Essayist Kate Wand joins the show to talk about baby boomer parenting styles and the millennials it created. Kate tells some stories of her own narcissism-inflected upbringing and how the patterns learned in such a childhood can make adult interactions difficult. 

Essayist Kate Wand joins the show to talk about baby boomer parenting styles and the millennials it created. Kate tells some stories of her own narcissism-inflected upbringing and how the patterns learned in such a childhood can make adult interactions difficult.&nbsp;

Four years ago, I woke from a spell that I had been under since childhood.  After decades of torment, I recognized my mother for what she truly was: a personality-disordered abuser.  She wasn't the victim she had always claimed to be.  Then I saw the same behavior and abuse tactics being adopted and applauded by the social justice left.

Disaffected

Audio: Conversation with Kate Wand, March 13, 2025

-Yet another "trans" shooter, this time in Canada, has killed 8 people including his mother and his brother. Guess what everyone's ignoring as a cause? His pro-trans mommy and an absent father. 

-For at least 20 years, minor girls have been dressed in highly sexual clothing. Everyone wants to blame clothing companies. But guess who dresses daughters? Mommy. 

-Pull yourself and your kids back into the analog, tactile, physical world. We'll look at the difference between digital black boxes and honest mechanicals.

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-Yet another "trans" shooter, this time in Canada, has killed 8 people including his mother and his brother. Guess what everyone's ignoring as a cause? His pro-trans mommy and an absent father. -For at least 20 years, minor girls have been dressed in highly sexual clothing. Everyone wants to blame clothing companies. But guess who dresses daughters? Mommy. -Pull yourself and your kids back into the analog, tactile, physical world. We'll look at the difference between digital black boxes and honest mechanicals.
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Disaffected is sponsored by purveyors of the finest cured meats. Visit biltongusa.com and use promo code JOSH to get 10 percent off your order. -Slocum Consulting: You can book an hour with Josh on video to talk about troubled relationships, political clashes at work, and more. If you're looking for someone who won't call your concerns "crazy," Josh is the guy you want. Book at&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbTB6QWo5TVU0cmczalRLX3p4b21yUDNCdDhwUXxBQ3Jtc0tsT0VEQ3V6U2QzWWtSMTBSQ0VDUmpYU1pGcmdFTGQ0eERCZEU3QzJpYmo2Snk4eXFGN1R0MUdvb1F6azFlZHltQ1hYRVE4VlBvMUtoWENqNlVXMkd4MWxfTGoyaHdwTm81ODgyQ0xGV1oybDdWNXpxRQ&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.joshuaslocum.net%2F&amp;v=G0TEDZPbpvg">https://www.joshuaslocum.net</a>

She Was an American Girl: Episode 261, Feb 15, 2026

-Conservatives are as bad as liberals. Republican polticians have been wetting their panties all week over a "racist" comedy video that poked fun at the sainted Obamas. Podcaster Isaiah Carter joins us to knock some sense into the conversation.

-The Washington Post laid off a third of its staff last week because it got tired of losing $100 million a year. Former "journalists" are crying on camera (literally) on Instagram. We laugh at their tears.

-Potpourri du Moquerie!

Did you like the show? Throw us some cash support! https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted... -Disaffected is sponsored by purveyors of the finest cured meats. Visit biltongusa.com and use promo code JOSH to get 10 percent off your order. -

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-Conservatives are as bad as liberals. Republican polticians have been wetting their panties all week over a "racist" comedy video that poked fun at the sainted Obamas. Podcaster Isaiah Carter joins us to knock some sense into the conversation.
-The Washington Post laid off a third of its staff last week because it got tired of losing $100 million a year. Former "journalists" are crying on camera (literally) on Instagram. We laugh at their tears.
-Potpourri du Moquerie!
Did you like the show? Throw us some cash support!&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWNaZlYzYThxVmJkelRyMExZODRQNXJydzhmUXxBQ3Jtc0trMFBwSnlYV3RFVWx2ZHNrbjVHNy1IZVpJZkh5bFRETEtLWUY2c3l6WEVsZGNEdUVaTTJnQzJNX2dpclZNVjJZTkVXY0VmMU5pa0FxSHFKcFRmY1FfZVhWNnVzUDAxZkNoYVlKU09uMFRJSm5yVzZfdw&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paypal.com%2Fdonate%2F%3Fhosted_button_id%3DCTXSL5U8DJBUY&amp;v=VmDhjGEEJrE">https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted...</a> -Disaffected is sponsored by purveyors of the finest cured meats. Visit biltongusa.com and use promo code JOSH to get 10 percent off your order. -
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Moral Masochism: Ep 260, Feb 8, 2026

Episode 259, Feb 1, 2026

 

-Are we really surprised to see so many sadistic nurses on social media wishing harm on conservatives? How the "caring" professions attract female psychopaths

-Psychiatrist Hannah Spier (she's based) joins us to talk about how women's personality and character failings are being "morally laundered" by mental health pros with false sympathy diagnoses. They're not "bipolar" or "autistic", they're personality disordered.

-Minneapolis nurse Alex Pretti, shot to death by ICE, was not merely some "caring nurse." He was a violent thug with a history of interfering with and assaulting immigration cops.

Did you like the show? Throw us some cash support! https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted...

-Disaffected is sponsored by purveyors of the finest cured meats. Visit biltongusa.com and use promo code JOSH to get 10 percent off your order.

-Slocum Consulting: You can book an hour with Josh on video to talk about troubled relationships, political clashes at work, and more. If you're looking for someone who won't call your concerns "crazy," Josh is the guy you want. Book at https://www.joshuaslocum.net

Episode 259, Feb 1, 2026
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-Are we really surprised to see so many sadistic nurses on social media wishing harm on conservatives? How the "caring" professions attract female psychopaths
-Psychiatrist Hannah Spier (she's based) joins us to talk about how women's personality and character failings are being "morally laundered" by mental health pros with false sympathy diagnoses. They're not "bipolar" or "autistic", they're personality disordered.
-Minneapolis nurse Alex Pretti, shot to death by ICE, was not merely some "caring nurse." He was a violent thug with a history of interfering with and assaulting immigration cops.
Did you like the show? Throw us some cash support!&nbsp;<a href="https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted..">https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted..</a><a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbkR2UzJ4Yk5iLTUydWRCZ2NSNFRLWmoybkpTUXxBQ3Jtc0tsWDlDbFRpYi0zNjRsZlppQ2pQaWE5NGkxWHozRzdkLU5QQkdLRW1qOGFlVXd2VUJVRGdqUzI2MDZhdlJBQkpmMWdDaHNLbFNKR1RpaG1aUWE0aUpqc2NlYWoxR3A2czQxNDFRZ01peXZiRGFfWkJaYw&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paypal.com%2Fdonate%2F%3Fhosted_button_id%3DCTXSL5U8DJBUY&amp;v=HhA6tWQIqv0">.</a>
-Disaffected is sponsored by purveyors of the finest cured meats. Visit biltongusa.com and use promo code JOSH to get 10 percent off your order.
-Slocum Consulting: You can book an hour with Josh on video to talk about troubled relationships, political clashes at work, and more. If you're looking for someone who won't call your concerns "crazy," Josh is the guy you want. Book at <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWwxVWVrSW1vQmhTQVMxMUh6aDNNOHVoNzRVZ3xBQ3Jtc0trWGxkSy1DaDF1eFVRa0M2U2VLWkliSVAwOENHbzdpZHZEdEF2MENpZU9nV25fSDJHSHJKaWIyVGxmVmExOW1STklJNlNOT1k0WnFoWlR1VnVybzgzREJTM1NOZXhSY3FoT0hwVWIxMFhqTzdQRzZvRQ&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.joshuaslocum.net%2F&amp;v=HhA6tWQIqv0">https://www.joshuaslocum.net</a>

Audio: Conversation with Kate Wand, March 13, 2025

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