspective, they're not. And it showed, you know, with the outcomes that were received. So I need to steer my own ship.
I went many years unrepresented. There's nothing wrong with it. So it's actually so free and in Australia, because the industry is smaller, you can totally wrap yourself yeah yeah yeah, and not to talk business to the listener, but you make a bigger cut because you're not giving away commissions.
So like missions, so they didn't get any deals with.
It, don't But don't feel bad, don't feel bad about and to the listener, if you've got a dream, don't feel bad like for like, if you're the only one that sees that vision, you don't need to outsource until that comes into your past.
Yeah, you don't need anyone else to see your vision. Like there will be people along our journeys for all of us. Like we learn how to swim, we learn to swim out, we learn to stand on the surfboard, we start learning how to surf the waves, and we do all that ourselves. With whatever it is you're doing, whatever industry, whatever creative that you are, then people will come along. Once you know how to surf, they're like, okay, we're going to help you surf as well. And I'm like, great, But don't forget who you are. Don't forget all the work that you can do, and don't forget that for any of us, even before opportunities arise or before maybe management comes in, wh're the one that did all the work. You know, you create yourself. We shall be incredibly proud of ourselves.
A thousand, one thousand say, you've got to You've got to celebrate yourself for sure. Can I ask uh, this is kind of like the meshing of your two worlds. But like when you do come up with a call like to leave your team or your management whatever, how much so you're gonna your intuition is gonna be like this feels iffy, like you want to know when it kind of feels a bit like man, this might have run its course. I mean, and in La people change agents every second day, like it is a.
Very fast moving city.
Oh yeah, and you just you're expected to go up the ladder as an actor, like you're meant to start and then move up and up. But like how much when you're, say, for example, in a meeting with someone that might be rapping you or you might be looking at working with and then you know how you were saying when when spirits involved you kind of like turn on. I know your auditory and you've got certain things, but like does anything ever happen when you're in a meeting and like spirits like, ah, this isn't working, danverse.
Well it's all intuition. And again like even there's David the medium who's now thirty eight years old, I maybe didn't listen to my intuition as good as I should have really, and I not ignored it, but I I knew the like if I look on back on everything in hindsight now, like I knew it was going to turn out this way really, but I let it go on for longer than it should, maybe from that hope that it could change, even no intuition was telling me this is how it is.
Wow.
So it's again it's a great lesson for me.
But it's also a good lesson in hope as well, like in that like I think we do love to see the best in people even when it's like, oh, they are still great people, but they're not the right fit, the right fear.
And that's not just with business, but you know you'll do that with relationships. I think a lot of people with romantic relationships, for example, will maybe date someone for longer than maybe they otherwise they should, or they'll be in relationships for longer even though you feel.
Like it's charged. I've been stuck in stuff and I'm like beautiful people, wrong people for.
Me, Yeah, but there's always that hope that I'll change el seat. From my perspective, yes, they can.
All grow to never.
So yeah, it's a good lesson for me and I know.
You talk about you don't you don't read for yourself because I can't. You can't and family as well, Right.
It's hard to read goodly.
Yeah, so that would tell me that your intuitions probably bang on.
Then for you is like if you get that feeling of like.
I don't know if I should be doing this, but I'm just going to see the look on the bright side and give it a crack. Anyway, how can we the listener develop and nurture our intuition?
Yeah, well, the most important thing for everyone listening to realize is that you already have it. But it is like a muscle. The more that you pay attention to it, the more that you listen to it, the stronger it will get. It's like flexing the muscle in the gym. So start off small, like pay attention to If you're feeling the need to say something, then say it. If you're feeling the need to change lanes when you're driving down the road, then do it. Like that even happens to me the other day. I was like, I need to get the right hand lane, and I just instantly did and then five hundred meters then I would have on the massive block and it would have taken me forever. Yeah, So it's those little things. But the more that you utilize it, the more that you pay attention to it, the stronger it will grow. But irregardless of what level we find ourselves on with our own spiritual journey of spiritual growth or even just our intuity of growth, it's good right from the stuff, Like the very first time you're lifting up the weight, you're still actually very in shae because it's it's the remembrance for all of us that we are a soul in a human body. We're not a humans having a spiritual experience Like this is something that is a natural language to every single one of us already. You just got to start listening. We already know how to speak the language of intuition because it is wholeheartedly our foundation.
I imagine intuition feels different for different people, Like I imagine like I always get like tingly hands, you know, go feeling the God, Yeah, exact and like or you'll just.
Know that's it. But it is that simple. Really, you'll just know, like how many times in general throughout life do we just know?
You know?
Yeah, it's my American accent.
It's yeah, you got a good you got a good one, and it's and it's trusting that. Obviously, I can't have you on the pod without asking if you feel like tapping into spirit and just seeing if anything feels like saying anything today. Also, it's your birthday though, so I don't want you to work on your birthday, so you have.
It's never it could never be working if I'm with.
You, So if you feel like it, go for it. I also had a download right before you said that, And I've got a really cool business if we're going to talk.
About fair oh hear that listeners?
Yeah for you though, like not met like you. I just have a feeling that something's going to blow up.
It's not that in the cafe that is going to blow off, hopefully.
I love how many I just love how many things that are like off kilter that you and I, that you and I have like one hundred percent touched on. Say, I feel so safe going there with you.
Likewise, anyway, I'm going to tap into Lola Berry. It's interesting when you mentioned that because the instant reactions that I get is sort of this element of feeling torn between kind of everything that we've even talked about about feeling torn between who I am and what I am, but also what the past represents to me, and especially I think given that you've been around family again, there is that sort of pool where it's sort of like, Okay, who am I? So it's you're very in matching with twenty twenty five about this element of reflection about not only everything that's happened over the last few years, but who am I right now and where do I want to be? And you may also be feeling the same about where we feel like in between worlds of right now. So it's a remembrance that the family will will sly say, the family will always be the anchor. Don't feel like you're letting them down by not being present in the way that you feel like you should be, because you are anyway. Does that make sense? Yeah, And I think it's hard for anyone that lives into SATA, especially overseas well. We've got our family and our friends and the connections with the people that we built up with. But uh, you know, again, your energy matches changed and transformation, which is again perfect in line. And you know you mentioned something to me before and I'm like, I'm just decided.
You can say, the listeners know, do they They don't. They don't know the specifics, but that's okay.
But Lola is getting some cool opportunities in the City of Angels. So I think, I don't know how to translate this, but it's kind of like speaking to the old Lola, because there was previous versions of you that were coming up in my head that like offer you advice or offer you direction, and it's kind of like take it on board. But remember their opinions aren't the bill and end or like you're own control of you. So even if I was to go back to Lola from two years ago, a whole different bowl game exactly, but she's still in your mind, she's still knew, but don't allow her to control the net already.
Now, Ah, that's freeing.
So this is not only for you, Lola, but for everyone listening as well. Every single version of ourselves from the day that we were born up until yesterday, it still exists. They're not walking around the streets, they're not sitting down having coffee, but they exist in here in my head and the emotions that they went through, the negative feelings, the triumphs, the tragedies, the positivity. Everything that they felt and experienced still plays a part in how we operated in this world. It shapes you exactly. But sometimes in life we feel like we can't move on, or we feel like that we do reminisce or get stuck or duell on things because the world still keeps spinning. It doesn't allow us opportunity to sometimes heal quick enough inverted commas. So it's always important to reflect back on our relationships with those former of us because they still exist and their emotions are still relevant. But it's reminding them that they're still safe, they're still felt, and they're heard, but they don't control who we are today. They helped shape us, they're not the dominant.
Oh, I love that. I've never thought about it like that before. Yeah.
So if we have a bad example in life when we're fifteen, for example, like say our parents separate, I mean literally what happened to me at fifteen? No crying over, But like I look back now, I'm thirty eight years old now, and fifteen year old David's emotions for a large part of my twenties and even my thirties still dictated the narrative, even though I was twenty five year old David's fifteen year old David's what he was going through in that moment. His feelings and his viewpoints on life and relationships especially was still being too dominant, and I kind of had to reflect back on him and actually literally go and sit down with him in my head and be like, hey, everything, you're going through shit, but look at where we are now, and you're safe and you're heard and your felt and all that fifteen year old David needed to do was hear that, and then he's like, Okay, cool, I can relax so I don't have to control the narrative of this man right now.
Ah, you're like that, You're like a therapist.
It is therapy, yeah, because I'm going to record a YouTube on this actually because I feel like I need to talk about it properly. But it's the work that we can do on ourselves with the reflection and meditation. I'm going to call it the tunnel meditation, where it's where you delve into your own subconscious and past memories. You can heal yourself quicker in fifteen minutes and maybe twelve lakes of therapy with you.
How crazy? I love that, and I think we can all relate to that.
Yeah, well that's why it came as a downloaded message for you.
Thank you. I always put you on the spot and make you do this.
No, I'm David, the Media'm not David.
But I also think it's so everything you just shared then was relatable to anyone, And I I can't believe how quickly these recording sessions go by the way. It's mental, but just for the listener.
If they're.
You know, we're at that, like I said, are at that part of the year or we're kind of like, no, it's still the start of the year. I can get these, I can I can let go. Like you're saying, the theme is transformation and a bit of a cleansing or a clearing and then what it feels like from what you just shared then as well, it's like this stepping into the truth and really like knowing that that space is safe. Yeah, what can we do to just like to really embrace the rest of the year.
Well, definitely do goal setting, but it's a remembrance that everything that is meant for you won't pass by you. But when we look at our goals and when we look at maybe what we want to achieve as and foremost be very defined and intent for with that, sometimes it's okay not to know necessarily what you want now I need to work on it a little bit. But we've all got things that we want to achieve. But what I want everyone listening and also you, Lola, to remember the goals that I want in my life, the things that I want to attract into my life. Okay, we can put the energy out and we can create the pathways to it. But is are those goals? Are those things that we're wanting? That's a good symbol.
What does that mean?
Spirit? Ye? Spirit? The lights flickered for everyone listening? Are those things attracted to us? Are we creating the proper life and the proper thoughts process for those things that want to come into Oh?
And this is where you were talking about our responsibility is like how we choose to show up and cut back to glamor on the grid fashion.
But this is it? Like for example, for relationships, like I'm single, I would like to meet someone, and I have a perfect image in my head about the guy that I would like to attract into my life. And then I asked myself, would that man be attracted to me, and it's okay to be reflective on that, because are my habits conducive? Is the way that I shop into the world who I am, who I'm being in the world. Will that person find attractiveness in that.
I love what you're saying because it's a part of the manifestation picture that I know I've been missing out on it. It's the accountability piece for like how I'm showing up now in the present moment, because because also as an actor and it it's a TV host and all those things. Because it is a world that is rife of rejection, it's so hard to like pitch yourself and be like, I'm doing all the right things.
I'm doing all the right things.
But because you've sat in so much rejection, it takes such work to get out of the rejection.
Because every version of you that's been rejected is still.
In your head right And then tap into my inner channel and be like, actually, I do deserve this. This is where I like, I am going to do that TV show and have the best flipping time doing it because That's what I'm meant to be doing that.
You were never a rejected law at law you were just redirected.
Can you just like stay in my pocket at.
All the time? I love and love that.
Do you know you're the most reoccurring on this podcast. That's an It's the honest truth. And I say this to whenever I meet with my pod managers. I'm like, I always have to get David the mediumont not because it's just so fun to chit chat and catch up with you and you're a joy. But honestly, people love your episodes, like these are the most popular episodes. Do you know that I told you that?
That's no.
So that's why I'm like, even if you're and like to come back to you, like even if you feel like you're at a transformation or a crossroads, like I do want you to know like these episodes, like people really love hearing you on the pod, and like, please keep doing all the stuff that you're doing. I want to see more of you. I've got an idea for you that we'll talk about off air that you're going to nail and I'm here to champion you. So I want to see you, know, I want to see your name up in lights. I think you should be doing a live tour in la as well, so just say the words. Your EMC is sitting opposite you.
Read my mind right now. I'm like, you're definitely you're not going to get to some in the crowd and relax with that one.
You're going to bring it on, bring it on. So thank you, my friend. It's always such a joy.
To have you here, pleasure, great to sit down with.
Happy birthday. I'm going to give you a presents for this. That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing. As always, thank you to our guests, and let's continue the conversation on Instagram. I'm at Yamo Lollaberry. This potty my word for podcast is available.
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