In this episode, Christina engages in a thought-provoking conversation with behaviour specialist Andy Baker. They explore the complexities of behaviour management, particularly in the context of neurodiversity, and how understanding behaviour as a form of communication can transform interactions in both personal and professional settings. Andy shares his extensive experience in the health and social care sector, emphasizing the importance of empathy and the need to approach behaviour with curiosity rather than judgment.



KEY TAKEAWAYS


All Behavior is Communication: It is crucial to understand that behaviour, whether it's a child acting out or an adult struggling, is a form of communication.


Be a Detective, Not a Judge: Instead of jumping to conclusions about someone's behaviour, it's important to investigate the reasons behind it.


The Importance of Self-Esteem: Many individuals, especially those who are neurodivergent, may struggle with self-esteem due to repeated negative feedback about their behaviour.


Understanding Neurodiversity: Neurodivergent individuals, such as those with ADHD, may process information and respond to situations differently.


Flexibility in Expectations: It's vital to adjust expectations based on an individual's developmental level rather than their chronological age.



BEST MOMENTS

"The general premise is that all behavior is communication. I'm telling you something; I may not like the language you're using, but I'm communicating that at least I'm not happy."

"Your response is your responsibility, right? Because we're the adults in that situation."

"If I look at something like ADHD, one of the analogies I love for understanding attentiveness is like the bingo machine analogy. Some individuals with ADHD, their brain is like a bingo machine."

"It's almost like I hate it when people say everyone's on the spectrum. I hate when people use the spectrum as an excuse."

"If a kid doesn't know how to behave, then we should teach them. But there's still a philosophy there of sometimes punish them."



VALUABLE RESOURCES

Christina Talks Podcast

https://www.green-umbrella.biz/how-to-launch-anything-using-social-media/

ABOUT THE HOST

Christina has been working with SME’s since 2013 to launch, develop and perfect their online presence. In 2019 Christina made the move from employee to business owner of a successful digital marketing agency focused on educating business owners in the use of social media. Christina is driven by the fact that in today’s world, it doesn’t matter how big or small your marketing budget is, you can be a major player. For small businesses, the tools are just as accessible – you just need to know how to use them!

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All Behavior is Communication: It is crucial to understand that behaviour, whether it's a child acting out or an adult struggling, is a form of communication.
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Be a Detective, Not a Judge: Instead of jumping to conclusions about someone's behaviour, it's important to investigate the reasons behind it.
</li>
<li>
The Importance of Self-Esteem: Many individuals, especially those who are neurodivergent, may struggle with self-esteem due to repeated negative feedback about their behaviour.
</li>
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Understanding Neurodiversity: Neurodivergent individuals, such as those with ADHD, may process information and respond to situations differently.
</li>
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Flexibility in Expectations: It's vital to adjust expectations based on an individual's developmental level rather than their chronological age.
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</ul>
 
BEST MOMENTS
"The general premise is that all behavior is communication. I'm telling you something; I may not like the language you're using, but I'm communicating that at least I'm not happy."
"Your response is your responsibility, right? Because we're the adults in that situation."
"If I look at something like ADHD, one of the analogies I love for understanding attentiveness is like the bingo machine analogy. Some individuals with ADHD, their brain is like a bingo machine."
"It's almost like I hate it when people say everyone's on the spectrum. I hate when people use the spectrum as an excuse."
"If a kid doesn't know how to behave, then we should teach them. But there's still a philosophy there of sometimes punish them."
 
VALUABLE RESOURCES
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/christina-talks-podcast/id1525685307">Christina Talks Podcast</a>
<a href="https://www.green-umbrella.biz/how-to-launch-anything-using-social-media/">https://www.green-umbrella.biz/how-to-launch-anything-using-social-media/</a>
ABOUT THE HOST
Christina has been working with SME’s since 2013 to launch, develop and perfect their online presence. In 2019 Christina made the move from employee to business owner of a successful digital marketing agency focused on educating business owners in the use of social media. Christina is driven by the fact that in today’s world, it doesn’t matter how big or small your marketing budget is, you can be a major player. For small businesses, the tools are just as accessible – you just need to know how to use them!
<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/christinarobinson2/?originalSubdomain=uk">LinkedIn</a>
<a href="https://twitter.com/christinamc80?lang=en-gb">Twitter</a>
<a href="https://www.green-umbrella.biz/">Website</a>

Who knew being a business owner would be so lonely? It’s not all glitz and glamour - there are hard lessons to learn and a shift in mindset that no one can prepare you for…

Or can they???

Christina has met some truly engaging entrepreneurs who have amazing stories to share, people in business who have inspired her and people who she is simply in awe of.

Moving from being a nobody to a business owner and entering the world of Entrepreneurship, these people have offered Christina their time, inspired her with their enthusiasm and gave her the courage to do more, be more and continue to grow.

This is a podcast for growth-focused business owners with an interest in marketing trends. Christina will talk Marketing of course, but this podcast promises to cover so much more.

“Digital Marketing is my subject of choice, I always say I help business owners who lack the time, enthusiasm or courage to make online marketing work for their businesses. I word things that way for a reason!”

Who knew being a business owner would be so lonely? It&rsquo;s not all glitz and glamour - there are hard lessons to learn and a shift in mindset that no one can prepare you for&hellip;
Or can they???
Christina has met some truly engaging entrepreneurs who have amazing stories to share, people in business who have inspired her and people who she is simply in awe of.
Moving from being a nobody to a business owner and entering the world of Entrepreneurship, these people have offered Christina their time, inspired her with their enthusiasm and gave her the courage to do more, be more and continue to grow.
This is a podcast for growth-focused business owners with an interest in marketing trends. Christina will talk Marketing of course, but this podcast promises to cover so much more.
&ldquo;Digital Marketing is my subject of choice, I always say I help business owners who lack the time, enthusiasm or courage to make online marketing work for their businesses. I word things that way for a reason!&rdquo;

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