The dynamics of blended family life can bring hopelessness, and we lose the ability to see a future where God can make our situation better. But there’s always hope for a brighter tomorrow. In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Dr. Lee Warren, a neurosurgeon who has experienced personal trauma and loss, and explains the difference between our mind and our brain and how to use our mind to face hard things in a constructive manner. As we transform our thoughts and consider our feelings against the Truth of what God’s Word says, we find hope again for healing, for purpose, for change.

Show Notes and Resources
 Send a gift and receive The Smart Stepfamily Marriage 
Learn more about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry
Get Dr. Lee's book, HOPE IS THE FIRST DOSE 
Dr. Lee Warren's website and podcast
Email us for a chance to win a hard copy of Hope Is The First Dose! blended@familylife.com
Ron's list of Smart Stepfamily therapists. 

The dynamics of blended family life can bring hopelessness, and we lose the ability to see a future where God can make our situation better. But there’s always hope for a brighter tomorrow. In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Dr. Lee Warren, a neurosurgeon who has experienced personal trauma and loss, and explains the difference between our mind and our brain and how to use our mind to face hard things in a constructive manner. As we transform our thoughts and consider our feelings against the Truth of what God’s Word says, we find hope again for healing, for purpose, for change.
Show Notes and Resources
<ul>
<li> Send a gift and receive <a href="https://donate.familylife.com/august-2024/the-smart-stepfamily-marriage/?cru_source=2403BP&amp;cru_medium=podcast&amp;cru_campaign=August2024">The Smart Stepfamily Marriage </a></li>
<li>Learn more about <a href="https://www.summitonstepfamilies.com/">the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry</a></li>
<li>Get Dr. Lee's book, <a href="https://waterbrookmultnomah.com/books/721731/hope-is-the-first-dose-by-w-lee-warren-md/">HOPE IS THE FIRST DOSE </a></li>
<li><a href="https://wleewarrenmd.com/">Dr. Lee Warren's website and podcast</a> </li>
<li>Email us for a chance to win a hard copy of Hope Is The First Dose! blended@familylife.com</li>
<li><a href="https://smartstepfamilies.com/smart-help/therapy-providers">Ron's list of Smart Stepfamily therapists. </a></li>
</ul>

FamilyLife Blended® provides timeless wisdom and practical help and hope for blended families and those who love them. Join Ron L. Deal, LMFT, LPC as he and his guests discuss a wide variety of marriage, family, and relationship topics related to blended families.

Timeless wisdom and practical help and hope for blended families with Ron Deal, LMFT, LPC.

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144 Hope Is What the Dr. Ordered

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Foster care and adoption present difficult dynamics with issues similar to blended families. How do you help a child cope with ambiguous loss or connect as a parent when children act out from prior wounds? The loss that results from separation from a first family carries deep wounds that manifest themselves in misbehavior. Many children can’t verbalize their hurts, and families don’t have access to all the pieces of the puzzle. Love isn’t enough to fix the brokenness in a child, particularly when trauma is part of the story. Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Jenni Lord for answers to these complex issues.

Show Notes and Resources
Pre- order Ron's new book: The Mindful Marriage: Create Your Best Relationship Through Understanding and Managing Yourself 
Learn more about Jenni and Chosen
Ron's speaking schedule
Get our monthly newsletter
Learn more about blended family resources
Get The Summit on Stepfamily Ministry, All-Access Digital Pass 

Foster care and adoption present difficult dynamics with issues similar to blended families. How do you help a child cope with ambiguous loss or connect as a parent when children act out from prior wounds? The loss that results from separation from a first family carries deep wounds that manifest themselves in misbehavior. Many children can’t verbalize their hurts, and families don’t have access to all the pieces of the puzzle. Love isn’t enough to fix the brokenness in a child, particularly when trauma is part of the story. Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Jenni Lord for answers to these complex issues.
Show Notes and Resources
<ul>
<li>Pre- order Ron's new book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Mindful-Marriage-Relationship-Understanding-Managing/dp/1546007385/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3JX9CIO7FI8R&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9._zTeFbc5iEa4IzknmWPta_zMPma4CnM7hhzBsa16ZlzT2kCWWSjuA4LQRDtIMSBjTaajN552s_F5AuAo7mAz4kdqvcHCdJiT6UGUBYU9JM9h1tOkn21bDavrKGDOIETGSFn7eLgBYMyctMfH2fvLbdVPZPa3CVrLp1OGTCueaxpj1Ao0MnOI7WtjXrq5yD5ygilSh6Urh9d5jWaN9gJrHsNLuoNxfpes-uoEH3U8glE.6Jdb_SUgh9o0yr6dCHCST2rXz4eXyZ4hcqurlFxfXbw&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=the+mindful+marriage&amp;qid=1716395318&amp;sprefix=%2Caps%2C85&amp;sr=8-1">The Mindful Marriage: Create Your Best Relationship Through Understanding and Managing Yourself </a></li>
<li><a href="https://chosen.care/staff/jenni-c-lord/">Learn more about Jenni and Chosen</a> </li>
<li><a href="https://smartstepfamilies.com/events/find-an-event">Ron's speaking schedule</a> </li>
<li><a href="https://www.familylife.com/familylifeblended/familylife-blended-newsletter/">Get our monthly newsletter</a> </li>
<li><a href="https://linktr.ee/familylifeblended">Learn more about blended family resources</a> </li>
<li>Get The Summit on Stepfamily Ministry, <a href="https://shop.familylife.com/product-category/marriage/blended-family/?filters=format[2800]">All-Access Digital Pass </a></li>
</ul>

Foster care & adoption present difficult issues with similarities to stepfamilies. How do you help a child cope with ambiguous loss or connect as a parent when children act out from prior wounds? Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Jenni Lord for help.

150 Parenting Foster Kids & Adopted Kids

Laura Husband, daughter of Columbia astronaut Rick Husband, was 12 years old when she endured her dad’s very public death. Laura shares with Ron Deal the layers of grief that followed with the lingering effects and expectations after an astronaut dies. When her mom began dating three years later, she felt abandoned and without a voice to the changes in her life. Her mom later remarried and Laura began an adjustment to blended family life with her new stepdad, Bill. Laura shares the loving relationship she and Bill eventually formed and how Bill chose a path, separate from her dad, that drew her in.

Show Notes and Resources
Get the Summit All-Access Pass
Pre- order Ron's new book: The Mindful Marriage: Create Your Best Relationship Through Understanding and Managing Yourself 
The list of Smart Stepfamily therapists and coaches.
Consider supporting resources for blended families with a tax deductible gift.

Laura Husband, daughter of Columbia astronaut Rick Husband, was 12 years old when she endured her dad’s very public death. Laura shares with Ron Deal the layers of grief that followed with the lingering effects and expectations after an astronaut dies. When her mom began dating three years later, she felt abandoned and without a voice to the changes in her life. Her mom later remarried and Laura began an adjustment to blended family life with her new stepdad, Bill. Laura shares the loving relationship she and Bill eventually formed and how Bill chose a path, separate from her dad, that drew her in.
Show Notes and Resources
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.familylifeallaccess.com/">Get the Summit All-Access Pass</a> </li>
<li>Pre- order Ron's new book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1546007385?ref=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_T2CY7VPMYX3J40B2VR06&amp;ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_T2CY7VPMYX3J40B2VR06&amp;social_share=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_T2CY7VPMYX3J40B2VR06&amp;skipTwisterOG=2">The Mindful Marriage: Create Your Best Relationship Through Understanding and Managing Yourself </a></li>
<li><a href="https://smartstepfamilies.com/smart-help/therapy-providers">The list of Smart Stepfamily therapists and coaches.</a> </li>
<li><a href="https://donate.familylife.com/blended/?cru_source=D000BLENDG&amp;cru_medium=DesktopHeaderNav&amp;cru_campaign=Blended">Consider supporting resources for blended families with a tax deductible gift.</a> </li>
</ul>

Laura Husband, daughter of Columbia astronaut Rick Husband, was 12 years old when she endured her dad’s very public death. Laura shares with Ron Deal her layers of grief that followed and her experience growing up blended after her mom’s remarriage.

149 A Special Edition: Growing Up Blended After Parental Loss: Laura Husband

How do you identify narcissism or cope with a narcissist? Ron Deal talks with counselor Laurel Slade-Waggoner about strategies in a relationship when someone seeks to control, manipulate, shift blame, gaslight, or behave in other narcissistic ways.

Show Notes and Resources
Check out Laurel's website and available books.
Laurel's Podcast
Join us for the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry!
Ron's comprehensive list of Recognized Smart Stepfamily Therapy Providers
Check out everything FamilyLife Blended has to offer.
Send in a tax deductible gift to the FamilyLife Blended Team.

How do you identify narcissism or cope with a narcissist? Ron Deal talks with counselor Laurel Slade-Waggoner about strategies in a relationship when someone seeks to control, manipulate, shift blame, gaslight, or behave in other narcissistic ways.
Show Notes and Resources
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop">Check out Laurel's website and available books.</a> </li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/HelpIHaveaNarcissistInMyLifePodcast">Laurel's Podcast</a> </li>
<li><a href="https://www.summitonstepfamilies.com/">Join us for the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry!</a> </li>
<li>Ron's comprehensive list of <a href="https://smartstepfamilies.com/smart-help/therapy-providers">Recognized Smart Stepfamily Therapy Providers</a> </li>
<li><a href="https://linktr.ee/familylifeblended">Check out everything FamilyLife Blended has to offer.</a> </li>
<li><a href="https://donate.familylife.com/blended/?cru_source=D000BLENDG&amp;cru_medium=DesktopHeaderNav&amp;cru_campaign=Blended">Send in a tax deductible gift to the FamilyLife Blended Team.</a> </li>
</ul>

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