Hey lady! Have you ever been accused of being stuck-up, shy, rude, or flat-out a b*tch and you were simply existing? Other people’s projections land on you and suddenly you have a reputation for being anti-social or awkward while anxiety is beating your butt and you’re doing your best not to show it. Or, maybe you’re the one pre-emptively judging someone for their demeanor, creating stories about why they are behaving they way they are without pausing and finding a neutral space from which to observe the interaction.

This week, Dr. Dom and Terri show some love to the socially selective, the socially anxious, and the downright awkward among us so that we can understand these relational dynamics and hopefully offer more compassion to ourselves and others. Why? Because we’re all doing life for the first time and we do not all have the answers but we can make the effort to help each other along the way.

Have you noticed that certain situations trigger fight, flight, freeze, or fawn responses from you? Dr. Dom offers an actionable toolkit to help you navigate those scenarios so you can enter spaces skillfully. And, Terri offers perspective about how you can give yourself grace because it is quite possible that you are reading the room accurately and acting perfectly appropriately even if other people misunderstand your behavior.

Terri and Dr. Dom share their real-world experiences and how they’ve been able to adapt to situations while also identifying when they’ve personalized a situation without enough data or proper context. Lady, doing that can cause unforced errors in an otherwise fruitful potential relationship, so do yourself a favor, head over to the Cultivating H.E.R. Space shop, grab your journal and spend some time with the reflection questions offered in this episode.

Lady, life is all about relationships so let’s expand our capacity to be in sisterhood by increasing our confidence and our understanding of our differences. We’re shaping this world into a beautiful one full of genuine authenticity!

 

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Goal Mapping Starter Guide

Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

 

Resources:

Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice

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Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Have you ever been accused of being stuck-up, shy, rude, or flat-out a b*tch and you were simply existing? Other people&rsquo;s projections land on you and suddenly you have a reputation for being anti-social or awkward while anxiety is beating your butt and you&rsquo;re doing your best not to show it. Or, maybe you&rsquo;re the one pre-emptively judging someone for their demeanor, creating stories about why they are behaving they way they are without pausing and finding a neutral space from which to observe the interaction.
This week, Dr. Dom and Terri show some love to the socially selective, the socially anxious, and the downright awkward among us so that we can understand these relational dynamics and hopefully offer more compassion to ourselves and others. Why? Because we&rsquo;re all doing life for the first time and we do not all have the answers but we can make the effort to help each other along the way.
Have you noticed that certain situations trigger fight, flight, freeze, or fawn responses from you? Dr. Dom offers an actionable toolkit to help you navigate those scenarios so you can enter spaces skillfully. And, Terri offers perspective about how you can give yourself grace because it is quite possible that you are reading the room accurately and acting perfectly appropriately even if other people misunderstand your behavior.
Terri and Dr. Dom share their real-world experiences and how they&rsquo;ve been able to adapt to situations while also identifying when they&rsquo;ve personalized a situation without enough data or proper context. Lady, doing that can cause unforced errors in an otherwise fruitful potential relationship, so do yourself a favor, head over to the Cultivating H.E.R. Space shop, grab your journal and spend some time with the reflection questions offered in this episode.
Lady, life is all about relationships so let&rsquo;s expand our capacity to be in sisterhood by increasing our confidence and our understanding of our differences. We&rsquo;re shaping this world into a beautiful one full of genuine authenticity!
&nbsp;
We&rsquo;re partnered with&nbsp;VB Health, a doctor-formulated supplement brand focused on sexual wellness you can trust.
Featuring Drive Boost (libido support for all genders). Most users report results after 1&ndash;2 weeks of consistent use. Visit this link and use code HerSpace at checkout for 10% off: <a href="https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace">https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace</a>
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<a href="https://terrilomax.lpages.co/goal-mapping-starter-guide/">Goal Mapping Starter Guide</a>
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/herspacesanctuary/">Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary</a>
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Resources:
<a href="https://www.drdominiquebroussard.com/">Dr. Dom&rsquo;s Therapy Practice</a>
<a href="https://terrilomax.samcart.com/products/getthatpitch">Get That Pitch Workshop:</a> Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit <a href="https://terrilomax.samcart.com/products/getthatpitch">GetThatPitch.com</a> and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount.
<a href="https://terrilomax.com/">Branding with Terri</a>
<a href="https://www.melaninandmentalhealth.com/">Melanin and Mental Health</a>
<a href="https://providers.therapyforblackgirls.com/">Therapy for Black Girls&nbsp;</a>
<a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us">Psychology Today</a>
<a href="https://therapyforqpoc.com/">Therapy for QPOC</a>
<a href="https://therapyfundfoundation.org/">Therapy Fund Foundation</a>
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Where to find us:
Twitter:<a href="https://twitter.com/herspacepodcast/"> @HERspacepodcast</a>
Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/herspacepodcast/"> @herspacepodcast</a>
Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/herspacepodcast/?modal=admin_todo_tour"> @herspacepodcast</a>
Website:<a href="https://herspacepodcast.com/"> cultivatingherspace.com</a>

In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate authentic conversations on everything from fibroids to fake friends. If you’re a Black woman looking for an extra dose of inspiration on the go, pull up a seat and join us on the Cultivating H.E.R. (Healing, Empowerment, Resilience) Space podcast.

In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just&hellip; be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate authentic conversations on everything from fibroids to fake friends. If you&rsquo;re a Black woman looking for an extra dose of inspiration on the go, pull up a seat and join us on the Cultivating H.E.R. (Healing, Empowerment, Resilience) Space podcast.

In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate...

Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman

In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate authentic conversations on everything from fibroids to fake friends. If you’re a Black woman looking for an extra dose of inspiration on the go, pull up a seat and join us on the Cultivating H.E.R. (Healing, Empowerment, Resilience) Space podcast.

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In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate authentic conversations on everything from fibroids to fake friends. If you’re a Black woman looking for an extra dose of inspiration on the go, pull up a seat and join us on the Cultivating H.E.R. (Healing, Empowerment, Resilience) Space podcast. Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support</a>.

Awkward vs. Misunderstood – Why First Impressions Aren’t Always Right

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