This week in the Dear Clementine inbox:
My 9 year old son was recently exposed to porn and I am heart broken. I feel completely overwhelmed and uncertain of how to move forward. I know I can't make him unsee what he saw, but what do I do? How can I help him now? 

My partner of 6 years recently left me & our 3yo daughter. After 2 weeks, he had a new girlfriend... It has now been only 8 weeks since we split up and we are currently arguing about the right time for him to introduce his new girlfriend to my daughter. Am I being unreasonable asking him to wait at least 6 months?

I'm turning 40 in 3 months time, and am single, and childless. I’m very happy but I have had sex twice in about 4 years. I miss sex! However, I also know that I need emotional connection to truly enjoy sexual intimacy. I've never enjoyed using sex toys. Do you have any advice?  

If you have a question for Clementine, send her an email at dearclementine@novapodcasts.com.au

CREDITS
Executive Producer: Edwina Stott
Audio Production: Adrian Walton
Managing Producer: Elle Beattie

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This week in the Dear Clementine inbox:
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<li data-leveltext="-" data-font="Calibri" data-listid="2" data-list-defn-props="{&quot;335552541&quot;:1,&quot;335559684&quot;:-2,&quot;335559685&quot;:720,&quot;335559991&quot;:360,&quot;469769226&quot;:&quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;469769242&quot;:[8226],&quot;469777803&quot;:&quot;left&quot;,&quot;469777804&quot;:&quot;-&quot;,&quot;469777815&quot;:&quot;hybridMultilevel&quot;}" aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-aria-level="1">My partner of 6 years recently left me &amp; our 3yo daughter. After 2 weeks, he had a new girlfriend... It has now been only 8 weeks since we split up and we are currently arguing about the right time for him to introduce his new girlfriend to my daughter. Am I being unreasonable asking him to wait at least 6 months?  </li>
<li data-leveltext="-" data-font="Calibri" data-listid="3" data-list-defn-props="{&quot;335552541&quot;:1,&quot;335559684&quot;:-2,&quot;335559685&quot;:720,&quot;335559991&quot;:360,&quot;469769226&quot;:&quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;469769242&quot;:[8226],&quot;469777803&quot;:&quot;left&quot;,&quot;469777804&quot;:&quot;-&quot;,&quot;469777815&quot;:&quot;hybridMultilevel&quot;}" aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-aria-level="1">I'm turning 40 in 3 months time, and am single, and childless. I’m very happy but I have had sex twice in about 4 years. I miss sex! However, I also know that I need emotional connection to truly enjoy sexual intimacy. I've never enjoyed using sex toys. Do you have any advice?  </li>
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If you have a question for Clementine, send her an email at dearclementine@novapodcasts.com.au
CREDITS Executive Producer: Edwina Stott Audio Production: Adrian Walton Managing Producer: Elle Beattie
For more great Nova Podcasts head to novapodcasts.com.au

In need of a little guidance? Desperate for some advice, but too afraid to ask your friends? Award winning author and proud feminist Clementine Ford is here to help. Whether you've got a question about family, career, sex or friendships Clementine is the sister you always wanted, the mum you never had, the aunty who always listened and the friend who's got your back. Dear Clementine is a podcast packed with advice you may not want but you definitely need.

In need of a little guidance? Desperate for some advice, but too afraid to ask your friends? Award winning author and proud feminist Clementine Ford is here to help. Whether you've got a question about family, career, sex or friendships Clementine is the sister you always wanted, the mum you never had, the aunty who always listened and the friend who's got your back. Dear Clementine is a podcast packed with advice you may not want but you definitely need.

Desperate for some advice, but too afraid to ask your friends? Award winning author and proud feminist Clementine Ford is here to help