Understanding the right type of conversation can transform family communication and deepen connections with our children. Justin and Kylie explore insights from Pulitzer Prize winner Charles Duhigg's book "Super Communicators".

Key Points:
Understanding the three types of conversations: practical, emotional, and social
Why fixing problems isn't always what our children need
How to identify which conversation your child wants to have
The importance of asking "Why am I talking?" (WAIT)
When connection matters more than correction

Quote of the Episode: "We tend to remember the conversations that are connection as opposed to just information exchange." - Charles Duhigg

Key Insights:
Most memorable conversations are ones where children do the talking
Parents often default to "fix-it" mode when children need emotional support
Simple questions can reveal what type of conversation is needed
The power of asking "How can I help?" or "What do you need?"

Personal Stories Shared:
Justin's "professor moment" with his daughter walking up the hill
The powerful feedback: "I don't need you to be my psychologist. I need you to be my dad."
Examples of transforming typical parent-child interactions

Action Steps for Parents:
Ask what type of conversation your child wants to have
Practice the WAIT principle (Why Am I Talking?)
Focus on listening more than solving
Learn to identify practical vs. emotional vs. social conversations
Create space for connection rather than correction

Resources Mentioned:
"Super Communicators" by Charles Duhigg
Full interview available in Saturday's episode
happyfamilies.com.au

Understanding the right type of conversation can transform family communication and deepen connections with our children. Justin and Kylie explore insights from Pulitzer Prize winner Charles Duhigg's book "Super Communicators".
Key Points:
<ul>
<li>Understanding the three types of conversations: practical, emotional, and social</li>
<li>Why fixing problems isn't always what our children need</li>
<li>How to identify which conversation your child wants to have</li>
<li>The importance of asking "Why am I talking?" (WAIT)</li>
<li>When connection matters more than correction</li>
</ul>
Quote of the Episode: "We tend to remember the conversations that are connection as opposed to just information exchange." - Charles Duhigg
Key Insights:
<ul>
<li>Most memorable conversations are ones where children do the talking</li>
<li>Parents often default to "fix-it" mode when children need emotional support</li>
<li>Simple questions can reveal what type of conversation is needed</li>
<li>The power of asking "How can I help?" or "What do you need?"</li>
</ul>
Personal Stories Shared:
<ul>
<li>Justin's "professor moment" with his daughter walking up the hill</li>
<li>The powerful feedback: "I don't need you to be my psychologist. I need you to be my dad."</li>
<li>Examples of transforming typical parent-child interactions</li>
</ul>
Action Steps for Parents:
<ol>
<li>Ask what type of conversation your child wants to have</li>
<li>Practice the WAIT principle (Why Am I Talking?)</li>
<li>Focus on listening more than solving</li>
<li>Learn to identify practical vs. emotional vs. social conversations</li>
<li>Create space for connection rather than correction</li>
</ol>
Resources Mentioned:
<ul>
<li>"Super Communicators" by Charles Duhigg</li>
<li>Full interview available in Saturday's episode</li>
<li><a href="http://happyfamilies.com.au/" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=http://happyfamilies.com.au&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1736909370758000&amp;usg=AOvVaw1l9-DeBSCtvKl6-7a1kwH-">happyfamilies.com.au</a></li>
</ul>

The Happy Families Podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.

The Happy Families Podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.

The Happy families podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now.

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#1157 - 3 Conversations Your Family Needs to Master

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