Are you struggling with communication in marriage? Today, Greg and Erin are joined by Matt and Angel Rigsby to discuss what they learned about how to improve communication in marriage by using heart talk. Plus, we'll hear some inspiring stories from some of our Hope Restored alumni!



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 Need some help figuring out what you're feeling? Check out the Feelings Wheel!



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Are you struggling with communication in marriage? Today, Greg and Erin are joined by Matt and Angel Rigsby to discuss what they learned about how to improve communication in marriage by using heart talk. Plus, we'll hear some inspiring stories from some of our Hope Restored alumni!
 
<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/hoperestored-focusonthefamily-1992201">Wondering if the Hope Restored intensive is for you? Check out the details here.</a> 
 
<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/themarriageassessment-1984003">Want to take the Focus on the Family Marriage Assessment? Click here!</a>
 
<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/feelingswheel-1984003"> Need some help figuring out what you're feeling? Check out the Feelings Wheel!</a> 
 
<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/cltcm-voicemail">We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.</a>

Did you know the Hebrew root word for marriage is the same as mess? Okay, maybe not, but it wasn’t a stretch to believe, right? This is the podcast for Christian married couples who are in the middle of a messy moment. They need to laugh. They need clear, practical advice. And they need to hear from someone with an actual degree in this thing. Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley are those people. They have reached millions of couples through their counseling practices, books, events, and work at Focus on the Family.

Did you know the Hebrew root word for marriage is the same as mess? Okay, maybe not, but it wasn’t a stretch to believe, right? This is the podcast for Christian married couples who are in the middle of a messy moment. They need to laugh. They need clear, practical advice. And they need to hear from someone with an actual degree in this thing. Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley are those people. They have reached millions of couples through their counseling practices, books, events, and work at Focus on the Family.

Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage

Did you know the Hebrew root word for marriage is the same as mess? Okay, maybe not, but it wasn’t a stretch to believe, right? This is the podcast for Christian married couples who are in the middle of a messy moment. They need to laugh. They need clear practical advice. And they need to hear from someone with an actual degree in this thing. Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley are those people. They have reached millions of couples through their counseling practices, books, events, and work at Focus on the Family. 

Did you know the Hebrew root word for marriage is the same as mess? Okay, maybe not, but it wasn’t a stretch to believe, right? This is the podcast for Christian married couples who are in the middle of a messy moment. They need to laugh. They need clear practical advice. And they need to hear from someone with an actual degree in this thing. Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley are those people. They have reached millions of couples through their counseling practices, books, events, and work at Focus on the Family.

Using "Heart Talk" to Improve Communication and Save Your Marriage

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley interview Dr. Gary Chapman, renowned author of 'The Five Love Languages' and other marriage-related books. On this episode we discuss practical insights from Chapman's new book, 'A Simple Guide for a Better Marriage.' Highlights include addressing common communication issues in marriage, the importance of humility, techniques for handling conflicts, and the role of apologies and forgiveness. Dr. Chapman shares his wisdom from 60 years of marriage, emphasizing the need for mutual respect, understanding each other's love languages, and consistently working on the relationship. The episode concludes with a celebration of Greg and Erin's 33rd wedding anniversary, highlighting their ongoing commitment to growing in love and supporting each other.

 

A Simple Guide For A Better Marriage

 

Conversation Starters For Couples

 

Here's a link to the Narcissism episode

 

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We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley interview Dr. Gary Chapman, renowned author of 'The Five Love Languages' and other marriage-related books. On this episode we discuss practical insights from Chapman's new book, 'A Simple Guide for a Better Marriage.' Highlights include addressing common communication issues in marriage, the importance of humility, techniques for handling conflicts, and the role of apologies and forgiveness. Dr. Chapman shares his wisdom from 60 years of marriage, emphasizing the need for mutual respect, understanding each other's love languages, and consistently working on the relationship. The episode concludes with a celebration of Greg and Erin's 33rd wedding anniversary, highlighting their ongoing commitment to growing in love and supporting each other.
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<a href="https://store.focusonthefamily.com/a-simple-guide-for-a-better-marriage/?refcd=2300905">A Simple Guide For A Better Marriage</a>
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/sdhua1">Conversation Starters For Couples</a>
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/r7cafo" data-callout-id="edit_links_in_description">Here's a link to the Narcissism episode</a>
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Better Marriage - Better Life

What if you went to your girlfriend's father, asking for her hand in marriage, and he says "NO!" What would you do? On this episode of Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage, Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley dive into a heartfelt story involving Curt and Tanya Cramer, their daughter Abby, and her future husband, David. This conversation emphasizes the importance of patience, relational growth, and spiritual growth in order to handle the biblical requirements of a marriage. Greg and Erin also address a listener’s question about the biblical perspective on sex in marriage and share humorous marriage tweets.

 

Ready To Wed: 12 Ways To Start A Marriage You'll Love

 

12 Questions Every Father Should Ask His Future Son In Law

 

Support this Show!

 

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What if you went to your girlfriend's father, asking for her hand in marriage, and he says "NO!" What would you do? On this episode of Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage, Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley dive into a heartfelt story involving Curt and Tanya Cramer, their daughter Abby, and her future husband, David. This conversation emphasizes the importance of patience, relational growth, and spiritual growth in order to handle the biblical requirements of a marriage. Greg and Erin also address a listener&rsquo;s question about the biblical perspective on sex in marriage and share humorous marriage tweets.
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<a href="https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-crazy-little-thing-2025-06-09?refcd=2298502">Ready To Wed: 12 Ways To Start A Marriage You'll Love</a>
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/p466wk">12 Questions Every Father Should Ask His Future Son In Law</a>
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<a href="https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/24cltcm-donate-page?refcd=2298502">Support this Show!</a>
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/cltcm-voicemail">We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.</a>

Covenant Conditions: A Father's Challenge To A Future Son-In-Law

Personal anecdotes, including stories about resolving conflicts, handling crises, and supporting each other through tough times, illustrate the broader points of a strong marriagfe. The importance of empathy, communication, and long-term commitment is highlighted, as is the notion of using marriage as a means to grow more like Christ and to support one another in becoming the best versions of themselves.

 

The Healthy Marriage Devotional: 365 Daily Inspirations to Bring You Closer Together

 

If you'd like to talk with a Christian Counselor, call us at 1-800-A-FAMILY

 

Fight Your Way To A Better Marriage

 

Additional Premarital Resources

 

Support this Show!

 

We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.

Personal anecdotes, including stories about resolving conflicts, handling crises, and supporting each other through tough times, illustrate the broader points of a strong marriagfe. The importance of empathy, communication, and long-term commitment is highlighted, as is the notion of using marriage as a means to grow more like Christ and to support one another in becoming the best versions of themselves.
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<a href="https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-crazy-little-thing-2025-06-02?refcd=2293201">The Healthy Marriage Devotional: 365 Daily Inspirations to Bring You Closer Together</a>
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/xrxv45">If you'd like to talk with a Christian Counselor, call us at 1-800-A-FAMILY</a>
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/8e4fn5">Fight Your Way To A Better Marriage</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/uqts4q">Additional Premarital Resources</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/24cltcm-donate-page?refcd=2293201">Support this Show!</a>
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/cltcm-voicemail">We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.</a>

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