TREVOR on Facebook writes: I have always loved my wife’s long brown hair, but last week, she decided to cut it all off without telling me AND dye it bright red...I was shocked. She came home from getting it cut and asked me if I liked it, she was super excited about it but I just can't see how she can go from one extreme to the next for the first time ever...anyway, I lied and told her I that I like it. But I really don’t and honestly, it's kind of jarring. 

I actually hate it and think it makes her look less attractive and like a completely different person. It's such a drastic change - how can I tell her now that I preferred her hair long and that I don’t like her new look? 

Oh and by the way, she always used to joke that if I shaved my beard off...she would leave me!