Have you ever “set a boundary” because a TikTok told you it was the only way to protect your peace?

In this episode of But Are You Happy, hosts Ashani Dante and Dr. Anastasia Hronis unpack the idea of weaponised boundaries and explore how to tell whether yours are healthy gates or rigid walls that might be keeping people out unnecessarily.

You’ll also learn:
How to identify the boundaries that are actually right for you
How to communicate your needs clearly without turning the other person into the villain
Why resentment is often a key sign that you’ve been ignoring your own boundaries
Why “no contact” can be an important tool for safety, but shouldn’t be used as a shortcut to avoid difficult conversations

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CREDITS:

Hosts: Ashani Dante & Dr Anastasia Hronis

Senior Producer: Tahli Blackman

Group Executive Producer: Naima Brown

Audio Producer: Jacob Round

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Have you ever &ldquo;set a boundary&rdquo; because a TikTok told you it was the only way to protect your peace?
In this episode of&nbsp;But Are You Happy, hosts Ashani Dante and Dr. Anastasia Hronis unpack the idea of weaponised boundaries and explore how to tell whether yours are healthy gates or rigid walls that might be keeping people out unnecessarily.
You&rsquo;ll also learn:
<ul>
<li>How to identify the boundaries that are actually right for you</li>
<li>How to communicate your needs clearly without turning the other person into the villain</li>
<li>Why resentment is often a key sign that you&rsquo;ve been ignoring your own boundaries</li>
<li>Why &ldquo;no contact&rdquo; can be an important tool for safety, but shouldn&rsquo;t be used as a shortcut to avoid difficult conversations</li>
</ul>
Watch the podcast on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@ButAreYouHappyPodcast/featured">here</a>.
If you or someone you know needs support, contact <a href="https://www.lifeline.org.au/">Lifeline</a> on 13 11 14 or <a href="https://www.beyondblue.org.au/">Beyond Blue</a> on <a href="tel:1300 22 4636">1300 22 4636</a>. Both services are available 24/7 for free, confidential mental health support.&nbsp;
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CREDITS:
Hosts: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ashanidante/">Ashani Dante</a> &amp; <a href="https://www.instagram.com/anastasia.hronis/?hl=en">Dr Anastasia Hronis</a>
Senior Producer: Tahli Blackman<a href="https://www.instagram.com/zotheysay/?hl=en"></a>
Group Executive Producer: Naima Brown
Audio Producer: Jacob Round
Mamamia acknowledges the traditional owners of the land on which we have recorded this podcast.

Join Ashani Dante and Clinical Psychologist Dr Anastasia Hronis as they give you the no-bullsh*t self-development and mental health information you really need. Because no, another personality quiz won’t fix you.

Join Ashani Dante and Clinical Psychologist Dr Anastasia Hronis as they give you the no-bullsh*t self-development and mental health information you really need. Because no, another personality quiz won&rsquo;t fix you.

But Are You Happy?

Here's When Setting A Boundary Is Actually Necessary 

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