Sometimes you just need a tactical cry, and science says that’s actually good for you. In this episode of Do You F**ing Mind?*, I break down the psychology and neuroscience behind why crying feels so relieving, and why putting on sad music can actually help your brain process emotions.

You’ll learn:


The neuroscience of  emotional tears and how they regulate your nervous system


Why a “tactical cry” can reset your stress response


How music enhances emotional release and supports mental clarity


The link between crying, self-regulation, and long-term resilience

If you’ve ever felt better after bawling your eyes out to sad songs, this episode explains exactly why your brain needed it, and how to use it as a tool for mental health.


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Sometimes you just need a tactical cry, and science says that’s actually good for you. In this episode of Do You F**ing Mind?*, I break down the psychology and neuroscience behind why crying feels so relieving, and why putting on sad music can actually help your brain process emotions.
You’ll learn:
<ul>
 <li>
The neuroscience of emotional tears and how they regulate your nervous system
</li>
 <li>
Why a “tactical cry” can reset your stress response
</li>
 <li>
How music enhances emotional release and supports mental clarity
</li>
 <li>
The link between crying, self-regulation, and long-term resilience
</li>
</ul>
If you’ve ever felt better after bawling your eyes out to sad songs, this episode explains exactly why your brain needed it, and how to use it as a tool for mental health.
 Brain Fact : EMDR as a treatment for PTSD  
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Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.

On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions!

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Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions!
Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at <a href="https://bit.ly/44xwszR">https://bit.ly/44xwszR</a>

Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.

Do You F*cking Mind?

The Science of Crying: Why a Tactical Cry (and Sad Music) Is Good for You

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/2fb3740d-3436-44af-8cc0-a91900716aa5/clips/4c56e00d-7d96-41dc-b0bb-b43c0030ceed/transcript