“Love your enemies and let them bring out the best in you, not the worst.” — Matthew 5:44 (MSG)

What happens when the person who hurt you is someone you’re still called to love?

Forgiveness can be one of the hardest things we’re asked to do—especially when the hurt is deep, the relationship has changed, or the pain still feels real. But what if holding onto that hurt is hurting us more than it’s hurting the person who caused it?

In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Jacquie for an honest conversation about Matthew 5:44 and what it means to love our enemies, forgive those who have hurt us, and allow Jesus to transform the way we respond.

Together, Ash and Jacquie unpack the difference between forgiveness and pretending something didn’t happen. They discuss why forgiveness doesn’t mean ignoring pain, excusing someone’s actions, or automatically restoring a relationship—but instead choosing freedom over bitterness and allowing God to heal what has been broken.

Jacquie shares vulnerably about her own journey of forgiveness after divorce, and how choosing to see someone as a human loved by God changed the way she processed hurt, anger, and disappointment.

If you’re carrying resentment, struggling to forgive, or trying to navigate a painful relationship, this episode will remind you that forgiveness isn’t about letting someone off the hook—it’s about refusing to let their actions steal your peace.

Because when we choose forgiveness, we’re not just releasing someone else… we’re allowing Jesus to bring out the best in us.

&ldquo;Love your enemies and let them bring out the best in you, not the worst.&rdquo; &mdash; Matthew 5:44 (MSG)
What happens when the person who hurt you is someone you&rsquo;re still called to love?
Forgiveness can be one of the hardest things we&rsquo;re asked to do&mdash;especially when the hurt is deep, the relationship has changed, or the pain still feels real. But what if holding onto that hurt is hurting us more than it&rsquo;s hurting the person who caused it?
In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Jacquie for an honest conversation about Matthew 5:44 and what it means to love our enemies, forgive those who have hurt us, and allow Jesus to transform the way we respond.
Together, Ash and Jacquie unpack the difference between forgiveness and pretending something didn&rsquo;t happen. They discuss why forgiveness doesn&rsquo;t mean ignoring pain, excusing someone&rsquo;s actions, or automatically restoring a relationship&mdash;but instead choosing freedom over bitterness and allowing God to heal what has been broken.
Jacquie shares vulnerably about her own journey of forgiveness after divorce, and how choosing to see someone as a human loved by God changed the way she processed hurt, anger, and disappointment.
If you&rsquo;re carrying resentment, struggling to forgive, or trying to navigate a painful relationship, this episode will remind you that forgiveness isn&rsquo;t about letting someone off the hook&mdash;it&rsquo;s about refusing to let their actions steal your peace.
Because when we choose forgiveness, we&rsquo;re not just releasing someone else&hellip; we&rsquo;re allowing Jesus to bring out the best in us.