Who Gets to Define the Next Generation? Gen Z Finds Its Voice—and Its Anchor—in Christ

Is Gen Z lost in the noise of culture, media, and politics—or are they quietly forging a radical new path of faith? In this powerful episode, Catherine sits down with high school senior and gifted poet Charis Shoemaker to explore how today’s young Christians are wrestling with identity, truth, and calling in an ever-fractured world. If you wonder what the next generation truly believes, and how Christian parents can encourage their kids to pursue God in the midst of cultural chaos, this is an episode you cannot afford to miss.

About Our Guest:
Charis Shoemaker is no ordinary teenager. A state award-winning actress, an eloquent poet, and—most importantly—a passionate follower of Christ, she represents a new wave of young believers speaking up for authentic faith. Charis’ original poem, “They Say,” recently brought a packed house to their feet at her homeschool graduation, voicing the hopes and struggles of a generation determined to follow Christ—no matter the cost.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:


Gen Z Under the Microscope
Listen as Charis shares firsthand what it’s like to grow up constantly defined—often unfairly—by societal labels, politics, and the relentless barrage of social media. In an era of fractured opinions, what do young people really hear about who or what they’re supposed to be?


The Power of Godly Influence
Charis opens up about her own journey, including profound family challenges and the steady faith of her mother, a night-shift nurse who made time for Scripture and prayer no matter how hard life got. Her story testifies to the quiet resilience that shapes faith behind the scenes.


A Poetic Anthem for Gen Z
Hear Charis' captivating poem, “They Say,” in full. Her words challenge generational stereotypes and culture’s attempts to define identity—while serving as an anthem for those who choose to be defined not by people, but by the voice of God.

“If my life is to revolve around opinions, I would much rather they come from a God who is preeminent than a people who are insignificant... I would much rather they be words spoken by the Word who became flesh for me.” – Charis Shoemaker, 19:15


Dealing with Church Hurt and Pain
Charis recounts personal battles—including abuse and disappointment with the Church—and how those wounds could have derailed her faith. Yet, she found hope, healing, and her truest identity in Jesus. Parents will find wisdom here for helping kids process pain with grace rather than anger or withdrawal.


Who Gets to Define Us?
The conversation zeroes in on the theme of authority, urging listeners to ask tough questions: Is our identity determined by culture, by the Church, by ourselves—or solely by God, the Creator who names us and calls us His own?


Hope Rising in Gen Z
Contrary to stereotypes, Charis reveals that a growing number of her peers are returning to church and hungry for real, unfiltered truth. She challenges parents not to underestimate Gen Z's capacity—and desire—for deep faith, and encourages both generations to risk bold, loving conversations about what matters most.

“There’s a generation coming up after you that wants truth…Be there for us. Give us that thing to hold on to.” – Charis Shoemaker, 53:38

Why This Matters:
In a season when so much is said about the failures and fears of the next generation, this episode highlights a surprising undercurrent: Gen Z isn’t just walking away—they’re wrestling, seeking, and often returning to the God who defines them. Catherine and Charis Shoemaker’s honest exchange offers hope to every parent praying for their child’s faith journey.

Memorable Moments:


The story of Charis Shoemaker's friend whose final words were simply, “Trust Jesus”—a moving reminder of the enduring legacy of authentic faith (35:33).


An inspiring encounter with a peer who worships “mother earth” and how open conversation sows seeds of truth and friendship (52:53).


The recognition that every generation faces labels, but the only voice that matters is God’s.

Modern Application:
Christian parents, take heart! The next generation is listening, watching, and longing for truth—especially from you. Your example, prayers, and honest conversations matter more than ever. As you foster their search for identity, remember: God alone must anchor our children in a world desperate to define them.

Call to Action:
How are you helping your children—or the young people in your life—listen to God’s voice above all others? This week, try having an open conversation about identity and faith at home. Share your own story, and invite them to share theirs—uncut, unfiltered, and real.

Resources Mentioned:


“Gay Girl, Good God” by Jackie Hill Perry


The Narrow Road (song by Reagan James Boone)

Let us know: How are you equipping your family to anchor their identity in Christ, not in what “they say”? Share your thoughts and experiences with us on social media, or email your parenting questions for future episodes!

Who Gets to Define the Next Generation? Gen Z Finds Its Voice&mdash;and Its Anchor&mdash;in Christ
Is Gen Z lost in the noise of culture, media, and politics&mdash;or are they quietly forging a radical new path of faith? In this powerful episode, Catherine sits down with high school senior and gifted poet Charis Shoemaker to explore how today&rsquo;s young Christians are wrestling with identity, truth, and calling in an ever-fractured world. If you wonder what the next generation truly believes, and how Christian parents can encourage their kids to pursue God in the midst of cultural chaos, this is an episode you cannot afford to miss.
About Our Guest: Charis Shoemaker is no ordinary teenager. A state award-winning actress, an eloquent poet, and&mdash;most importantly&mdash;a passionate follower of Christ, she represents a new wave of young believers speaking up for authentic faith. Charis&rsquo; original poem, &ldquo;They Say,&rdquo; recently brought a packed house to their feet at her homeschool graduation, voicing the hopes and struggles of a generation determined to follow Christ&mdash;no matter the cost.
What You&rsquo;ll Discover in This Episode:
<ul>
<li>
Gen Z Under the Microscope Listen as Charis shares firsthand what it&rsquo;s like to grow up constantly defined&mdash;often unfairly&mdash;by societal labels, politics, and the relentless barrage of social media. In an era of fractured opinions, what do young people really hear about who or what they&rsquo;re supposed to be?
</li>
<li>
The Power of Godly Influence Charis opens up about her own journey, including profound family challenges and the steady faith of her mother, a night-shift nurse who made time for Scripture and prayer no matter how hard life got. Her story testifies to the quiet resilience that shapes faith behind the scenes.
</li>
<li>
A Poetic Anthem for Gen Z Hear Charis' captivating poem, &ldquo;They Say,&rdquo; in full. Her words challenge generational stereotypes and culture&rsquo;s attempts to define identity&mdash;while serving as an anthem for those who choose to be defined not by people, but by the voice of God.
<blockquote>
&ldquo;If my life is to revolve around opinions, I would much rather they come from a God who is preeminent than a people who are insignificant... I would much rather they be words spoken by the Word who became flesh for me.&rdquo; &ndash; Charis Shoemaker, 19:15
</blockquote>
</li>
<li>
Dealing with Church Hurt and Pain Charis recounts personal battles&mdash;including abuse and disappointment with the Church&mdash;and how those wounds could have derailed her faith. Yet, she found hope, healing, and her truest identity in Jesus. Parents will find wisdom here for helping kids process pain with grace rather than anger or withdrawal.
</li>
<li>
Who Gets to Define Us? The conversation zeroes in on the theme of authority, urging listeners to ask tough questions: Is our identity determined by culture, by the Church, by ourselves&mdash;or solely by God, the Creator who names us and calls us His own?
</li>
<li>
Hope Rising in Gen Z Contrary to stereotypes, Charis reveals that a growing number of her peers are returning to church and hungry for real, unfiltered truth. She challenges parents not to underestimate Gen Z's capacity&mdash;and desire&mdash;for deep faith, and encourages both generations to risk bold, loving conversations about what matters most.
<blockquote>
&ldquo;There&rsquo;s a generation coming up after you that wants truth&hellip;Be there for us. Give us that thing to hold on to.&rdquo; &ndash; Charis Shoemaker, 53:38
</blockquote>
</li>
</ul>
Why This Matters: In a season when so much is said about the failures and fears of the next generation, this episode highlights a surprising undercurrent: Gen Z isn&rsquo;t just walking away&mdash;they&rsquo;re wrestling, seeking, and often returning to the God who defines them. Catherine and Charis Shoemaker&rsquo;s honest exchange offers hope to every parent praying for their child&rsquo;s faith journey.
Memorable Moments:
<ul>
<li>
The story of Charis Shoemaker's friend whose final words were simply, &ldquo;Trust Jesus&rdquo;&mdash;a moving reminder of the enduring legacy of authentic faith (35:33).
</li>
<li>
An inspiring encounter with a peer who worships &ldquo;mother earth&rdquo; and how open conversation sows seeds of truth and friendship (52:53).
</li>
<li>
The recognition that every generation faces labels, but the only voice that matters is God&rsquo;s.
</li>
</ul>
Modern Application: Christian parents, take heart! The next generation is listening, watching, and longing for truth&mdash;especially from you. Your example, prayers, and honest conversations matter more than ever. As you foster their search for identity, remember: God alone must anchor our children in a world desperate to define them.
Call to Action: How are you helping your children&mdash;or the young people in your life&mdash;listen to God&rsquo;s voice above all others? This week, try having an open conversation about identity and faith at home. Share your own story, and invite them to share theirs&mdash;uncut, unfiltered, and real.
Resources Mentioned:
<ul>
<li>
&ldquo;Gay Girl, Good God&rdquo; by Jackie Hill Perry
</li>
<li>
The Narrow Road (song by Reagan James Boone)
</li>
</ul>
Let us know: How are you equipping your family to anchor their identity in Christ, not in what &ldquo;they say&rdquo;? Share your thoughts and experiences with us on social media, or email your parenting questions for future episodes!

The Christian Parent, Crazy World podcast with Catherine Segars equips moms and dads to be godly parents in a world that often opposes their faith. As a passionate apologist and seasoned communicator, Catherine unpacks the tough cultural issues facing families today, offering insightful, biblically grounded guidance. Each episode helps parents understand the challenges of our times and respond with wisdom, confidence, and grace.

Topics covered on this podcast include:
What to Do If Your Child Walks Away from the Faith
Can Our Words Change the Future?
Why Are So Many Kids Falling Away from The Faith?
13 Ways To Be a Better Parent This Year
5 Things Every Parent Needs to Know About Gen Z
What Critical Foundation Do Many Parents Miss When Discipling Their Kids?
How To Teach Your Kids the Christian Worldview 
Hope and Strategy for Parents of Prodigal Children

Want to read some of Catherine's most popular Christian parenting articles? Check them out here: https://www.crosswalk.com/author/catherine-segars/

The Christian Parent, Crazy World&nbsp;podcast with Catherine Segars equips moms and dads to be godly parents in a world that often opposes their faith. As a passionate apologist and seasoned communicator, Catherine unpacks the tough cultural issues facing families today, offering insightful, biblically grounded guidance. Each episode helps parents understand the challenges of our times and respond with wisdom, confidence, and grace.
Topics covered on this podcast include:
<ul>
<li>What to Do If Your Child Walks Away from the Faith</li>
<li>Can Our Words Change the Future?</li>
<li>Why Are So Many Kids Falling Away from The Faith?</li>
<li>13 Ways To Be a Better Parent This Year</li>
<li>5 Things Every Parent Needs to Know About Gen Z</li>
<li>What Critical Foundation Do Many Parents Miss When Discipling Their Kids?</li>
<li>How To Teach Your Kids the Christian Worldview&nbsp;</li>
<li>Hope and Strategy for Parents of Prodigal Children</li>
</ul>
Want to read some of Catherine's most popular Christian parenting articles? Check them out here: https://www.crosswalk.com/author/catherine-segars/

Christian Parent, Crazy World is a podcast dedicated to helping you be a godly parent in an ungodly world.

Christian Parent, Crazy World

Christian Parent Crazy World

Handing Gen Z the Mic: A Graduate Defined by Christ, Not Culture (w/ Charis Shoemaker) - Ep. 187

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