Why do girls talk about their looks and boys talk about their abilities? Last night’s Parental Guidance episode tackled the big, emotional topic of body image — from what our kids see in the mirror to what they learn from us. In this Happy Families Podcast recap, Justin and Kylie unpack the powerful moments, the heated debates about Botox and social media, and what the research says about raising kids who feel good about their bodies.

KEY POINTS
Introduction of four new parenting styles: Authoritative, Positivity, Hard Way, and Life School — and their views on body image.
Kids’ mirror challenge revealed a clear gender split: boys focused on what their bodies do, girls on how their bodies look.
Parents’ debate about Botox and cosmetic procedures highlighted tension between self-acceptance and role-modelling for kids.
Social media and screen use increase body dissatisfaction — media literacy alone isn’t enough.
WHO study: gender, not body size, predicts body image problems.
The importance of parents modelling self-acceptance and healthy habits.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

"We focus on boys’ function, not form — and girls’ form, not function. That’s how society has conditioned us for centuries." — Dr Justin Coulson

RESOURCES MENTIONED
The Happiness Hypothesisby Jonathan Haidt
WHO study on gender and body image
Book: Miss-connection: Why Your Teenage Daughter Hates You, Expects the World, and Needs to Talk by Justin Coulson
Pixel Perfect [webinar]
Happy Families resources at happyfamilies.com.au

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

1. Reduce kids’ time on screens and social media to limit harmful comparisons.
2. Stop focusing on diets or external measures — promote health, not appearance.
3. Encourage kids to focus on what their bodies can do, not how they look.
4. Be mindful of how you talk about your own body — you’re modelling self-image.
5. Avoid assuming media literacy is enough — talk about values, not just filters.

Why do girls talk about their looks and boys talk about their abilities? Last night&rsquo;s&nbsp;Parental Guidance episode tackled the big, emotional topic of body image &mdash; from what our kids see in the mirror to what they learn from us. In this Happy Families Podcast recap, Justin and Kylie unpack the powerful moments, the heated debates about Botox and social media, and what the research says about raising kids who feel good about their bodies.
KEY POINTS
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Introduction of four new parenting styles: Authoritative, Positivity, Hard Way, and Life School &mdash; and their views on body image.</li>
<li aria-level="1">Kids&rsquo; mirror challenge revealed a clear gender split: boys focused on what their bodies do, girls on how their bodies look.</li>
<li aria-level="1">Parents&rsquo; debate about Botox and cosmetic procedures highlighted tension between self-acceptance and role-modelling for kids.</li>
<li aria-level="1">Social media and screen use increase body dissatisfaction &mdash; media literacy alone isn&rsquo;t enough.</li>
<li aria-level="1">WHO study: gender, not body size, predicts body image problems.</li>
<li aria-level="1">The importance of parents modelling self-acceptance and healthy habits.</li>
</ul>
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
"We focus on boys&rsquo; function, not form &mdash; and girls&rsquo; form, not function. That&rsquo;s how society has conditioned us for centuries." &mdash; Dr Justin Coulson
RESOURCES MENTIONED
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/Happiness-Hypothesis-Finding-Modern-Ancient/dp/0465028020">The Happiness Hypothesis </a>by Jonathan Haidt</li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11975536/">WHO study on gender and body image</a></li>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/shop/product/miss-connection">Book: Miss-connection: Why Your Teenage Daughter Hates You, Expects the World, and Needs to Talk</a>&nbsp;by Justin Coulson</li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/shop/product/pixel-perfect">Pixel Perfect [webinar]</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Happy Families resources at<a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au"> happyfamilies.com.au</a></li>
</ul>
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
1. Reduce kids&rsquo; time on screens and social media to limit harmful comparisons. 2. Stop focusing on diets or external measures &mdash; promote health, not appearance. 3. Encourage kids to focus on what their bodies can do, not how they look. 4. Be mindful of how you talk about your own body &mdash; you&rsquo;re modelling self-image. 5. Avoid assuming media literacy is enough &mdash; talk about values, not just filters.

The Happy Families Podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.

The Happy Families Podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.

The Happy families podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now.

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Why Kids Hate Their Bodies (and What Parents Can Do About It) [Parental Guidance Ep. 3] 

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