In tonight's Disaffected: Therapist Pamela Garfield shares her heartfelt kids' book "Froggy Girl," teaching self-acceptance to steer kids away from unstable identities, drawing on her experience with therapy and gender trends. Plus, a brief takedown of brutalist architecture as a symbol of narcissistic control. Tune in for sharp psych insights and cultural heat!

In tonight's Disaffected: Therapist Pamela Garfield shares her heartfelt kids' book "Froggy Girl," teaching self-acceptance to steer kids away from unstable identities, drawing on her experience with therapy and gender trends. Plus, a brief takedown of brutalist architecture as a symbol of narcissistic control. Tune in for sharp psych insights and cultural heat!

Four years ago, I woke from a spell that I had been under since childhood.  After decades of torment, I recognized my mother for what she truly was: a personality-disordered abuser.  She wasn't the victim she had always claimed to be.  Then I saw the same behavior and abuse tactics being adopted and applauded by the social justice left.

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Hey There, Froggy Girl: Episode 233, July 28, 2025

-Jenny Holland of Saving Culture From Itself joins us to talk about how you can go from a bohemian 90s leftist chick to a middle-aged conservative. Join us for your political makeover!

-Black-people-specific narcissism is the elephant in the room (along with misandry) that the U.S. doesn't want to talk about. We're going to talk about it using the Tourettes-at-the-BAFTAs as a jumping off point.

-Do you remember when adults recognized that some people are liars? Have you noticed how no one wants to say it anymore? Positive projection by decent, normal people is getting us killed.

Did you like the show? Throw us some cash support! https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted...

-Disaffected is sponsored by purveyors of the finest cured meats. Visit biltongusa.com and use promo code JOSH to get 10 percent off your order.

-Slocum Consulting: You can book an hour with Josh on video to talk about troubled relationships, political clashes at work, and more. If you're looking for someone who won't call your concerns "crazy," Josh is the guy you want. Book at https://www.joshuaslocum.net

-Jenny Holland of Saving Culture From Itself joins us to talk about how you can go from a bohemian 90s leftist chick to a middle-aged conservative. Join us for your political makeover!
-Black-people-specific narcissism is the elephant in the room (along with misandry) that the U.S. doesn't want to talk about. We're going to talk about it using the Tourettes-at-the-BAFTAs as a jumping off point.
-Do you remember when adults recognized that some people are liars? Have you noticed how no one wants to say it anymore? Positive projection by decent, normal people is getting us killed.
Did you like the show? Throw us some cash support!&nbsp;<a href="https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted..">https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted..</a><a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqa19aZDRCWWZYUEpVREtrSkYzTFl2NGNxM3pSZ3xBQ3Jtc0trRGhaMEZKS0g0cFNQZ1g4bE1RaTJpOXgwdjIxRjM5MTZQR0JhSG1RVE5fOHRNVlNwYVFvUWRZdmdoTGpVWGhPQTQ2SjRHN3VLeG92SWZKOTJ4VjM4QUpPSWZKTnNfSWZVTWEtcFc3Z0VGNWdEQjg1SQ&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paypal.com%2Fdonate%2F%3Fhosted_button_id%3DCTXSL5U8DJBUY&amp;v=-WhuHKCcgSY">.</a>
-Disaffected is sponsored by purveyors of the finest cured meats. Visit biltongusa.com and use promo code JOSH to get 10 percent off your order.
-Slocum Consulting: You can book an hour with Josh on video to talk about troubled relationships, political clashes at work, and more. If you're looking for someone who won't call your concerns "crazy," Josh is the guy you want. Book at <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqa3VuSFVZbjVDZVFFOGxGVC1NdG10WTdxaXAyUXxBQ3Jtc0trMG9QS0c5REV4TWYzQ3pCWllUbUNpbVhlYmRGRFNBN1FGYjFmVGQteGJTWXQyRUhkUWlkZFRQT2lHMmEwcGFLcTJGNGpzendxdkZFcU4ybUFnanExc2NUMGttUEpZVEJsbVJLbGRhaUs3WGlGVjFZWQ&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.joshuaslocum.net%2F&amp;v=-WhuHKCcgSY">https://www.joshuaslocum.net</a>

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-Yet another "trans" shooter, this time in Canada, has killed 8 people including his mother and his brother. Guess what everyone's ignoring as a cause? His pro-trans mommy and an absent father. 

-For at least 20 years, minor girls have been dressed in highly sexual clothing. Everyone wants to blame clothing companies. But guess who dresses daughters? Mommy. 

-Pull yourself and your kids back into the analog, tactile, physical world. We'll look at the difference between digital black boxes and honest mechanicals.

Did you like the show? Throw us some cash support! https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted... -

Disaffected is sponsored by purveyors of the finest cured meats. Visit biltongusa.com and use promo code JOSH to get 10 percent off your order. 

-Slocum Consulting: You can book an hour with Josh on video to talk about troubled relationships, political clashes at work, and more. If you're looking for someone who won't call your concerns "crazy," Josh is the guy you want. Book at https://www.joshuaslocum.net

-Yet another "trans" shooter, this time in Canada, has killed 8 people including his mother and his brother. Guess what everyone's ignoring as a cause? His pro-trans mommy and an absent father. -For at least 20 years, minor girls have been dressed in highly sexual clothing. Everyone wants to blame clothing companies. But guess who dresses daughters? Mommy. -Pull yourself and your kids back into the analog, tactile, physical world. We'll look at the difference between digital black boxes and honest mechanicals.
Did you like the show? Throw us some cash support!&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWRLQm9nS0ZnbzNPNXNacDRKZE9lYXZpQTcxQXxBQ3Jtc0tsWmgxQlE1dm1jR2gzUV8xa1pDaUpTaUFrU1kwNkEyWWhNbnlXaGpWS3FKeUNjc3JrUW5aZFVRMXVlZWVoWGVLLVF0cVk2S1NpZ1gzV3B3S3k4RDdQcGJMbFlNRmZIdVdFcG10anRrdG40a05UX2MtWQ&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paypal.com%2Fdonate%2F%3Fhosted_button_id%3DCTXSL5U8DJBUY&amp;v=G0TEDZPbpvg">https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted...</a> -
Disaffected is sponsored by purveyors of the finest cured meats. Visit biltongusa.com and use promo code JOSH to get 10 percent off your order. -Slocum Consulting: You can book an hour with Josh on video to talk about troubled relationships, political clashes at work, and more. If you're looking for someone who won't call your concerns "crazy," Josh is the guy you want. Book at&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbTB6QWo5TVU0cmczalRLX3p4b21yUDNCdDhwUXxBQ3Jtc0tsT0VEQ3V6U2QzWWtSMTBSQ0VDUmpYU1pGcmdFTGQ0eERCZEU3QzJpYmo2Snk4eXFGN1R0MUdvb1F6azFlZHltQ1hYRVE4VlBvMUtoWENqNlVXMkd4MWxfTGoyaHdwTm81ODgyQ0xGV1oybDdWNXpxRQ&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.joshuaslocum.net%2F&amp;v=G0TEDZPbpvg">https://www.joshuaslocum.net</a>

Hey There, Froggy Girl: Episode 233, July 28, 2025

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