Loving people is a gift—and a liability. The more we love, the more there is to lose. In this hilariously honest and deeply tender conversation, Kate talks with beloved writer Catherine Newman about the strange pairing of love and fear. Together, they explore how parenting, grief, humor, and hospice care shape us into people who laugh while crying and keep showing up anyway. If you’ve ever whispered “I love you” and immediately wanted to bubble-wrap your whole family, this one is for you.

Show notes:
Catherine Newman’s Work: Wreck (Novel), We All Want Impossible Things (Novel), Waiting for Birdy (Memoir), Catastrophic Happiness (Memoir), Crone Sandwich (Substack)


A Blessing for When Love Makes Us Afraid(as read on the episode)
Come hang out in our new favorite corner of the internet: Kate's Substack.

Loving people is a gift&mdash;and a liability. The more we love, the more there is to lose. In this hilariously honest and deeply tender conversation, Kate talks with beloved writer Catherine Newman about the strange pairing of love and fear. Together, they explore how parenting, grief, humor, and hospice care shape us into people who laugh while crying and keep showing up anyway. If you&rsquo;ve ever whispered &ldquo;I love you&rdquo; and immediately wanted to bubble-wrap your whole family, this one is for you.
Show notes:
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<li data-pm-slice="1 3 []">Catherine Newman&rsquo;s Work: <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/wreck-a-novel-catherine-newman/ece69625248d6a52?utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=pmax&amp;utm_campaign=16243454879&amp;utm_content=&amp;utm_term=%7Bsearchterm%7D&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=16243514117&amp;gbraid=0AAAAACfld41gzykKdCIRftUTq6V3LopT6&amp;gclid=CjwKCAjw3tzHBhBREiwAlMJoUuyrWL-RUoFTlDafOGlJ8rwSqu7vf90xTzHieX_BQIKC6qiY49xb6xoCj44QAvD_BwE">Wreck</a> (Novel), <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/we-all-want-impossible-things-a-novel-catherine-newman/312a9029abb2d018?ean=9780063230927&amp;next=t">We All Want Impossible Things</a> (Novel), <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/waiting-for-birdy-a-year-of-frantic-tedium-improbable-grace-and-the-wild-magic-of-growing-a-family-catherine-newman/89b75d7aa30391b9?ean=9780143034773&amp;next=t">Waiting for Birdy</a> (Memoir), <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/catastrophic-happiness-finding-joy-in-childhood-s-messy-years-catherine-newman/8e365862f80c63e0?ean=9780316337489&amp;next=t">Catastrophic Happiness</a> (Memoir), <a href="https://cronesandwich.substack.com">Crone Sandwich</a> (Substack)</li>
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<a href="https://open.substack.com/pub/katebowler/p/a-blessing-for-when-love-makes-us?r=4dul9&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=true">A Blessing for When Love Makes Us Afraid</a> (as read on the episode)
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<li data-pm-slice="1 1 []">Come hang out in our new favorite corner of the internet: <a href="https://katebowler.substack.com">Kate's Substack</a>.</li>
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Are you living your best life now? Not always? This is a podcast for you. Duke Professor Kate Bowler is an expert in the stories we tell about success and failure, suffering and happiness. She had Stage IV cancer. Then she didn’t. And since then, all she wants to do is talk to funny and wise people about how to live with the knowledge that, well, everything happens.  Find her online at @katecbowler.

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Are you living your best life now? Not always? This is a podcast for you. Duke Professor Kate Bowler is an expert in the stories we tell about success and failure, suffering and happiness. She had Stage IV cancer. Then she didn’t. And since then, all she wants to do is talk to funny and wise people about how to live with the knowledge that, well, everything happens.  Find her online at @katecbowler.
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