In this powerful episode of the Dying Your Way Podcast, Rev. Cress Darwin returns to reflect on faith, forgiveness, aging, and dying with grace. He shares deeply personal stories—from sitting with the dying, to ministering after the Mother Emanuel AME Church shooting, to finding divine love in the middle of crisis. Claire and Cress explore what it means to surrender, to forgive without forgetting, and why the end of life is not the end—but simply a change of zip code.

 

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Take a deep breath, hold your loved ones close, and remember: You can die your way.

In this powerful episode of the Dying Your Way Podcast, Rev. Cress Darwin returns to reflect on faith, forgiveness, aging, and dying with grace. He shares deeply personal stories&mdash;from sitting with the dying, to ministering after the Mother Emanuel AME Church shooting, to finding divine love in the middle of crisis. Claire and Cress explore what it means to surrender, to forgive without forgetting, and why the end of life is not the end&mdash;but simply a change of zip code.
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Take a deep breath, hold your loved ones close, and remember: You can die your way.

Dying Your Way explores the practical heart and soul of our greatest exit. You will hear from family members, carers and patients themselves with profound insights that will shine a light on this mortal experience.

Join certified End of Life Doula as she speaks with experts in the field of death and dying as well as those who bravely share their personal stories as a real life experience.

This is the conversation that looks at death in the way it should be…a courageous and sacred event.

This is Dying Your Way

Join the conversation on our FaceBook group, search for Dying your Way. Or to learn more or contact us go to www.dyingyourway.com.

Dying Your Way explores the practical heart and soul of our greatest exit. You will hear from family members, carers and patients themselves with profound insights that will shine a light on this mortal experience.

Join certified End of Life Doula as she speaks with experts in the field of death and dying as well as those who bravely share their personal stories as a real life experience.

This is the conversation that looks at death in the way it should be…a courageous and sacred event.

This is Dying Your Way

Join the conversation on our FaceBook group, search for Dying your Way. Or to learn more or contact us go to www.dyingyourway.com.

Dying Your Way

Dying Your Way explores the practical heart and soul of our greatest exit. You will hear from family members, carers and patients themselves with profound insights that will shine a light on this mortal experience.
Join certified End of Life Doula as she speaks with experts in the field of death and dying as well as those who bravely share their personal stories as a real life experience.
This is the conversation that looks at death in the way it should be&hellip;a courageous and sacred event.
This is Dying Your Way
Join the conversation on our FaceBook group, search for Dying your Way. Or to learn more or contact us go to <a href="http://www.dyingyourway.com">www.dyingyourway.com</a>.

Dying Your Way With Claire O'Berry

S4E4 - One Love, One Grace – A Powerful Conversation with Rev. Cress Darwin

In this Encore episode of the Dying Your Way podcast, Claire O’Berry speaks with Julie Ryan, a former medical device entrepreneur and inventor who now works as a medical intuitive and psychic.

Julie shares the framework she calls the 12 transitions, describing what she believes happens as a person approaches death from the spiritual side of the equation. Claire and Julie explore the parallels between birth and death, the comfort many people report from end-of-life visions, and why Julie believes no one dies alone.

They also discuss grief and guilt, especially for families whose loved ones died during the COVID era, and Julie explains her weekly call-in show and podcast, Ask Julie Ryan, where listeners can ask questions about end-of-life experiences, healing, and the afterlife.

Episode page:
https://dyingyourway.com/podcast-item/julie-ryan-12-transition-phases-end-of-life/

Julie Ryan:
https://askjulieryan.com/

 

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In this Encore episode of the Dying Your Way podcast, Claire O&rsquo;Berry speaks with Julie Ryan, a former medical device entrepreneur and inventor who now works as a medical intuitive and psychic.
Julie shares the framework she calls the 12 transitions, describing what she believes happens as a person approaches death from the spiritual side of the equation. Claire and Julie explore the parallels between birth and death, the comfort many people report from end-of-life visions, and why Julie believes no one dies alone.
They also discuss grief and guilt, especially for families whose loved ones died during the COVID era, and Julie explains her weekly call-in show and podcast, Ask Julie Ryan, where listeners can ask questions about end-of-life experiences, healing, and the afterlife.
Episode page: <a href="https://dyingyourway.com/podcast-item/julie-ryan-12-transition-phases-end-of-life/">https://dyingyourway.com/podcast-item/julie-ryan-12-transition-phases-end-of-life/</a>
Julie Ryan: <a href="https://askjulieryan.com/">https://askjulieryan.com/</a>
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S4E32 - Encore - The 12 Transition Phases at End of Life with Julie Ryan

In this Encore episode of the Dying Your Way podcast, Claire O’Berry reconnects with Carlos Pomeda, a yoga teacher and practitioner of more than 40 years, and a scholar of Sanskrit and religious studies.

This conversation is personal for Claire. In 2004, she and her mother took a course taught by Carlos called Karma, Death, and Dying, before her mother’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis. That teaching became a steady foundation through years of caregiving, and now, sixteen years later, the conversation continues.

Together, they explore how cultural denial shapes our relationship with death, why acceptance can ease emotional suffering, and how meditation supports a shift from body-based identity toward inner awareness. Carlos also shares his perspective on karma, prana (vital energy), ritual, and “unfinished business,” along with research threads that many find compelling, including near-death experiences, hospice visions, and children’s reports of past-life memory.

This is a thoughtful, grounding episode for anyone facing illness, grief, caregiving, or the simple human question of how to die well.

Learn more about Carlos: pomeda.com

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In this Encore episode of the Dying Your Way podcast, Claire O&rsquo;Berry reconnects with Carlos Pomeda, a yoga teacher and practitioner of more than 40 years, and a scholar of Sanskrit and religious studies.
This conversation is personal for Claire. In 2004, she and her mother took a course taught by Carlos called Karma, Death, and Dying, before her mother&rsquo;s Alzheimer&rsquo;s diagnosis. That teaching became a steady foundation through years of caregiving, and now, sixteen years later, the conversation continues.
Together, they explore how cultural denial shapes our relationship with death, why acceptance can ease emotional suffering, and how meditation supports a shift from body-based identity toward inner awareness. Carlos also shares his perspective on karma, prana (vital energy), ritual, and &ldquo;unfinished business,&rdquo; along with research threads that many find compelling, including near-death experiences, hospice visions, and children&rsquo;s reports of past-life memory.
This is a thoughtful, grounding episode for anyone facing illness, grief, caregiving, or the simple human question of how to die well.
Learn more about Carlos: <a href="http://pomeda.com/">pomeda.com</a>
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S4E31 - Encore - Carlos Pomeda on Death, Meditation, and the Journey of the Soul

In this Encore episode, Claire O’Berry speaks with Judith Schwartz, former Clinical Director of End of Life Choices New York, about VSED: Voluntary Stopping Eating and Drinking.

This conversation offers a grounded look at what VSED involves, what supports are essential for comfort and safety, and why some people explore VSED when other end-of-life options are not available or accessible. Judith also discusses advance directive considerations, including documents designed to guide feeding decisions if a person later loses capacity.

Resources mentioned


End of Life Choices New York: VSED information and education




Dementia Advance Directive and “Minimal Comfort Feeding” option




Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking: A Compassionate, Widely Available Option for Hastening Death (Oxford University Press), edited by Timothy E. Quill, Paul T. Menzel, Thaddeus Pope, and Judith Schwarz



Listener care note: This episode discusses end-of-life decision-making. If you feel distressed or at risk, please pause and contact local crisis supports or emergency services.

In this Encore episode, Claire O&rsquo;Berry speaks with Judith Schwartz, former Clinical Director of End of Life Choices New York, about VSED: Voluntary Stopping Eating and Drinking.
This conversation offers a grounded look at what VSED involves, what supports are essential for comfort and safety, and why some people explore VSED when other end-of-life options are not available or accessible. Judith also discusses advance directive considerations, including documents designed to guide feeding decisions if a person later loses capacity.
Resources mentioned
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End of Life Choices New York: VSED information and education 
</li>
<li dir="ltr">
Dementia Advance Directive and &ldquo;Minimal Comfort Feeding&rdquo; option 
</li>
<li dir="ltr">
Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking: A Compassionate, Widely Available Option for Hastening Death (Oxford University Press), edited by Timothy E. Quill, Paul T. Menzel, Thaddeus Pope, and Judith Schwarz 
</li>
</ul>
Listener care note: This episode discusses end-of-life decision-making. If you feel distressed or at risk, please pause and contact local crisis supports or emergency services.

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