Should your partner be your first priority in a blended family? What if your biological kids are still reeling from transition? Hear what Ron Deal & Gayla Grace, of FamilyLife Blended have to say on this important question!

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FamilyLife Today is an award-winning podcast featuring fun, engaging conversations that help families grow together with Jesus while pursuing the relationships that matter most. Hosted by Dave and Ann Wilson, new episodes air every Tuesday and Thursday.

FamilyLife Today is an award-winning podcast featuring fun, engaging conversations that help families grow together with Jesus while pursuing the relationships that matter most. Hosted by Dave and Ann Wilson, new episodes air every Tuesday and Thursday.

Should Your Partner Be Your First Priority? Ron Deal and Gayla Grace

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Your marriage ended. But your anger, betrayal, and hurt didn’t get the memo. Cheryl Shumake joins Dave and Ann Wilson to talk honestly about forgiveness after divorce—what it means, what it doesn’t, and why refusing to release the debt can keep old wounds alive. Is forgiveness possible when what happened was genuinely wrong? And how do you move forward without pretending the wreckage never happened?

Show Notes and Resources


Weekend to Remember marriage getaway.
Get Cheryl Shumake’s book, Waiting to Be Wanted: A Stepmom’s Guide to Loving Before Being Loved. Find resources and audio from this podcast episode at familylifetoday.com
Learn more about Cheryl Shumake and Stepmom Sanity.
Leave FamilyLife Today a voice message
FamilyLife Today.
Thanks to the Christian Standard Bible for sponsoring this episode. Learn more at CSBible.com.
Follow us on all social platforms: Facebook | Instagram | YouTube
Find resources from our podcast at shop.familylife.com.
Download FamilyLife's app!
Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify.
Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Your marriage ended. But your anger, betrayal, and hurt didn&rsquo;t get the memo. Cheryl Shumake joins Dave and Ann Wilson to talk honestly about forgiveness after divorce&mdash;what it means, what it doesn&rsquo;t, and why refusing to release the debt can keep old wounds alive. Is forgiveness possible when what happened was genuinely wrong? And how do you move forward without pretending the wreckage never happened?
Show Notes and Resources
<ul>
<li>
<a href="weekendtoremember.com">Weekend to Remember marriage getaway</a>.
</li>
<li>Get Cheryl Shumake&rsquo;s book, Waiting to Be Wanted: A Stepmom&rsquo;s Guide to Loving Before Being Loved. Find resources and audio from <a href="https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-today/cheryl-shumake-waiting-to-be-wanted/">this podcast episode</a> at familylifetoday.com</li>
<li>Learn more about <a href="stepmomsanity.com">Cheryl Shumake and Stepmom Sanity</a>.</li>
<li>Leave <a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/familylifetoday">FamilyLife Today a voice message</a></li>
<li><a href="familylifetoday.com">FamilyLife Today</a>.</li>
</ul>
<hr>
<ul>
<li>Thanks to the Christian Standard Bible for sponsoring this episode. Learn more at <a href="https://CSBible.com">CSBible.com</a>.</li>
<li>Follow us on all social platforms: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/familylifeministry">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/familylife.today/">Instagram</a> | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSzse1nmlqbLhDx5FpGVDgLmxy1rmQBau">YouTube</a></li>
<li>Find resources from our podcast at <a href="https://shop.familylife.com/product-category/radio-resources/">shop.familylife.com</a>.</li>
<li>Download <a href="https://www.familylife.com/app/">FamilyLife's app</a>!</li>
<li>Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/familylife-today/id212174303">Apple Podcast</a> or <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/0j5UaKdQOHQCuo1bt0ebEm?si=d6dfa8d2415f4750">Spotify</a>.</li>
<li>Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the <a href="https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/">FamilyLife Podcast Network</a></li>
</ul>

With Dave and Ann Wilson on FamilyLife Today, author Cheryl Shumake explores betrayal, bitterness, and moving forward after divorce—and what forgiveness actually looks like.

But They Don't Deserve It

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Got questions about Christianity you’re almost afraid to say out loud? Doubting your faith can feel especially lonely when everyone at church seems so stinkin' certain. Brant Hansen, author of Blessed Are the Misfits, joins Dave and Ann Wilson for an unpolished conversation about skepticism, introverts, uncomfortable questions, and belonging when you don’t fit the Christian mold. Because stuffing your doubts isn’t exactly making them disappear.

Show Notes and Resources


Connect with Brant on Instagram.
Connect with Brant on Facebook.
Learn more about Brant on his website.
Listen to Brant and Sherri’s podcast, The Brant and Sherri Oddcast.
Get Brant’s book, Blessed Are the Misfits.
Thanks to the Christian Standard Bible for sponsoring this episode. Learn more at CSBible.com.
Follow us on all social platforms: Facebook | Instagram | YouTube
Find resources from our podcast at shop.familylife.com.
Download FamilyLife's app!

Got questions about Christianity you&rsquo;re almost afraid to say out loud? Doubting your faith can feel especially lonely when everyone at church seems so stinkin' certain. Brant Hansen, author of Blessed Are the Misfits, joins Dave and Ann Wilson for an unpolished conversation about skepticism, introverts, uncomfortable questions, and belonging when you don&rsquo;t fit the Christian mold. Because stuffing your doubts isn&rsquo;t exactly making them disappear.
Show Notes and Resources
<ul>
<li>
Connect with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/branthansen/">Brant on Instagram</a>.
</li>
<li>Connect with <a href="https://www.facebook.com/branthansenpage">Brant on Facebook</a>.</li>
<li>Learn more about <a href="https://branthansen.com/">Brant on his website</a>.</li>
<li>Listen to Brant and Sherri&rsquo;s podcast, <a href="https://branthansen.com/">The Brant and Sherri Oddcast</a>.</li>
<li>Get <a href="https://shop.familylife.com/product-creator/brant-hansen/">Brant&rsquo;s book, Blessed Are the Misfits</a>.</li>
</ul>
<hr>
<ul>
<li>Thanks to the Christian Standard Bible for sponsoring this episode. Learn more at <a href="https://CSBible.com">CSBible.com</a>.</li>
<li>Follow us on all social platforms: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/familylifeministry">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/familylife.today/">Instagram</a> | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSzse1nmlqbLhDx5FpGVDgLmxy1rmQBau">YouTube</a></li>
<li>Find resources from our podcast at <a href="https://shop.familylife.com/product-category/radio-resources/">shop.familylife.com</a>.</li>
<li>Download <a href="https://www.familylife.com/app/">FamilyLife's app</a>!</li>
</ul>

On FamilyLife Today, hosts Dave and Ann Wilson talk with Brant Hansen about doubting your faith, asking hard questions, and whether you still belong.

Doubting Your Faith? You’re Allowed to Ask That: Brant Hansen

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You pray. Read your Bible. Show up at church. And God still seems … crickets. When God feels far away, does that mean your faith is broken—or that you are? Brant Hansen, author of Blessed Are the Misfits, gets candid about skepticism, emotional wiring, and our all-too-human pressure to manufacture spiritual experiences. What holds your faith together when your feelings have approximately nothing useful to report?

Show Notes and Resources


Connect with Brant on Instagram.
Connect with Brant on Facebook.
Learn more about Brant on his website.
Listen to Brant and Sherri’s podcast, The Brant and Sherri Oddcast.
Get Brant’s book, Blessed Are the Misfits.
Thanks to the Christian Standard Bible for sponsoring this episode. Learn more at CSBible.com.
Follow us on all social platforms: Facebook | Instagram | YouTube
Find resources from our podcast at shop.familylife.com.
Download FamilyLife's app!

You pray. Read your Bible. Show up at church. And God still seems &hellip; crickets. When God feels far away, does that mean your faith is broken&mdash;or that you are? Brant Hansen, author of Blessed Are the Misfits, gets candid about skepticism, emotional wiring, and our all-too-human pressure to manufacture spiritual experiences. What holds your faith together when your feelings have approximately nothing useful to report?
Show Notes and Resources
<ul>
<li>
Connect with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/branthansen/">Brant on Instagram</a>.
</li>
<li>Connect with <a href="https://www.facebook.com/branthansenpage">Brant on Facebook</a>.</li>
<li>Learn more about <a href="https://branthansen.com/">Brant on his website</a>.</li>
<li>Listen to Brant and Sherri&rsquo;s podcast, <a href="https://branthansen.com/">The Brant and Sherri Oddcast</a>.</li>
<li>Get <a href="https://shop.familylife.com/product-creator/brant-hansen/">Brant&rsquo;s book, Blessed Are the Misfits</a>.</li>
</ul>
<hr>
<ul>
<li>Thanks to the Christian Standard Bible for sponsoring this episode. Learn more at <a href="https://CSBible.com">CSBible.com</a>.</li>
<li>Follow us on all social platforms: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/familylifeministry">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/familylife.today/">Instagram</a> | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSzse1nmlqbLhDx5FpGVDgLmxy1rmQBau">YouTube</a></li>
<li>Find resources from our podcast at <a href="https://shop.familylife.com/product-category/radio-resources/">shop.familylife.com</a>.</li>
<li>Download <a href="https://www.familylife.com/app/">FamilyLife's app</a>!</li>
</ul>

On FamilyLife Today, Brant Hansen gets real with Dave and Ann Wilson about when God feels far away—and about having faith when feelings go AWOL.

Should Your Partner Be Your First Priority? Ron Deal and Gayla Grace

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