What if the biggest threat to families right now is something no one wants to talk about?

Boys and men are struggling - and the ripple effect is hitting homes, relationships, and entire communities. In this confronting and deeply important conversation, Justin and Kylie unpack what’s really going wrong, why it matters for every parent, and what we can actually do to raise boys who thrive.

KEY POINTS
Boys and men are overrepresented in violence, suicide, addiction, and disengagement
When men don’t thrive, everyone around them is impacted
Focusing only on “fixing behaviour” misses the deeper issues
Boys need a clear model of healthy masculinity: making others feel safe and strong
Key areas for change: mental health, education, fatherhood, and purpose
Ignoring boys’ struggles can lead to resentment, division, and long-term social consequences

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Help boys become men who make the people around them feel safer and stronger.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED
Boys by Dr Justin Coulson

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
Talk openly with your son about emotions, purpose, and identity
Model and reinforce what healthy masculinity looks like at home
Prioritise connection - especially with fathers or father figures
Watch for signs of withdrawal, anger, or disengagement and respond early
Encourage pathways into education, skills, or meaningful work

What if the biggest threat to families right now is something no one wants to talk about?
Boys and men are struggling - and the ripple effect is hitting homes, relationships, and entire communities. In this confronting and deeply important conversation, Justin and Kylie unpack what&rsquo;s really going wrong, why it matters for every parent, and what we can actually do to raise boys who thrive.
KEY POINTS
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Boys and men are overrepresented in violence, suicide, addiction, and disengagement</li>
<li aria-level="1">When men don&rsquo;t thrive, everyone around them is impacted</li>
<li aria-level="1">Focusing only on &ldquo;fixing behaviour&rdquo; misses the deeper issues</li>
<li aria-level="1">Boys need a clear model of healthy masculinity: making others feel safe and strong</li>
<li aria-level="1">Key areas for change: mental health, education, fatherhood, and purpose</li>
<li aria-level="1">Ignoring boys&rsquo; struggles can lead to resentment, division, and long-term social consequences</li>
</ul>
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
&ldquo;Help boys become men who make the people around them feel safer and stronger.&rdquo;
RESOURCES MENTIONED
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.booktopia.com.au/boys-justin-coulson/book/9780733342523.html">Boys</a> by Dr Justin Coulson</li>
</ul>
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Talk openly with your son about emotions, purpose, and identity</li>
<li aria-level="1">Model and reinforce what healthy masculinity looks like at home</li>
<li aria-level="1">Prioritise connection - especially with fathers or father figures</li>
<li aria-level="1">Watch for signs of withdrawal, anger, or disengagement and respond early</li>
<li aria-level="1">Encourage pathways into&nbsp;education, skills, or meaningful work</li>
</ul>

The Happy Families Podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.

The Happy Families Podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.

The Happy families podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now.

Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

Minister for Boys and Men? 

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