The Dating Dilemma for Women

Dating After Divorce: A New Mindset

The Challenges of Online Dating

Dating Multiple People and Age Preferences

The Importance of Self-Validation

Challenging Societal Beauty Standards

Challenging Age Stereotypes and Societal

The Complexities of Marriage and Divorce

Embracing Different Relationship Styles

The Power of Love in Society

In this episode, we're putting modern love on trial. From the dehumanising scroll of dating apps to the stigma of divorce, the impossible checklist we bring to first dates, and the conditioning that tells women they hit 35, why is finding connection in 2026 somehow harder, lonelier, and weirder than ever?


Jas, Carly, and Jen are joined by Alex Yapps, content creator, dating coach, and self-proclaimed divorce enthusiast who's on a mission to convince women that post-divorce might just be their best era yet. Together they unpack the bar-is-on-the-floor reality of dating apps (gamification, ghosting, and the guy who "forgot" to mention his wife), why older women are being hunted by 20-year-olds with no bed frames and 60-year-olds who haven't done a day of self-reflection, the surprising case for dating younger men, and whether forever should even be the goal. They're officially adding divorce shame, expiry-date culture, and the algorithmically rigged dating machine to the FckIt List.

Our socials: 

Instagram - @the_fckit_list

Youtube - @TheFckIt_List

TikTok - @thefckitlist

Connect with Alex: 

Instagram @alex.yapps

Share your personal Fck It items with the hosts via socials or email: hello@fckitlist.com.au

In this episode, we're putting modern love on trial. From the dehumanising scroll of dating apps to the stigma of divorce, the impossible checklist we bring to first dates, and the conditioning that tells women they hit 35, why is finding connection in 2026 somehow harder, lonelier, and weirder than ever?
 Jas, Carly, and Jen are joined by Alex Yapps, content creator, dating coach, and self-proclaimed divorce enthusiast who's on a mission to convince women that post-divorce might just be their best era yet. Together they unpack the bar-is-on-the-floor reality of dating apps (gamification, ghosting, and the guy who "forgot" to mention his wife), why older women are being hunted by 20-year-olds with no bed frames and 60-year-olds who haven't done a day of self-reflection, the surprising case for dating younger men, and whether forever should even be the goal. They're officially adding divorce shame, expiry-date culture, and the algorithmically rigged dating machine to the FckIt List.
Our socials:&nbsp;
Instagram - @the_fckit_list
Youtube - @TheFckIt_List
TikTok - @thefckitlist
Connect with Alex:&nbsp;
Instagram @alex.yapps
Share your personal Fck It items with the hosts via socials or email: hello@fckitlist.com.au

It's time for women to lean out. To fck off the things we will no longer accept or do. We've made a list, and it's quite long, so we made it into a podcast. Three fierce women. No filters. Zero apologies. Join Jasmin Bedir, Carly Pelham and Jen Dobbie as they name everything they're done with — from impossible beauty standards to menopause signs, working like you don't have kids to parenting like you don't have a job. This isn't wellness. It's liberation. Listen in and decide what deserves to get in the bin. What's on your list?

It's time for women to lean out. To fck off the things we will no longer accept or do. We've made a list, and it's quite long, so we made it into a podcast. Three fierce women. No filters. Zero apologies. Join Jasmin Bedir, Carly Pelham and Jen Dobbie as they name everything they're done with &mdash; from impossible beauty standards to menopause signs, working like you don't have kids to parenting like you don't have a job. This isn't wellness. It's liberation. Listen in and decide what deserves to get in the bin. What's on your list?

It's time for women to lean out. To fck off the things we will no longer accept or do. We've made a list, and it's quite long, so we made it into a podcast.

Fck It List

Fck Modern Love with Alex Yapps

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