If Christmas usually feels more chaotic than joyful, this episode is the reset you need. Justin and Kylie unpack the research on what really makes Christmas happier—and what quietly steals the joy from it. You’ll hear the surprising predictors of Christmas wellbeing (hint: it’s not money, gifts, or how perfect your table looks) and why letting go of the pressure to “do it all” might be the best gift you give your family. A warm, funny, practical episode to help you create a Christmas that actually feels good.

KEY POINTS
Family connection and meaningful traditions are the strongest predictors of Christmas happiness.
A sense of purpose—not perfection—makes the season more joyful.
Environmental mindfulness is linked with higher wellbeing (yes… even at Christmas!).
Consuming less and enjoying nature more boosts Christmas satisfaction.
Materialism and gift overload significantly reduce Christmas happiness.
Relationship challenges or fractured family dynamics can dampen joy.
Age brings more Christmas happiness as expectations shift and priorities mature.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Wrapping presents generally yields fewer rewards than spending time laughing, talking, and playing with the people you love.”

RESOURCES
Kasser & Sheldon (2002) research on Christmas wellbeing
Take Back Christmas [Article]
How To Unspoil Your Kids This Christmas [Webinar]

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
Prioritise connection – plan at least one meaningful, shared activity.
Scale back gifts – focus on presence, not presents.
Add purpose – highlight generosity, gratitude, or spiritual meaning.
Go outside – take a Christmas walk or enjoy nature together.
Simplify – drop one “should” that only adds stress, not joy.

If Christmas usually feels more chaotic than joyful, this episode is the reset you need. Justin and Kylie unpack the research on what really makes Christmas happier&mdash;and what quietly steals the joy from it. You&rsquo;ll hear the surprising predictors of Christmas wellbeing (hint: it&rsquo;s not money, gifts, or how perfect your table looks) and why letting go of the pressure to &ldquo;do it all&rdquo; might be the best gift you give your family. A warm, funny, practical episode to help you create a Christmas that actually feels good.
KEY POINTS
<ul>
<li>Family connection and meaningful traditions are the strongest predictors of Christmas happiness.</li>
<li>A sense of purpose&mdash;not perfection&mdash;makes the season more joyful.</li>
<li>Environmental mindfulness is linked with higher wellbeing (yes&hellip; even at Christmas!).</li>
<li>Consuming less and enjoying nature more boosts Christmas satisfaction.</li>
<li>Materialism and gift overload significantly reduce Christmas happiness.</li>
<li>Relationship challenges or fractured family dynamics can dampen joy.</li>
<li>Age brings more Christmas happiness as expectations shift and priorities mature.</li>
</ul>
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
&ldquo;Wrapping presents generally yields fewer rewards than spending time laughing, talking, and playing with the people you love.&rdquo;
RESOURCES
<ul>
<li><a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/A:1021516410457">Kasser &amp; Sheldon (2002) research</a> on Christmas wellbeing</li>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/articles/take-back-christmas">Take Back Christmas</a> [Article]</li>
<li><a href="How%20to%20Unspoil%20your%20Kids%20this%20Christmas">How To Unspoil Your Kids This Christmas</a> [Webinar]</li>
</ul>
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
<ul>
<li>Prioritise connection &ndash; plan at least one meaningful, shared activity.</li>
<li>Scale back gifts &ndash; focus on presence, not presents.</li>
<li>Add purpose &ndash; highlight generosity, gratitude, or spiritual meaning.</li>
<li>Go outside &ndash; take a Christmas walk or enjoy nature together.</li>
<li>Simplify &ndash; drop one &ldquo;should&rdquo; that only adds stress, not joy.</li>
</ul>

The Happy Families Podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.

The Happy Families Podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.

The Happy families podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now.

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How to Have a Merry Christmas (Backed by Actual Research)

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