Intro

Trigger Warning and Episode Introduction

The Red Pill and Men's Rights Movement

Introducing Andrew Bernie Bernard

Challenging Traditional Masculinity

The Man Box and Manufactured Male Victimhood

The Product Behind the Men's Rights Movement

The Impact on Young Men and Boys

Closing Remarks and Call to Action

Today, we're talking about the manosphere. Why is it that as women are going quieter, DE&I is being dismantled, and violence against women is getting worse — the loudest voices online are telling young men they're the real victims?

Jas, Carly, and Jen sit down with UK-based writer, educator and activist Andrew 'Bernie' Bernard — a man who has spoken to over 70,000 people about domestic abuse and coercive control since his sister was fatally stabbed by her partner in 2012. Together they unpack "manufactured male victimhood," the Man Box that's suffocating men and boys, and why the whole manosphere is ultimately just guys peacocking for other guys. They're officially adding the Red Pill to the FckIt List.

Our socials: 

Instagram - @the_fckit_list

Youtube - @TheFckIt_List

TikTok - @thefckitlist

Connect with Bernie: 

Instagram - @_whatmakesaman_

Links & Resources Mentioned

Bernies greetings cards: https://www.lovelossdiscoballs.co.uk/

Share your personal Fck It items with the hosts via socials or email: hello@fckitlist.com.au

Today, we're talking about the manosphere. Why is it that as women are going quieter, DE&amp;I is being dismantled, and violence against women is getting worse &mdash; the loudest voices online are telling young men they're the real victims?
Jas, Carly, and Jen sit down with UK-based writer, educator and activist Andrew 'Bernie' Bernard &mdash; a man who has spoken to over 70,000 people about domestic abuse and coercive control since his sister was fatally stabbed by her partner in 2012. Together they unpack "manufactured male victimhood," the Man Box that's suffocating men and boys, and why the whole manosphere is ultimately just guys peacocking for other guys. They're officially adding the Red Pill to the FckIt List.
Our socials:&nbsp;
Instagram - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/the_fckit_list/">@the_fckit_list</a>
Youtube - <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@TheFckIt__List">@TheFckIt_List</a>
TikTok - <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thefckitlist?_r=1&amp;_t=ZS-96GjEINnom4">@thefckitlist</a>
Connect with Bernie:&nbsp;
Instagram - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/_whatmakesaman_/">@_whatmakesaman_</a>
Links &amp; Resources Mentioned
Bernies greetings cards: <a href="https://www.lovelossdiscoballs.co.uk/">https://www.lovelossdiscoballs.co.uk/</a>
Share your personal Fck It items with the hosts via socials or email: hello@fckitlist.com.au

It's time for women to lean out. To fck off the things we will no longer accept or do. We've made a list, and it's quite long, so we made it into a podcast. Three fierce women. No filters. Zero apologies. Join Jasmin Bedir, Carly Pelham and Jen Dobbie as they name everything they're done with — from impossible beauty standards to menopause signs, working like you don't have kids to parenting like you don't have a job. This isn't wellness. It's liberation. Listen in and decide what deserves to get in the bin. What's on your list?

It's time for women to lean out. To fck off the things we will no longer accept or do. We've made a list, and it's quite long, so we made it into a podcast. Three fierce women. No filters. Zero apologies. Join Jasmin Bedir, Carly Pelham and Jen Dobbie as they name everything they're done with &mdash; from impossible beauty standards to menopause signs, working like you don't have kids to parenting like you don't have a job. This isn't wellness. It's liberation. Listen in and decide what deserves to get in the bin. What's on your list?

It's time for women to lean out. To fck off the things we will no longer accept or do. We've made a list, and it's quite long, so we made it into a podcast.

Fck It List

Fck the Red Pill with Andrew 'Bernie' Bernard - Part 1

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