Not all places hold good memories, as today's question proves: 

"Hi. I'm queer, and my partner (they/them) gets very triggered that I often avoid places that my exes and I have been to. I think it's normal that Singapore is tiny, and maybe I'd never get past it. I get that it's tiring, and I'm also anxious about passing this painful fear onto them. I don't know what to do to cope better and not affect my partner with the ways my insecurities and pains are. Is there something I can do?"

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Not all places hold good memories, as today's question proves: 
"Hi. I'm queer, and my partner (they/them) gets very triggered that I often avoid places that my exes and I have been to. I think it's normal that Singapore is tiny, and maybe I'd never get past it. I get that it's tiring, and I'm also anxious about passing this painful fear onto them. I don't know what to do to cope better and not affect my partner with the ways my insecurities and pains are. Is there something I can do?"
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Hi! Actor & Host Oon Shu An here, with my bestie, Rosie. My guilty pleasure: Giving Advice. So we’ve teamed up to give it to you! In case you were wondering:

Are we experts? No.
Do we always do what we know we should do? Absolutely not!
If you ASK us for advice, though, will we go against all good judgment and tell you what to do? Hell, yes!

After all, as with all advice, it is Easy To Say, because we don't need to do it ourselves! Sending so much love!

Hi! Actor &amp; Host Oon Shu An here, with my bestie, Rosie. My guilty pleasure: Giving Advice. So we’ve teamed up to give it to you! In case you were wondering:
Are we experts? No. Do we always do what we know we should do? Absolutely not! If you ASK us for advice, though, will we go against all good judgment and tell you what to do? Hell, yes!
After all, as with all advice, it is Easy To Say, because we don't need to do it ourselves! Sending so much love!

Advice Podcast from Oon Shu An & Rosie McGowan