What if your family had a mission as clear as any thriving organization? Without intentionality, families don’t drift toward health—they drift toward chaos. In a world pulling parents in a thousand directions, many Christian families find themselves simply reacting, drifting instead of living with God-given purpose. In this must-listen episode of Christian Parent/Crazy World, host Catherine sits down with Derek England, Executive Director of Family ID—a ministry with over 25 years of experience equipping parents to build intentional, value-driven homes.

Why This Episode Matters:
Every family drifts—unless you set your direction on purpose. Few of us stop to ask, “Why has God brought our unique family together?” or, “How do we intentionally pass on our core values?” Catherine and Derek England shine a spotlight on the practical and biblical tools that can transform your family from surviving to thriving.

Guest Highlight:
Derek England is not only leading Family ID but has personally experienced how clarifying family identity can radically alter the trajectory of a home. His heart is for every family—from toddlers to teens—to discover their God-given calling together.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode

Why Family Culture Matters


Catherine reminds us that “families don’t drift toward health—they drift toward chaos.” The foundational strength of your family is the most important ministry, eclipsing even your career and outside achievements.

Intentionality Over Drift


Derek England explains how, after years of approaching work with strategy and goals but “taking family one day at a time,” he and his wife attended a Family ID workshop and immediately knew they’d found what was missing. “Once you think it, you can't unthink it.”

Your Family’s God-Given Uniqueness


Not every family is called to the same mission. Discover the importance of answering the question: “Who are we?” Hear how Family ID helps thousands of families articulate their unique identity, purpose, and direction—with tools that actually shape daily life.

The 16 Family Types


Using research and decades of experience, Family ID has identified 16 different family cultures—from “harmonious” (like the elephant: connected and relational) to “focused” (passionate, intentional, persistent). Find out how an online, totally free assessment can help you discover yours.

Living Out Core Values


Hear how Derek England’s family intentionally chooses and lives by five core values such as “radically protective of quality time” and “unwavering integrity.”


Learn why having just a handful of clearly-stated values provides a shared language and an anchor for decision-making—even for young kids.

Practical Tools You Can Use Today


Family ID offers bite-sized videos and workbooks to walk you through creating your own family identity, mission, and values—accessible online, easy to do in short sittings, and free from cost barriers.


The Family ID process includes resources to ensure every voice—including your kids’—is heard as you clarify and celebrate your unique family strengths.

Notable Quotes & Moments


“When you know who you are, you’ll know what to do.” – Derek England


“Our family didn’t start with us, and it won’t end with our kids.” – Derek England


“Where there is a lack of vision, the people perish… Where there’s a lack of vision for your family, it won’t thrive.” – Catherine

Anecdotes That Hit Home


Catherine shares how her daughter discovered a laser-focus and passion in Civil Air Patrol after struggling with direction—a real-life testimony to the power of clarifying vision.


Families are reminded that it’s never too late, quoting: “The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago. The second best time is today.”

Why This Conversation Is Essential for Christian Parents

In an era of fractured schedules and constant distractions, this episode equips parents to reclaim the sacred calling of the family—to be the primary place of discipleship, love, and generational impact. Whether your home feels harmonious, focused, or a work in progress, you’ll come away with both hope and practical tools to lead your family with vision and unity.

About the Guest:
Derek England serves as Executive Director of Family ID, a ministry devoted to helping families worldwide build intentional and faith-filled homes. With over two decades of expertise—and his own journey transformed through the Family ID process—he’s passionate about helping parents move from reaction to intentionality.

Are you ready to answer: “Who are we?”
Visit family-id.com to take the free family identity assessment and begin building your family mission today.

Your Call To Action:
How would your family change if you decided today to live with intention? Why not gather for dinner this week and ask, “Who are we—really?” Take the Family ID assessment together and start a new chapter of purpose-driven parenting.

Don’t drift—build! Your family is worth it.

Resources/Links


Family ID – Free Family Identity Assessment & Master Class
Discover your unique family type, core values, and intentional strategies to build a faith-filled home using the Family ID online assessment and resources.


Catherine Segars’ Free Resources for Christian Parents
Access devotionals, scripture lists, articles, and tools to help you thrive as a Christian parent in today’s world.

What if your family had a mission as clear as any thriving organization? Without intentionality, families don&rsquo;t drift toward health&mdash;they drift toward chaos. In a world pulling parents in a thousand directions, many Christian families find themselves simply reacting, drifting instead of living with God-given purpose. In this must-listen episode of Christian Parent/Crazy World, host Catherine sits down with Derek England, Executive Director of Family ID&mdash;a ministry with over 25 years of experience equipping parents to build intentional, value-driven homes.
Why This Episode Matters: Every family drifts&mdash;unless you set your direction on purpose. Few of us stop to ask, &ldquo;Why has God brought our unique family together?&rdquo; or, &ldquo;How do we intentionally pass on our core values?&rdquo; Catherine and Derek England shine a spotlight on the practical and biblical tools that can transform your family from surviving to thriving.
Guest Highlight: Derek England is not only leading Family ID but has personally experienced how clarifying family identity can radically alter the trajectory of a home. His heart is for every family&mdash;from toddlers to teens&mdash;to discover their God-given calling together.
What You&rsquo;ll Discover in This Episode
Why Family Culture Matters
<ul>
<li>
Catherine reminds us that &ldquo;families don&rsquo;t drift toward health&mdash;they drift toward chaos.&rdquo; The foundational strength of your family is the most important ministry, eclipsing even your career and outside achievements.
</li>
</ul>
Intentionality Over Drift
<ul>
<li>
Derek England explains how, after years of approaching work with strategy and goals but &ldquo;taking family one day at a time,&rdquo; he and his wife attended a Family ID workshop and immediately knew they&rsquo;d found what was missing. &ldquo;Once you think it, you can't unthink it.&rdquo;
</li>
</ul>
Your Family&rsquo;s God-Given Uniqueness
<ul>
<li>
Not every family is called to the same mission. Discover the importance of answering the question: &ldquo;Who are we?&rdquo; Hear how Family ID helps thousands of families articulate their unique identity, purpose, and direction&mdash;with tools that actually shape daily life.
</li>
</ul>
The 16 Family Types
<ul>
<li>
Using research and decades of experience, Family ID has identified 16 different family cultures&mdash;from &ldquo;harmonious&rdquo; (like the elephant: connected and relational) to &ldquo;focused&rdquo; (passionate, intentional, persistent). Find out how an online, totally free assessment can help you discover yours.
</li>
</ul>
Living Out Core Values
<ul>
<li>
Hear how Derek England&rsquo;s family intentionally chooses and lives by five core values such as &ldquo;radically protective of quality time&rdquo; and &ldquo;unwavering integrity.&rdquo;
</li>
<li>
Learn why having just a handful of clearly-stated values provides a shared language and an anchor for decision-making&mdash;even for young kids.
</li>
</ul>
Practical Tools You Can Use Today
<ul>
<li>
Family ID offers bite-sized videos and workbooks to walk you through creating your own family identity, mission, and values&mdash;accessible online, easy to do in short sittings, and free from cost barriers.
</li>
<li>
The Family ID process includes resources to ensure every voice&mdash;including your kids&rsquo;&mdash;is heard as you clarify and celebrate your unique family strengths.
</li>
</ul>
Notable Quotes &amp; Moments
<ul>
<li>
&ldquo;When you know who you are, you&rsquo;ll know what to do.&rdquo; &ndash; Derek England
</li>
<li>
&ldquo;Our family didn&rsquo;t start with us, and it won&rsquo;t end with our kids.&rdquo; &ndash; Derek England
</li>
<li>
&ldquo;Where there is a lack of vision, the people perish&hellip; Where there&rsquo;s a lack of vision for your family, it won&rsquo;t thrive.&rdquo; &ndash; Catherine
</li>
</ul>
Anecdotes That Hit Home
<ul>
<li>
Catherine shares how her daughter discovered a laser-focus and passion in Civil Air Patrol after struggling with direction&mdash;a real-life testimony to the power of clarifying vision.
</li>
<li>
Families are reminded that it&rsquo;s never too late, quoting: &ldquo;The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago. The second best time is today.&rdquo;
</li>
</ul>
Why This Conversation Is Essential for Christian Parents
In an era of fractured schedules and constant distractions, this episode equips parents to reclaim the sacred calling of the family&mdash;to be the primary place of discipleship, love, and generational impact. Whether your home feels harmonious, focused, or a work in progress, you&rsquo;ll come away with both hope and practical tools to lead your family with vision and unity.
About the Guest: Derek England serves as Executive Director of Family ID, a ministry devoted to helping families worldwide build intentional and faith-filled homes. With over two decades of expertise&mdash;and his own journey transformed through the Family ID process&mdash;he&rsquo;s passionate about helping parents move from reaction to intentionality.
Are you ready to answer: &ldquo;Who are we?&rdquo; Visit <a href="https://family-id.com">family-id.com</a> to take the free family identity assessment and begin building your family mission today.
Your Call To Action: How would your family change if you decided today to live with intention? Why not gather for dinner this week and ask, &ldquo;Who are we&mdash;really?&rdquo; Take the Family ID assessment together and start a new chapter of purpose-driven parenting.
Don&rsquo;t drift&mdash;build! Your family is worth it.
Resources/Links
<ul>
<li>
<a href="https://family-id.com">Family ID &ndash; Free Family Identity Assessment &amp; Master Class</a> Discover your unique family type, core values, and intentional strategies to build a faith-filled home using the Family ID online assessment and resources.
</li>
<li>
<a href="https://catherinesegars.com/resources">Catherine Segars&rsquo; Free Resources for Christian Parents</a> Access devotionals, scripture lists, articles, and tools to help you thrive as a Christian parent in today&rsquo;s world.
</li>
</ul>

The Christian Parent, Crazy World podcast with Catherine Segars equips moms and dads to be godly parents in a world that often opposes their faith. As a passionate apologist and seasoned communicator, Catherine unpacks the tough cultural issues facing families today, offering insightful, biblically grounded guidance. Each episode helps parents understand the challenges of our times and respond with wisdom, confidence, and grace.

Topics covered on this podcast include:
What to Do If Your Child Walks Away from the Faith
Can Our Words Change the Future?
Why Are So Many Kids Falling Away from The Faith?
13 Ways To Be a Better Parent This Year
5 Things Every Parent Needs to Know About Gen Z
What Critical Foundation Do Many Parents Miss When Discipling Their Kids?
How To Teach Your Kids the Christian Worldview 
Hope and Strategy for Parents of Prodigal Children

Want to read some of Catherine's most popular Christian parenting articles? Check them out here: https://www.crosswalk.com/author/catherine-segars/

The Christian Parent, Crazy World&nbsp;podcast with Catherine Segars equips moms and dads to be godly parents in a world that often opposes their faith. As a passionate apologist and seasoned communicator, Catherine unpacks the tough cultural issues facing families today, offering insightful, biblically grounded guidance. Each episode helps parents understand the challenges of our times and respond with wisdom, confidence, and grace.
Topics covered on this podcast include:
<ul>
<li>What to Do If Your Child Walks Away from the Faith</li>
<li>Can Our Words Change the Future?</li>
<li>Why Are So Many Kids Falling Away from The Faith?</li>
<li>13 Ways To Be a Better Parent This Year</li>
<li>5 Things Every Parent Needs to Know About Gen Z</li>
<li>What Critical Foundation Do Many Parents Miss When Discipling Their Kids?</li>
<li>How To Teach Your Kids the Christian Worldview&nbsp;</li>
<li>Hope and Strategy for Parents of Prodigal Children</li>
</ul>
Want to read some of Catherine's most popular Christian parenting articles? Check them out here: https://www.crosswalk.com/author/catherine-segars/

Christian Parent, Crazy World is a podcast dedicated to helping you be a godly parent in an ungodly world.

Christian Parent, Crazy World

Christian Parent Crazy World

Discovering Your Family’s God-Given Identity (w/ Derek England) - Archive Ep. 118

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