What do you do when someone who hurt you never apologizes, never changes, or never acknowledges the pain they caused?

For many of us, that's where forgiveness becomes most difficult. We know we're supposed to forgive, but we wrestle with questions like:
Does forgiveness mean what they did was okay?
Do I have to reconcile with someone who continues to hurt me?
How do I let go when the wound still feels fresh?
Is it possible to find peace if the relationship is never restored?

In this final episode of our Relational Peace: Loving Others Without Losing Yourself series, Carol sits down with board-certified clinical neuropsychologist and fellow podcaster Dr. Michelle Bengtson to explore one of the most misunderstood topics in the Christian life: forgiveness.

Together, they discuss how unforgiveness often keeps us emotionally tethered to our pain and why forgiveness is about reclaiming freedom not excusing someone's behavior. If you've been carrying bitterness, disappointment, resentment, or unresolved hurt, this conversation offers biblical wisdom, practical tools, and hope that peace is possible even when circumstances never change.

Other episodes in this series:

How to Know if Your Difficult Relationship is Toxic

Healthy Boundaries for Compassionate People

How to Stop Letting Conflict Control Your Emotions

How to Know if Your Difficult Relationship is Toxic

Connect with Dr. Michelle Bengtson:

On her website

On Instagram

On Facebook

Follow her work on Amazon

Find Carol McCracken:

On her website 

On Facebook

On Instagram

 

What do you do when someone who hurt you never apologizes, never changes, or never acknowledges the pain they caused?
For many of us, that's where forgiveness becomes most difficult. We know we're supposed to forgive, but we wrestle with questions like:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Does forgiveness mean what they did was okay?</li>
<li aria-level="1">Do I have to reconcile with someone who continues to hurt me?</li>
<li aria-level="1">How do I let go when the wound still feels fresh?</li>
<li aria-level="1">Is it possible to find peace if the relationship is never restored?</li>
</ul>
In this final episode of our Relational Peace: Loving Others Without Losing Yourself series, Carol sits down with board-certified clinical neuropsychologist and fellow podcaster Dr. Michelle Bengtson to explore one of the most misunderstood topics in the Christian life: forgiveness.
Together, they discuss how unforgiveness often keeps us emotionally tethered to our pain and why forgiveness is about reclaiming freedom not excusing someone's behavior.&nbsp;If you've been carrying bitterness, disappointment, resentment, or unresolved hurt, this conversation offers biblical wisdom, practical tools, and hope that peace is possible even when circumstances never change.
Other episodes in this series:
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-know-if-your-difficult-relationship-is-toxic/id1500408829?i=1000774816013">How to Know if Your Difficult Relationship is Toxic</a>
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/healthy-boundaries-for-compassionate-people/id1500408829?i=1000772930198">Healthy Boundaries for Compassionate People</a>
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-stop-letting-conflict-control-your-emotions/id1500408829?i=1000773855199">How to Stop Letting Conflict Control Your Emotions</a>
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-know-if-your-difficult-relationship-is-toxic/id1500408829?i=1000774816013">How to Know if Your Difficult Relationship is Toxic</a>
Connect with Dr. Michelle Bengtson:
<a href="https://drmichellebengtson.com/">On her website</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/drmichellebengtson/">On Instagram</a>
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/DrMichelleBengtson/">On Facebook</a>
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/stores/Dr.-Michelle-Bengtson/author/B01IYBJANO?ref=ap_rdr&amp;shoppingPortalEnabled=true&amp;ccs_id=acfe59ba-32c4-43d4-98dc-1734fd915600">Follow her work on Amazon</a>
Find Carol McCracken:
<a href="https://www.carolmccracken.com">On her website&nbsp;</a>
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/carol.o.mccracken">On Facebook</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/carologlemccracken/">On Instagram</a>
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Life is too short and God has too much for us to do for any of us to live enslaved. Jesus promised His followers would experience filled to overflowing life, a life characterized by joy, peace, and spiritual and emotional vitality. And yet, we daily make decisions based on fear, not faith. In Faith Over Fear, author and speaker Jennifer Slattery helps us see different areas of life where fear has a foothold, and how our identity as children of God can help us move from fear to faithful, bold living.

This podcast covers topics like:

⭐️ How to Overcome Fear
⭐️ Biblical Strategies for Overcoming Fear and Anxiety
⭐️ Powerful Steps to Fight Anxiety
⭐️ Finding God Faithful in Hard Seasons
⭐️ Courage to Wait on God

Jesus has more planned for us than we could imagine and He’s fully committed to perfecting that which concerns us. Fear holds us back, but His perfect love has the power to cast out all fear!

Life is too short and God has too much for us to do for any of us to live enslaved. Jesus promised His followers would experience filled to overflowing life, a life characterized by joy, peace, and spiritual and emotional vitality. And yet, we daily make decisions based on fear, not faith. In Faith Over Fear, author and speaker Jennifer Slattery helps us see different areas of life where fear has a foothold, and how our identity as children of God can help us move from fear to faithful, bold living.
This podcast covers topics like:
⭐️ How to Overcome Fear ⭐️ Biblical Strategies for Overcoming Fear and Anxiety ⭐️ Powerful Steps to Fight Anxiety ⭐️ Finding God Faithful in Hard Seasons ⭐️ Courage to Wait on God
Jesus has more planned for us than we could imagine and He’s fully committed to perfecting that which concerns us. Fear holds us back, but His perfect love has the power to cast out all fear!

Life is too short and God has too much for us to do for any of us to live enslaved. Jesus promised His followers would experience filled to overflowing life, a life characterized by joy, peace, and spiritual and emotional vitality. And yet, we daily...

Faith Over Fear

How to Move Forward When Trust Is Broken

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