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What do you do with feelings like anger, jealousy, hurt, or rejection in your blended family? Listen to Ron Deal’s conversation with Dr. Alison Cook, who offers a three-step process to work through hard feelings and find healing and hope for your journey.

Show Notes and Resources
Register for Blended & Blessed 
Look for blended ministries and events in your area. 
Learn about Dr. Alison, get her books, and listen to her podcast. 
Listen to the show on grief with Diane Fromme 
Support FamilyLife Blended with a gift. 
Blended resources 

What do you do with feelings like anger, jealousy, hurt, or rejection in your blended family? Listen to Ron Deal&rsquo;s conversation with Dr. Alison Cook, who offers a three-step process to work through hard feelings and find healing and hope for your journey.
Show Notes and Resources
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.blendedandblessed.com/">Register for Blended &amp; Blessed</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://www.familylife.com/familylifeblended/find-an-event/#blendedmap">Look for blended ministries and events in your area.</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://www.dralisoncook.com/">Learn about Dr. Alison, get her books, and listen to her podcast.</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-blended-podcast/17-grief-and-the-blended-family/">Listen to the show on grief with Diane Fromme</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://donate.familylife.com/blended/?cru_source=D000BLENDG&amp;cru_medium=DesktopHeaderNav&amp;cru_campaign=Blended">Support FamilyLife Blended with a gift.</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://linktr.ee/familylifeblended">Blended resources</a>&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

FamilyLife Blended® provides timeless wisdom and practical help and hope for blended families and those who love them. Join Ron L. Deal, LMFT, LPC as he and his guests discuss a wide variety of marriage, family, and relationship topics related to blended families.

Timeless wisdom and practical help and hope for blended families with Ron Deal, LMFT, LPC.

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What do you do with feelings like anger, jealousy, hurt, or rejection in your blended family? Listen to Ron Deal’s conversation with Dr. Alison Cook, who offers a three-step process to work through hard feelings and find healing and hope for your journey.

159 The 3-Step Guide to Navigating Hard Feelings in Your Blended Family

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Guidance and hope for blending families can be found in stories from scripture. Ron Deal talks with Laura Petherbridge about her latest book, Stepfamilies of the Bible: Timeless Wisdom for Blended Families. Through true stories of God's heroes from stepfamilies of biblical times, Petherbridge offers practical tools to build unity, overcome complexity, foster love, and create lasting relationships for today's blended families. Through families such as David's, a man after God's own heart, and Joseph's, the favored son of Jacob, we learn how God can use sin done to us and sin done by us for His glory, and redeem relationships, regardless of how messy and broken they are.

Show Notes and Resources
Summit on Stepfamily Ministry Information 
Learn about Laura Petherbridge and Stepfamilies of The Bible 
Send a gift to help the FamilyLife Blended team 
Get a copy of The Smart Stepmom 

Guidance and hope for blending families can be found in stories from scripture. Ron Deal talks with Laura Petherbridge about her latest book, Stepfamilies of the Bible: Timeless Wisdom for Blended Families. Through true stories of God's heroes from stepfamilies of biblical times, Petherbridge offers practical tools to build unity, overcome complexity, foster love, and create lasting relationships for today's blended families. Through families such as David's, a man after God's own heart, and Joseph's, the favored son of Jacob, we learn how God can use sin done to us and sin done by us for His glory, and redeem relationships, regardless of how messy and broken they are.
Show Notes and Resources
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.summitonstepfamilies.com/">Summit on Stepfamily Ministry Information</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://www.thesmartstepmom.com/">Learn about Laura Petherbridge and Stepfamilies of The Bible</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://donate.familylife.com/blended/?cru_source=D000BLENDG&amp;cru_medium=DesktopHeaderNav&amp;cru_campaign=Blended">Send a gift to help the FamilyLife Blended team</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://shop.familylife.com/product/the-smart-stepmom-updated/">Get a copy of The Smart Stepmom</a>&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

Guidance for blending families can be found in stories from scripture. Ron Deal talks with Laura Petherbridge about her latest book, Stepfamilies of the Bible, and how God's heroes from stepfamilies of biblical times provide tools for today's families.

168: Learning from Stepfamilies of the Bible

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Divorce and the death of a spouse naturally bring grief. But we don't always recognize the grief our kids also carry after walking through hard circumstances. Ron Deal talks with Stanley & Mryna Brown on how they navigated grief when they married. Stanley had lost his first wife to cancer, later remarried briefly, then divorced. Myrna had also been through a divorce and was a single mom for ten years before marrying Stanley. They both had two children who struggled with their own grief and loss. Through counseling, Stanley and Myrna began to understand more about their children’s grief and how to help them work through the unique grief each of them carried, allowing relationship building within the family to more easily develop.

Show Notes and Resources
Watch Myrna's encouraging videos for your family! 
Watch the Griffies' story 
Learn about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry 
Shop for books like In Their Shoes and The Smart Stepfamily 
Donate to FamilyLife Blended 

Divorce and the death of a spouse naturally bring grief. But we don't always recognize the grief our kids also carry after walking through hard circumstances. Ron Deal talks with Stanley &amp; Mryna Brown on how they navigated grief when they married. Stanley had lost his first wife to cancer, later remarried briefly, then divorced. Myrna had also been through a divorce and was a single mom for ten years before marrying Stanley. They both had two children who struggled with their own grief and loss. Through counseling, Stanley and Myrna began to understand more about their children&rsquo;s grief and how to help them work through the unique grief each of them carried, allowing relationship building within the family to more easily develop.
Show Notes and Resources
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoZ3uqAYX8EHb_Pgd54EKnyjjsVEyeX24">Watch Myrna's encouraging videos for your family!&nbsp;</a></li>
<li><a href="https://youtu.be/hOZ2KRVilcc?si=CYPkaYKAiv41nKE6">Watch the Griffies' story</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://www.summitonstepfamilies.com/">Learn about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://shop.familylife.com/?s=Blended+%2526+Blessed&amp;post_type=product">Shop for books like In Their Shoes and The Smart Stepfamily</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://donate.familylife.com/blended/?cru_source=D000BLENDG&amp;cru_medium=DesktopHeaderNav&amp;cru_campaign=Blended">Donate to FamilyLife Blended</a>&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

Divorce and the death of a spouse bring grief. But we don't always recognize the grief our kids carry. Ron Deal talks with Stanley and Mryna Brown about how they navigated their own grief when they married and later, learned how to help their kids also.

167: Unrecognized Loss, Unexpressed Grief

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https://fl-podcasts.s3.us-east-1.amazonaws.com/FLBP/docs/FLBp20250616_S07_E166.docx

Every blended family navigates common stages on their way to finding familyness. It's not uncommon to experience the questioning stage, where you begin to doubt if you've made the right decision about your newly blended family, and you take a detour or two as you navigate your circumstances. Or perhaps you get stuck along the way as you walk through a crisis together. And what about the rewards stage? Wondering if you’ll ever get to that one? 

Gayla Grace shares the six stages of stepfamily development, how to navigate each stage well, and what it takes to build loving, connected relationships along the way. 

Show Notes and Resources
Join us on the Love Like You Mean It Cruise! 
Watch Women and Blended Families 
Get details for The Summit on Stepfamily Ministry 
Learn more about Gayla 

Every blended family navigates common stages on their way to finding familyness. It's not uncommon to experience the questioning stage, where you begin to doubt if you've made the right decision about your newly blended family, and you take a detour or two as you navigate your circumstances. Or perhaps you get stuck along the way as you walk through a crisis together. And what about the rewards stage? Wondering if you&rsquo;ll ever get to that one? Gayla Grace shares the six stages of stepfamily development, how to navigate each stage well, and what it takes to build loving, connected relationships along the way. 
Show Notes and Resources
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.lovelikeyoumeanitcruise.com/">Join us on the Love Like You Mean It Cruise!</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@FamilyLifeBlended/streams">Watch Women and Blended Families</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://www.summitonstepfamilies.com/">Get details for The Summit on Stepfamily Ministry</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li><a href="https://gaylagrace.com/">Learn more about Gayla</a>&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

Every blended family navigates common stages on their way to finding familyness. But some get stuck along the way. Others experience a detour or two. Gayla Grace shares the six stages of stepfamily development and tips on how to navigate them well.

159 The 3-Step Guide to Navigating Hard Feelings in Your Blended Family

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