How can I encourage my single friend who desires marriage? What do I say (or not say) to my single friends? Today, Jennifer Hand and I talk about her journey as a forty-year-old single woman. We talk about all the assumptions we make around our friends who are single or in any other situations that are "different" from our cultural norms. "Look what you can do if you're single." "It's a good thing you're single so you can serve God." Jenn's heard all the cringe-worthy but well-meaning sentiments from friends within the church. In today's show, Jenn brings encouragement, real talk, and truth to these questions. If you're single, this will encourage you. If you want to know how to be a better friend to single women, this is a must-listen. This is part two of an episode on fear and faith featuring Jennifer Hand. Today we talk about What to Say to a Single Friend and More Including: 
How people have told Jenn to "delight herself in the Lord" so she can get married (and how that missed her heart!)
How there's no magic formula for marriage.
Is God good even when his plan or timing don't match mine?
How feeling and knowing we are loved helps us love others better.
We talk about fear of success and the pressure of that.
How fear paralyzes us but faith propels us.
What to do when you feel stuck in the "safe and sane"
What it means to give ourselves permission to dream.
What to do if you are in a long season of waiting and how to know God is working behind the scenes.
Tips for prayer and praying for what you desire in a theologically sound way.
How to combat the biggest underlying fear: that God will be good to us and we can trust him.
Listen to Heather on Jenn's podcast: Coming Alive here:  https://comingaliveministries.libsyn.com/with-heather-creekmore

Are we email friends yet? Join the 5 Day Body Image Freedom Email Challenge here: https://www.comparedtowho.me

Have you read Compared to Who? Check it out and start reading free, here:  https://comparedtowho.me/compared-to-who-book-for-christian-women-on-body-image/ Check out Heather’s coaching options: 

Ready for some extra support on your journey to body image freedom? Do you want to believe you are more than a body but still feel stuck?  Learn more here: https://comparedtowho.me/christian-body-image-coaching-insecurity-confidence-gospel/ Meet Jenn Hand 

Jenn has a Master’s Degree in professional counseling from Richmont University and although not in private practice, loves to apply the things she learned as she helps you come alive.

Jenn has been professionally speaking since 2004 and became the Executive Director and founder of Coming Alive Ministries in 2012.  She spent two life-changing years overseas in South Asia as a missionary and has traveled  to 22 countries to share the love of Jesus. Learn more about Jennifer Hand here: https://www.comingaliveministries.com Read Jenn Hand's brand new book, "My Yes is On the Table: Moving from Fear to Faith" on Amazon here.* (Amazon affiliate link.)

How can I encourage my single friend who desires marriage? What do I say (or not say) to my single friends? Today, Jennifer Hand and I talk about her journey as a forty-year-old single woman. We talk about all the assumptions we make around our friends who are single or in any other situations that are "different" from our cultural norms. "Look what you can do if you're single." "It's a good thing you're single so you can serve God." Jenn's heard all the cringe-worthy but well-meaning sentiments from friends within the church. In today's show, Jenn brings encouragement, real talk, and truth to these questions. If you're single, this will encourage you. If you want to know how to be a better friend to single women, this is a must-listen. This is part two of an episode on fear and faith featuring Jennifer Hand. Today we talk about What to Say to a Single Friend and More Including: <ul> <li>How people have told Jenn to "delight herself in the Lord" so she can get married (and how that missed her heart!)</li> <li>How there's no magic formula for marriage.</li> <li>Is God good even when his plan or timing don't match mine?</li> <li>How feeling and knowing we are loved helps us love others better.</li> <li>We talk about fear of success and the pressure of that.</li> <li>How fear paralyzes us but faith propels us.</li> <li>What to do when you feel stuck in the "safe and sane"</li> <li>What it means to give ourselves permission to dream.</li> <li>What to do if you are in a long season of waiting and how to know God is working behind the scenes.</li> <li>Tips for prayer and praying for what you desire in a theologically sound way.</li> <li>How to combat the biggest underlying fear: that God will be good to us and we can trust him.</li> <li>Listen to Heather on Jenn's podcast: Coming Alive here: <a href="https://comingaliveministries.libsyn.com/with-heather-creekmore"> https://comingaliveministries.libsyn.com/with-heather-creekmore</a></li> </ul> Are we email friends yet? Join the 5 <a href="https://comparedtowho.me/5-day-email-challenge/">Day Body Image Freedom Email Challenge</a> here: <a href="https://www.comparedtowho.me">https://www.comparedtowho.me</a> Have you read Compared to Who? Check it out and start reading free, here: <a href="https://comparedtowho.me/compared-to-who-book-for-christian-women-on-body-image/"> https://comparedtowho.me/compared-to-who-book-for-christian-women-on-body-image/</a> Check out Heather’s coaching options: Ready for some extra <a href="https://comparedtowho.me/support/">support</a> on your journey to <a href="https://comparedtowho.me/category/body-image-help/">body image</a> freedom? Do you want to believe you are more than a body but still feel stuck?  Learn more here: <a href="https://comparedtowho.me/christian-body-image-coaching-insecurity-confidence-gospel/">https://comparedtowho.me/christian-body-image-coaching-insecurity-confidence-gospel/</a> Meet Jenn Hand Jenn has a Master’s Degree in professional counseling from Richmont University and although not in private practice, loves to apply the things she learned as she helps you come alive. Jenn has been professionally speaking since 2004 and became the Executive Director and founder of <a href="https://www.comingaliveministries.com/about/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Coming Alive Ministries</a> in 2012.  She spent two life-changing years overseas in South Asia as a missionary and has traveled  to 22 countries to share the love of Jesus. Learn more about Jennifer Hand here: <a href="https://www.comingaliveministries.com">https://www.comingaliveministries.com</a> Read Jenn Hand's brand new book, <a href="https://amzn.to/3xa1e2n">"My Yes is On the Table: Moving from Fear to Faith" on Amazon here.</a>* (Amazon affiliate link.)

**The Go-to Podcast for Christian women who want to improve their body image and stop comparing themselves to others!**
Are you a Christian woman who is tired of the same old answers to your body image and comparison struggles? 
Have you "tried everything," yet still feel like your body isn't enough or should be better? 
Do you know that "God looks at the heart" or "You're fearfully and wonderfully made" yet STILL feel like maybe God should have made your body better?
Bonus: Have you ever prayed for God to zap you skinny? ;) (Your secret is safe here.)

If you answered yes to any of the above, then Compared to Who? A Biblical Approach to Body Image Issues is the show for you!

Twice a week, we tackle tough topics like feeling out of control with food, body shame, disordered eating, weight loss, aging, dieting, body dysmorphia, body hatred, and more from a practical, grace-filled, biblical, and gospel-centered perspective.

I'm Heather Creekmore, author of several books (including a forthcoming body image workbook), speaker, and Christian body image coach. Our approach to body image issues is relatable, authentic, and truth-driven. We hope every episode is filled with grace and hope for your personal struggle. I spent decades battling the scale and the mirror. But, now I help women get free from body image issues so they can stop comparing and start living. Listen to laugh about all the common ways we struggle and find encouragement for our journey.

Find out more about Heather Creekmore and the ministry of Compared to Who? or to get Christian body image coaching, visit: https://www.comparedtowho.me

Want to join our podcast community on Facebook? Visit the group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/764271297116024

**The Go-to Podcast for Christian women who want to improve their body image and stop comparing themselves to others!**
<ul>
<li>Are you a Christian woman who is tired of the same old answers to your body image and comparison struggles? </li>
<li>Have you "tried everything," yet still feel like your body isn't enough or should be better? </li>
<li>Do you know that "God looks at the heart" or "You're fearfully and wonderfully made" yet STILL feel like maybe God should have made your body better?</li>
<li>Bonus: Have you ever prayed for God to zap you skinny? ;) (Your secret is safe here.)</li>
</ul>
If you answered yes to any of the above, then Compared to Who? A Biblical Approach to Body Image Issues is the show for you!
Twice a week, we tackle tough topics like feeling out of control with food, body shame, disordered eating, weight loss, aging, dieting, body dysmorphia, body hatred, and more from a practical, grace-filled, biblical, and gospel-centered perspective.
I'm Heather Creekmore, author of several books (including a forthcoming body image workbook), speaker, and Christian body image coach. Our approach to body image issues is relatable, authentic, and truth-driven. We hope every episode is filled with grace and hope for your personal struggle. I spent decades battling the scale and the mirror. But, now I help women get free from body image issues so they can stop comparing and start living. Listen to laugh about all the common ways we struggle and find encouragement for our journey.
Find out more about Heather Creekmore and the ministry of Compared to Who? or to get Christian body image coaching, visit: <a href="https://www.comparedtowho.me">https://www.comparedtowho.me</a> 
Want to join our podcast community on Facebook? Visit the group here: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/764271297116024">https://www.facebook.com/groups/764271297116024</a>

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