In a world that is openly hostile to masculinity, does our faith offer a remedy? And what do we as Christian parents need to teach our sons and daughters?

Consider these shocking examples of male-bashing in our culture:



*The Washington Post article by gender studies professor “Why Can’t We Hate Men?”

*The New Stateman featured a British feminist writing, “ You can’t live with them. You can’t shoot them.”

*Trendy hashtag #killallmen

*T-shirts emblazoned with “So many men. So Little Ammunition.”

*Books titled: I Hate Men, The End of Men, and Are Men Necessary?

*A USA Today article states: “At today’s universities, masculinity is almost never discussed except in negative terms, usually with the word ‘toxic’ attached.

*John Stoltenberg, author of Refusing to Be a Man says, “Talking about ‘healthy masculinity’ is like talking about ‘healthy cancer.’”

*Hugh Howey tweeted, “Testosterone is the problem… Women should be in charge of everything.”

*Testosterone is “a toxin that you have to slowly work out of your system,” said James Cameron, director of the movie 

*Media researcher, Jim Macnamara, conducted extensive content analysis of more than 2000 mass media portrayals of men (including news, feature articles, talk shows, etc.) found that more than 75% of all media representations of men portrayed them as “villains, aggressors, perverts, and philanderers.”

As parents, we are raising our boys in a toxic stew misandry (hatred, contempt, or prejudice against men or boys), and we should be concerned.

Catherine’s guest in this episode, Nancy Pearcey, has written the quintessential book defining the problem when it comes to masculinity in our culture, and she offers the only viable solution. The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexeswalks us through this intricate and critical conversation.

Nancy's personal journey from victimization with an abusive father, to agnosticism and radical feminism, to affirming biblical masculinity gives her a unique perspective on this contentious subject. Nancy unpacks the real roots of so-called "toxic masculinity" and discusses why understanding this topic is pivotal for Christian families today.

Nancy’s Bio: Nancy Pearcey's latest book is The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes. Her earlier books include Love Thy Body: Answering Hard Questions about Life and Sexuality, The Soul of Science, Saving Leonardo, Finding Truth, and two ECPA Gold Medallion Award Winners:How Now Shall We Live (coauthored with Harold Fickett and Chuck Colson) and Total Truth. Her books have been translated into 20 languages. She is professor and scholar in residence at Houston Christian University. A former agnostic, Pearcey has spoken at universities such as Princeton, Stanford, USC, and Dartmouth. She has been quoted in The New Yorker and Newsweek, highlighted as one of the five top women apologists by Christianity Today, and hailed in The Economist as "America's pre-eminent evangelical Protestant female intellectual."

Nancy Pearcey’s Website

To see full episode highlights, click HERE.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

Origins of Toxic Masculinity: Misconceptions abound about toxic masculinity and its origins. Nancy dismantled the myth that it started with 1960s feminism, explaining its roots in the post-Industrial Revolution era. She explores how men, distanced from home-based work, lost their nurturing roles, which led to more egocentric and aggressive behaviors.

Cultural Hostility Towards Masculinity: The episode delves into societal attitudes, giving examples like misandric merchandise and high-profile statements against men. A shocking survey reveals that a significant percentage of men feel victimized by society's hostility towards typical male behavior.

Positive Masculinity Scripts: Nancy emphasizes the importance of promoting the 'Good Man' script—values of honor, duty, integrity, and responsibility—over the toxic stereotypes often portrayed in media and culture. Encouraging men to recognize their innate capacity for good can be more effective than labeling them toxic.

Pandemic's Impact on Fatherhood: The discussion touches on how the COVID-19 pandemic brought men closer to their families. Nancy shares compelling personal experiences and data showing men’s desire for more flexible work arrangements post-pandemic to stay connected with their children and homes.

Balancing Career and Family: Highlighting the historical perspective, Catherine and Nancy discuss how modern families are finding ways to intertwine economic activities with family life, much like the pre-industrial era. They share inspirational anecdotes of men balancing work and family commitments creatively.

Join Catherine and Nancy as they navigate the contentious and critical topic of masculinity, offering hope, clarity, and actionable insights for Christian parents in today’s chaotic world.

In a world that is openly hostile to masculinity, does our faith offer a remedy? And what do we as Christian parents need to teach our sons and daughters?
Consider these shocking examples of male-bashing in our culture:
 
*The Washington Post article by gender studies professor “<a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/why-cant-we-hate-men/2018/06/08/f1a3a8e0-6451-11e8-a69c-b944de66d9e7_story.html">Why Can’t We Hate Men?</a>”
*The New Stateman featured a <a href="https://www.newstatesman.com/politics/2016/09/suzanne-moore-why-i-was-wrong-about-men">British feminist writing</a>, “ You can’t live with them. You can’t shoot them.”
*Trendy hashtag <a href="https://gettingitstrait.com/issues/issue-7/killallmen-empowering-or-tyrannical/">#killallmen</a>
*T-shirts emblazoned with “So many men. So Little Ammunition.”
*Books titled: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/s?k=i+hate+men+book&amp;hvadid=695427543301&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvexpln=67&amp;hvlocphy=9012522&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvocijid=11809647272878889953--&amp;hvqmt=e&amp;hvrand=11809647272878889953&amp;hvtargid=kwd-603560262448&amp;hydadcr=22193_13517551&amp;tag=googhydr-20&amp;ref=pd_sl_9l29rhw2ao_e_p67">I Hate Men</a>, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/End-Men-Christina-Sweeney-Baird/dp/0593328132/ref=sr_1_4?crid=10CA0U0ETT72R&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.oMEeqfTvXmR2NdHNC-yE0XnzNMY8pr1-7NrEDQravrPSCtR2KllOy6cFqKQzM0FPFUtK2ZDYU0dDNVF0UOGr0DUyR8IPj3YsLlNz1lcjYgAWWhDld5XShdNu7T2pqeLazmITUpC2PGto5Vs-VOBNRj-gZDbWLtU7EsUZTux-RgqmPY6Tu6sVD-7_E4lw4VOE7vF9msfMfH-kaJwwRZ-buY3nXb_PGJGBdOPmoTTZJZA.GeewY2bqnPQcz0XgpvnfP6uO4PD_ygSZ4Q6RrCt0g0I&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=The+End+of+Men&amp;qid=1728770080&amp;sprefix=the+end+of+men%2Caps%2C134&amp;sr=8-4">The End of Men</a>, and <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Are-Men-Necessary-Maureen-Dowd-audiobook/dp/B000CC3MG0/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2NHX6167D4ZSI&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.C9AkyLBbeI7jnyY4tpEqOVtTlwBvfu4tLpcn6YtJfHHTFFIbHnv7H6bUgVBoFGik8mNSkANUQQeuiJB1VfHCnAbhMk39b5SXvDd-9ULs1J0ZW4wtNocIDEbyjU17OKgM7ctNPa5uUvcdLsKFO_pzdYilGUBDDukWhdl5PHGgFYidPrukjfiPIMB27gcdaWhOpmrAzYJkbEdp7VzPiSnYOTbyAVwLl7H893AdA1lNloU.j62rZgIrtIu6gptko5ZEzbHHVl6zob65YYW9y-lD0R8&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=Are+Men+Necessary&amp;qid=1728770386&amp;sprefix=are+men+necessary%2Caps%2C130&amp;sr=8-1">Are Men Necessary?</a>
*A <a href="https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/2019/02/12/colleges-universities-discriminate-men-title-ix-complaints-toxic-masculinity-column/2831834002/">USA Today article states</a>: “At today’s universities, masculinity is almost never discussed except in negative terms, usually with the word ‘toxic’ attached.
*John Stoltenberg, author of Refusing to Be a Man says, “<a href="https://www.feministcurrent.com/2013/08/09/why-talking-about-healthy-masculinity-is-like-talking-about-healthy-cancer/">Talking about ‘healthy masculinity’ is like talking about ‘healthy cancer.’</a>”
*Hugh Howey tweeted, “Testosterone is the problem… Women should be in charge of everything.”
*Testosterone is “a toxin that you have to slowly work out of your system,” <a href="https://www.facebook.com/forbes/posts/cameron-said-i-always-think-of-testosterone-as-a-toxin-that-you-have-to-slowly-w/10160755168447509/">said James Cameron</a>, director of the movie 
*Media researcher, Jim Macnamara, conducted extensive content analysis of more than 2000 mass media portrayals of men (including news, feature articles, talk shows, etc.) found that more than 75% of all media representations of men portrayed them as “villains, aggressors, perverts, and philanderers.”
As parents, we are raising our boys in a toxic stew misandry (hatred, contempt, or prejudice against men or boys), and we should be concerned.
Catherine’s guest in this episode, Nancy Pearcey, has written the quintessential book defining the problem when it comes to masculinity in our culture, and she offers the only viable solution. <a href="https://www.nancypearcey.com/the-toxic-war-on-masculinity.html">The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes</a> walks us through this intricate and critical conversation.
Nancy's personal journey from victimization with an abusive father, to agnosticism and radical feminism, to affirming biblical masculinity gives her a unique perspective on this contentious subject. Nancy unpacks the real roots of so-called "toxic masculinity" and discusses why understanding this topic is pivotal for Christian families today.
Nancy’s Bio: Nancy Pearcey's latest book is <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Toxic-War-Masculinity-Christianity-Reconciles/dp/0801075734">The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes</a>. Her earlier books include <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Love-Thy-Body-Answering-Questions/dp/0801075726">Love Thy Body: Answering Hard Questions about Life and Sexuality</a>, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Soul-Science-Christian-Natural-Philosophy/dp/0891077669">The Soul of Science</a>, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Saving-Leonardo-Secular-Assault-Meaning/dp/1433669277">Saving Leonardo</a>, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Truth-Principles-Secularism-Substitutes/dp/0781413087">Finding Truth</a>, and two ECPA Gold Medallion Award Winners: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/How-Now-Shall-We-Live/dp/084235588X">How Now Shall We Live</a> (coauthored with Harold Fickett and Chuck Colson) and <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Total-Truth-Study-Guide-Christianity/dp/1433502208">Total Truth</a>. Her books have been translated into 20 languages. She is professor and scholar in residence at Houston Christian University. A former agnostic, Pearcey has spoken at universities such as Princeton, Stanford, USC, and Dartmouth. She has been quoted in The New Yorker and Newsweek, highlighted as one of the five top women apologists by Christianity Today, and hailed in The Economist as "America's pre-eminent evangelical Protestant female intellectual."
Nancy Pearcey’s <a href="https://www.nancypearcey.com/">Website</a>
To see full episode highlights, click <a href="https://catherinesegars.com/2024/10/15/why-does-our-culture-hate-men/">HERE</a>.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
Origins of Toxic Masculinity: Misconceptions abound about toxic masculinity and its origins. Nancy dismantled the myth that it started with 1960s feminism, explaining its roots in the post-Industrial Revolution era. She explores how men, distanced from home-based work, lost their nurturing roles, which led to more egocentric and aggressive behaviors.
Cultural Hostility Towards Masculinity: The episode delves into societal attitudes, giving examples like misandric merchandise and high-profile statements against men. A shocking survey reveals that a significant percentage of men feel victimized by society's hostility towards typical male behavior.
Positive Masculinity Scripts: Nancy emphasizes the importance of promoting the 'Good Man' script—values of honor, duty, integrity, and responsibility—over the toxic stereotypes often portrayed in media and culture. Encouraging men to recognize their innate capacity for good can be more effective than labeling them toxic.
Pandemic's Impact on Fatherhood: The discussion touches on how the COVID-19 pandemic brought men closer to their families. Nancy shares compelling personal experiences and data showing men’s desire for more flexible work arrangements post-pandemic to stay connected with their children and homes.
Balancing Career and Family: Highlighting the historical perspective, Catherine and Nancy discuss how modern families are finding ways to intertwine economic activities with family life, much like the pre-industrial era. They share inspirational anecdotes of men balancing work and family commitments creatively.
Join Catherine and Nancy as they navigate the contentious and critical topic of masculinity, offering hope, clarity, and actionable insights for Christian parents in today’s chaotic world.

The Christian Parent, Crazy World podcast with Catherine Segars is dedicated to helping you be a godly parent in an ungodly world. Catherine is an expert in Christian Apologetics for parents and every episode helps moms and dads understand what is going on in our current culture and how Christians can and should respond.

Topics covered on this podcast include:
What to Do If Your Child Walks Away from the Faith
Can Our Words Change the Future?
Why Are So Many Kids Falling Away from The Faith?
13 Ways To Be a Better Parent This Year
5 Things Every Parent Needs to Know About Gen Z
What Critical Foundation Do Many Parents Miss When Discipling Their Kids?
How To Teach Your Kids the Christian Worldview 
Hope and Strategy for Parents of Prodigal Children

Want to read some of Catherine's most popular Christian parenting articles? Check them out here: https://www.crosswalk.com/author/catherine-segars/

The Christian Parent, Crazy World podcast with Catherine Segars is dedicated to helping you be a godly parent in an ungodly world. Catherine is an expert in Christian Apologetics for parents and every episode helps moms and dads understand what is going on in our current culture and how Christians can and should respond.
Topics covered on this podcast include:
<ul>
<li>What to Do If Your Child Walks Away from the Faith</li>
<li>Can Our Words Change the Future?</li>
<li>Why Are So Many Kids Falling Away from The Faith?</li>
<li>13 Ways To Be a Better Parent This Year</li>
<li>5 Things Every Parent Needs to Know About Gen Z</li>
<li>What Critical Foundation Do Many Parents Miss When Discipling Their Kids?</li>
<li>How To Teach Your Kids the Christian Worldview </li>
<li>Hope and Strategy for Parents of Prodigal Children</li>
</ul>
Want to read some of Catherine's most popular Christian parenting articles? Check them out here: https://www.crosswalk.com/author/catherine-segars/

Christian Parent, Crazy World is a podcast dedicated to helping you be a godly parent in an ungodly world.

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