Healing from divorce is a long road, but it is possible. Laterras sits down with Destiny Payton and she opens up about her healing journey after a turbulent divorce, sharing her resilience through challenges like incarceration. Together, they explore past traumas and family history, revealing the profound impact on marriage choices. Discover Destiny's healing, her perspective on forgiveness, dealing with breakups and where she stands in her journey to love.



[00:00:00 - 00:03:39] - Opening segment

[00:03:40 - 00:09:01] - What happened to Destiny Payton? 

[00:09:02 - 00:15:47] - How did Destiny surrender to the jail system? 

[00:15:48 - 19:41]  - Using dialogue to avoid conflict

[00:19:42 - 27:56] - Dealing with past traumas and EMDR Therapy

[00:27:57 - 29:44] - How do current experiences bring up old trauma?

[00:29:55 - 36:31] - Timeline of Destiny’s past relationship 

[00:36:32 - 41:34] - Unaddressed trauma

[00:41:35 - 43:24] - How does your childhood affect your energy?

[00:43:25 - 45:00] - The impact of the death of Destiny’s older brother on her life 

[00:45:01 - 52:51] - Destiny’s experience with reality TV 

[00:52:52 - 59:17] - Handling betrayal

[00:59:18 - 01:06:35] - Is your ex allowed to date? 

[01:06:36 - 01:21:32] - A message for Destiny’s ex 





Key Quote:



“God didn’t take the storm away, but he gave me peace” - Destiny Payton.





CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:

Destiny Payton - https://www.instagram.com/thedestinypayton



Live intentionally transparent with the latest merch at https://www.dearfuturewifey.com/.



Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifey

Healing from divorce is a long road, but it is possible. Laterras sits down with Destiny Payton and she opens up about her healing journey after a turbulent divorce, sharing her resilience through challenges like incarceration. Together, they explore past traumas and family history, revealing the profound impact on marriage choices. Discover Destiny's healing, her perspective on forgiveness, dealing with breakups and where she stands in her journey to love.
 
[00:00:00 - 00:03:39] - Opening segment
[00:03:40 - 00:09:01] - What happened to Destiny Payton? 
[00:09:02 - 00:15:47] - How did Destiny surrender to the jail system? 
[00:15:48 - 19:41]  - Using dialogue to avoid conflict
[00:19:42 - 27:56] - Dealing with past traumas and EMDR Therapy
[00:27:57 - 29:44] - How do current experiences bring up old trauma?
[00:29:55 - 36:31] - Timeline of Destiny’s past relationship 
[00:36:32 - 41:34] - Unaddressed trauma
[00:41:35 - 43:24] - How does your childhood affect your energy?
[00:43:25 - 45:00] - The impact of the death of Destiny’s older brother on her life 
[00:45:01 - 52:51] - Destiny’s experience with reality TV 
[00:52:52 - 59:17] - Handling betrayal
[00:59:18 - 01:06:35] - Is your ex allowed to date? 
[01:06:36 - 01:21:32] - A message for Destiny’s ex 
 
 
Key Quote: 
 
“God didn’t take the storm away, but he gave me peace” - Destiny Payton.
 
 
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:
Destiny Payton - https://www.instagram.com/thedestinypayton
 
Live intentionally transparent with the latest merch at https://www.dearfuturewifey.com/.
 
Learn more about this podcast at —<a href="https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifey"> https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifey</a>

Journey with me, Laterras R. Whitfield, as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and maybe even those in polyamorous relationships, we promise every episode to be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally Transparent).

Dear Future Wifey

Journey with Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield, co-hosts of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, as they discover, uncover, and recover love—together.

Created as a platform for Laterras’ public healing after divorce, the podcast has evolved into a powerful space where real love stories are told with honesty, wisdom, and depth. Now joined by his wife Ashley, the conversations expand to include both personal reflection and shared perspective on love, marriage, and growth.

Through candid dialogue with relationship experts, celebrities, and everyday people, Laterras and Ashley dive deep into the realities of relationships—exploring love, loss, healing, and what it truly takes to build something lasting.

Whether you’re searching for love, strengthening your marriage, or healing from heartbreak, Dear Future Wifey offers heartfelt insight, practical tools, and transparent conversations to guide the journey.

Subscribe and join Laterras and Ashley as they continue to live intentionally and transparently.

Journey with&nbsp;Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield, co-hosts of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, as they discover, uncover, and recover love&mdash;together.
Created as a platform for Laterras&rsquo; public healing after divorce, the podcast has evolved into a powerful space where real love stories are told with honesty, wisdom, and depth. Now joined by his wife Ashley, the conversations expand to include both personal reflection and shared perspective on love, marriage, and growth.
Through candid dialogue with relationship experts, celebrities, and everyday people, Laterras and Ashley dive deep into the realities of relationships&mdash;exploring love, loss, healing, and what it truly takes to build something lasting.
Whether you&rsquo;re searching for love, strengthening your marriage, or healing from heartbreak, Dear Future Wifey offers heartfelt insight, practical tools, and transparent conversations to guide the journey.
Subscribe and join Laterras and Ashley as they continue to live intentionally and transparently.